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re: How much term life insurance should you carry? If at all?
Posted on 3/5/17 at 7:05 pm to SECdragonmaster
Posted on 3/5/17 at 7:05 pm to SECdragonmaster
You bring up an excellent point about asymmetry in life insurance, and also regarding the potential future wages of the surviving spouse. I can completely understand carrying 10x salary or more if you have minor children, or a child or spouse incapable of supporting him/herself. But I don't understand the idea of buying huge policies so that a well-educated surviving spouse can enjoy a work-free existence should you pass away first.
I know of a distant relation whose husband died of lung cancer...not exactly a surprise, as he was a lifelong smoker. He very thoughtfully bought a huge policy from his employer & made his wife & (now adult) son equal beneficiaries. He had a long, unpleasant struggle w/cancer & died at home. Fast forward a few years, and his wife & son are mired in a directionless existence, stuck in grief. Neither one has to work anymore, thanks to the fat insurance payoff. But I keep thinking that at least work would get them out of the house on a daily basis, interacting with other people. Instead, they've formed a self-referential closed loop of grief. It's a terrible thing to see--and certainly they prob had some mental health issues before this--but getting up & going to work might have a profound positive effect on these two.
I know of a distant relation whose husband died of lung cancer...not exactly a surprise, as he was a lifelong smoker. He very thoughtfully bought a huge policy from his employer & made his wife & (now adult) son equal beneficiaries. He had a long, unpleasant struggle w/cancer & died at home. Fast forward a few years, and his wife & son are mired in a directionless existence, stuck in grief. Neither one has to work anymore, thanks to the fat insurance payoff. But I keep thinking that at least work would get them out of the house on a daily basis, interacting with other people. Instead, they've formed a self-referential closed loop of grief. It's a terrible thing to see--and certainly they prob had some mental health issues before this--but getting up & going to work might have a profound positive effect on these two.
Posted on 3/6/17 at 8:17 am to hungryone
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Fast forward a few years, and his wife & son are mired in a directionless existence, stuck in grief. Neither one has to work anymore, thanks to the fat insurance payoff. But I keep thinking that at least work would get them out of the house on a daily basis, interacting with other people. Instead, they've formed a self-referential closed loop of grief. It's a terrible thing to see--and certainly they prob had some mental health issues before this--but getting up & going to work might have a profound positive effect on these two.
I mean this is like blaming the lottery. People who are shite heads are going to be shite heads.
I do agree that insurance isn't to setup wife/kids to never work.
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