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re: Thoughts on Dad/Daughter & Mom/Son Dates

Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:15 pm to
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:15 pm to
quote:

's fricking weird to say you're taking your child on a date.


Why?
Posted by dtmb
Member since Mar 2013
664 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:15 pm to
It's strange to characterize it as a "date" - even more so when people publicize it for facebook approval. A "date" implies that there's a romantic aspect.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:15 pm to
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But I do have a rule that my daughter will never date. If she wants to go see a movie, show, concert, or whatever, me and her momma are perfectly capable of taking her. I'm not about to trust my little girl's life out on the highway to some zit faced punk who just got his driver's license.



Your daughter is gonna end up a ho if this is your brilliant plan.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
15548 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:15 pm to
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if more parents did this .. who knows how much better our society could be?


We need more parenting than taking your kid on a date. Like when shite gets hard, not when you get to buy their attention.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
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Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:16 pm to
I'm against the cake and ice cream part. Ain't raising a fattie.
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
32614 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:16 pm to
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But I do have a rule that my daughter will never date. If she wants to go see a movie, show, concert, or whatever, me and her momma are perfectly capable of taking her. I'm not about to trust my little girl's life out on the highway to some zit faced punk who just got his driver's license.

Good luck with that

ETA: What LNCHBOX said
This post was edited on 4/11/17 at 1:18 pm
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
64908 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:17 pm to
She's 8. Let me hold on to my delusions for now.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
66528 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:17 pm to
quote:

We need more parenting than taking your kid on a date. Like when shite gets hard, not when you get to buy their attention.


so spending time with you kid is buying their attention?
Posted by Kracka
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Aug 2004
40864 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:17 pm to
quote:

quote:
Also, if you want to raise a woman who has a healthy attitude towards men, giving her one afternoon a month where she has to look pretty before she’s given treats? Not the way to do it.


Or maybe some people just like having a nice night out. For fricks sake.


My guess is the person making that remark either goes out looking like she just rolled out of the mud pit to impress her lover with how real she is.

But the reality is, she probably get's all "duded" up so she can look nice while out with her lover. Then posts on facebook while they are out.
Posted by LZ83
La
Member since Sep 2016
17406 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:18 pm to
My daughter is soon to be 4 and she pretty much goes everywhere with me. She loves my wife also but would rather be with daddy.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Member since Jun 2009
84377 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:18 pm to
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She's 8. Let me hold on to my delusions for now.




I've got a 6 month old. I hear you, but I'm a realist.

I've seen what the daughters that are overprotected end up like.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36791 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:18 pm to
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Why?


no kidding. Its only weird if you think of it from a perverse perspective. I mean, I can understand if you called it cliche, but weird? Seriously?
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
51419 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:18 pm to
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See a lot of this being posted on the facebooks and such.


So you're supposed to plaster it all over Facebook whenever you spend time with your child like you should be doing anyways?

Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18064 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:19 pm to
My daughter is 16 months and I may take off work to take her for a daddy/daughter lunch tomorrow. She is growing up so fast, I want to spend as much time as possible with her.
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
32614 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:21 pm to
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I've seen what the daughters that are overprotected end up like.

Reggie's was always full of them.
Posted by Broke
AKA Buttercup
Member since Sep 2006
65055 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:21 pm to
If you are a father and you aren't taking your kids to do cool stuff by yourself, you suck. I don't give a shite what anyone else thinks of my activities with my kids.

But, don't blast this shite on Facebook, it's stupid.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36791 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:21 pm to
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We need more parenting than taking your kid on a date. Like when shite gets hard, not when you get to buy their attention.


we REALLY need everyone to quit being so hypersensitive and bitching about every nice, innocent thing someone does. You sound like an SJW. Only instead of bitching about repressed feminism, you're bitching about a parent not doing enough.

Its a nice gesture. Say something positive about it or STFU.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65993 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:23 pm to
And now for the-



The dad roofies the daughter during the date and takes the her over to a cousin/uncle/sibling's (known there as a "cus") trailer and they all have their way with her.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
262129 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:27 pm to
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Its only weird if you think of it from a perverse perspective. I mean, I can understand if you called it cliche, but weird? Seriously?


Yep, there are some perverse frickers in here.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
64908 posts
Posted on 4/11/17 at 1:28 pm to
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I've got a 6 month old. I hear you, but I'm a realist.

I've seen what the daughters that are overprotected end up like.


Same here. They get that first taste of freedom and they go totally nuts.

The best thing you can do as her dad is be the best example of what a man should be in her eyes so that (hopefully) when she grows up she holds guys to a higher standard when it comes to winning her attention. Add in a momma that teaches her how to be a lady and hopefully between these two things you'll have done right by her.
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