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A Horrible Question To Face: Did I Marry The Wrong Person?

Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:36 pm
Posted by John Keating
College Green, Ireland
Member since Jan 2015
2593 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:36 pm
This is a rhetorical question. I am unmarried.

Yet I have been in relationships where I now wonder if I missed the girl that I was meant to marry. I have no way of knowing for sure. I suppose it comes down to faith? Chance? I know people that are in committed relationships yet still carry a flame for someone else. Some are even married. Such a situation has to be tortuous. I suppose you bury it deep down or perhaps you shrug and settle for the next best thing.

Sorry for the melodrama. I am feeling reflective today. I suppose that it was brought upon by the chick flick that I watched last night.
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
78036 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:37 pm to
then you grow up.
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19054 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:39 pm to
Yea I shoulda married a playboy model
Posted by PairofDucks
Member since Jul 2016
4992 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:39 pm to
quote:

chick flick that I watched last night.


This your problem. Stop watching this shite. Life does not work this way.

Posted by DrSteveBrule
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2009
12006 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:40 pm to
If you marry someone you aren't sure about, it's your own damn fault.

It's truly amazing how people willfully ignore major red flags that pop up before marriage.
Posted by sealawyer
Coonassganistan
Member since Nov 2012
3138 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:40 pm to
quote:

I suppose you bury it deep down


You familiar with Alcohol?
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:40 pm to
Jesus fricking Christ. What Disney princess do you wanna be when you grow up?
Posted by LSU-MNCBABY
Knightsgate
Member since Jan 2004
24353 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:40 pm to
Even if you're pinning away for some broad, she isn't for you obviously so you never had a shot to marry her to begin with. Be happy whatever girl you're with now will have you before you frick that up too
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
66982 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:41 pm to
Marriage is not a magical soul connection to another person full of rainbows, jellybeans, and sunshine.

Marriage is a commitment and working relationship with someone you pledge to put above yourself.

The only way marriage works is if both people compromise and grow together. You have to respect the other person. You have to be there for the good days and the bad.

Also, Bitches better stay making sandwiches. And if you interrupt me watching a Saints game I'll show you equality.
This post was edited on 11/2/16 at 4:43 pm
Posted by LSUTigersVCURams
Member since Jul 2014
21940 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:42 pm to
What is this gay shite?
Posted by Yellerhammer5
Member since Oct 2012
10851 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:42 pm to
quote:

Did I marry the wrong person?


quote:

I am unmarried


No.
This post was edited on 11/2/16 at 4:44 pm
Posted by STLDawg
The Lou
Member since Apr 2015
3703 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:44 pm to
quote:

Marriage is not a magical soul connection to another person full of rainbows, jellybeans, and sunshine.

Marriage is a commitment and working relationship with someone you pledge to put above yourself.


This. Sure there are people that would be better or worse for you to marry, but the most important thing is dedication to make things work. Burn your boats when you get married.
Posted by DustyDinkleman
Here
Member since Feb 2012
18176 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:48 pm to
quote:

chick flick that I watched last night by myself



Posted by Jimbeaux
Member since Sep 2003
20114 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:49 pm to
There isn't a one-and-only-one true love out there for you.

You can and probably will and probably have loved many women. Marriage is a commitment to love (devoted love) and honor (treat with respect) one woman whom you happen to love (romantic love) and want to be around AT THAT TIME IN YOUR LIFE.

Hopefully, if she loves you too, you will grow together, with Gods grace, and even in tough times when the romantic love is absent, you will appreciate the life that you have built together for your betterment, her betterment, and that of your family, should you have one.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11224 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:49 pm to
Any of us could make marriages work with a million different people. Might someone else be a better fit? Yes. But it doesn't mean the person you're married to is the wrong one. You suck it up and try to be content if it's not miserable. It doesn't matter who you marry: sometimes, it'll be boring, stressful, etc.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
52967 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:50 pm to
I saw some chick I know got married and I was disappointed but I'm totally gonna holla at that when she gets a divorce
Posted by tss22h8
30.4 N 90.9 W
Member since Jan 2007
18657 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:51 pm to
quote:

I suppose that it was brought upon by the chick flick that I watched last night.
That'll do it.
Posted by Winston Cup
Dallas Cowboys Fan
Member since May 2016
65496 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:54 pm to
quote:

I suppose that it was brought upon by the chick flick that I watched last night.


Get on your gay dating app and find a new guy to PIIYB.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
39109 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 4:57 pm to
I think we all spend too much time searching for a quality girl/woman to marry.

Choose one that will have you that worked her way through college at Chik Fil a. You can be assured that she has been vetted to be a quality individual.

The fact that she worked there all through school lets you know that she can commit for the long run.
Posted by cjared036
Houston, tx
Member since Dec 2009
9569 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 5:09 pm to
this was almost me.

not only was she messed up. nut her whole family was insufferable.

I tried to look past it all until the shite hit the fan.
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