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re: My fiancee cheated on me.

Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:54 am to
Posted by Merck
Tuscaloosa
Member since Nov 2009
1693 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:54 am to
I'll give you the best advice my mother ever gave me when I went thru a divorce:

The woman you married is NOT the woman you're divorcing.


I know you said you're not married yet, but you have a kid together so the thought still applies. She is no longer the woman you fell in love with, she's a completely different person and she WILL frick you over in a heartbeat. All the sweet nice things she did for you in the past don't mean a damned thing now. Don't fall into the trap of thinking she still has your best interests in mind.
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
54701 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:59 am to
Amen brother on that bold type

That woman I married turned into a self- absorbed, vain, materialistic bitch. She gave me 3 beautiful children and for that I am very thankful but I want nothing to do with the bitch anymore.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 1:05 am
Posted by thejudge
Westlake, LA
Member since Sep 2009
14072 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:53 am to
quote:

The woman you married is NOT the woman you're divorcing.


Excellent post. Medic you seem like real good people. Don't fall into the trap of memories. Y'all Had some good genuine ones I'm sure and a child (the best gift of all).

Close that chapter. I watched a friend not do that. After 5 very tumultuous years of marriage and another child they split. It never was repaired.

Good luck man. I mean that.
Posted by WhiteMandingo
Member since Jan 2016
5642 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:16 pm to
give you the best advice my mother ever gave me when I went thru a divorce:

The woman you married is NOT the woman you're divorcing.


I know you said you're not married yet, but you have a kid together so the thought still applies. She is no longer the woman you fell in love with, she's a completely different person and she WILL frick you over in a heartbeat. All the sweet nice things she did for you in the past don't mean a damned thing now. Don't fall into the trap of thinking she still has your best interests in mind.

there has never been a truer statement I think I've read in my life...
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