re: re: For The First Time in My Life Tonight *Update on pg. 10*

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I did call him an a-hole. Then, a douche. His response to being called a douche, which was hilarious, was to call me dumb, and then ask me what a douche is, then act like he knew what it was the whole time.

At no point was I about to call him the n-word or something racially charged because that's not what I'm about nor what I want to be perceived as. Plus, I've been playing basketball in predominately black gyms since college so I've heard it all before and brushed it off, but this particular time I got unhinged by his bull shite and felt compelled to challenge him. I don't regret saying what I was thinking at the time, but I regret having thought it might have led to anything positive.

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I don't understand when douche became a bad thing anyway. What is bad about something that makes a woman feel fresh and clean "down there"? What is bad about something that makes a pussy clean and fresh and feel good? Hell I would wear the moniker of douche like a badge of honor....very few men have ever made a pussy feel as good as a $.99 bottle of summers eve....


Your encounter could have lead to something positive....you could have whupped his arse or got your arse whupped but one thing for certain is that you wouldn't be worried about it after the fact...whup an arse or get an arse whupped either way it is better than feeling like less than a man....


It takes a very big man to walk away from a fight he hasn't started....but you interjected yourself...you wanted in and when you got in you are shocked at the consequences....what did you expect ole boy to do when you called him a douche? Reflect for a moment and say "you are correct...dammit...I gotta work on that"????

No my friend you wanted in.....you needed in...apparently you feel like you have bent over backwards in the past to over look similar situations and that shite has been eating away at you and you finally had enough....yet you weren't ready for the aftermath....because you are a white man who is shocked to find that someone would das take umbrage when you declare them an a-hole and a douche...how dare that damned darkY?????