re: My Apology to the Board for my Conduct (Why I Am The Result Of Feminism)

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The only real solution is to go big. 

Terrible. Instead try to get to know women as people and not just orifices for your dick.

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How much pussy have you gotten?

Leave this topic to the experts sweetheart.

Alright. I'll bite.

OP, I think you're over-thinking this. From what I can tell, you seem like a sincere guy, and there's nothing wrong with that. That's a good quality. But throw away all the "society" level thinking. It's not helping you. This is a personal issue. Society isn't making you into who you are, and your isolated case is not affecting society. Your own behavior, patterns, and choices make you who you are. So let's focus on you.

I'm going to give you some unsolicited advice. I'm old. I'm a veteran of all of this man/woman/relationship stuff. So this advice is coming from a good source. Yes. Women do like the alpha male personality. But here's the thing. You don't have to be 100% alpha. Even if you're 20% alpha, you can be successful.

You don't have to change your personality from top to bottom. I think you just need to change your approach a little.

Here's two things that will help you:

First, a lot of "nice guys" suffer from a very particular personality trait. They are afraid if they rock the boat... no one is going to like or love them. I want you to think about this real hard. Why is it that you are nice to people? Is it because you are naturally, genuinely nice... or is it because you feel like you should or you have to be nice to win their approval? Think about this real hard. I mean, spend days thinking about it. You might discover the root of why you feel you can't be yourself around women or certain other people. People (women included) aren't always going to abandon you if you speak up for yourself, or if you assert your point of view. Try it. Work on this more. Defeating this line of thinking is really hard, but it's worth the fight.

Second, don't assume that women want someone who does everything they want, when they want it. In my experience, they like it when a man makes a few decisions for them. For example, when you ask a woman out, don't say "Do you want to do something on Friday night? Where do you want to go? Anything is fine with me. I'm flexible." Instead, say, "Hey, I'm going to the LSU baseball game Friday night. I have an extra ticket. I would like you to come." This shows that you are going to the game, regardless of whether she goes or not. You establish yourself as a man who does things on his own, and she's choosing to be part of the adventure.

That's not a huge alpha move. That's just a little alpha move. You have to admit, you don't have to change who you are to do that, right? So do it.

OP, you don't need a radical overhaul. You just need guidance, man.

IF, I repeat IF you think you've got a piece of arse lined up, excuse yourself, go to the bathroom and rub one out. If not, after 30+ years of anticipation, you'll be lucky to even get the tip in before your gun goes off.

This is the best advice anyone has given you in this tread thus far.

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This should make you feel real good.
I am a man that scratches his balls, don't care what people think, use to box, if my clothes do not smell dirty then they are clean ( then my wife makes me change if I wear dirty clothes), sometimes I sit in my recliner naked after eating chili, and walk around the house in my underwear.

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I sure if he follows this advice, panties will be dropping every time he walks in the room.

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So I didn't believe in holding doors open for women, for helping women carry something when they were struggling, paying for dates, telling them they looked nice, etc. I also believed that women should be in combat roles in the military and that if there was ever a military draft again that women should be included.

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I'm not sure if you are trolling, but I'll bite.

Politics aside, there are social norms that are expected of you. Women are subject to foolish societal pressures too. Hold the door open for them, pay for a nice dinner, and try to be easy going enough to amuse them. Making them laugh is critical.

I think you need to spend a year or two playing the field before you start looking for something very serious. Consider it practice.

And for God's sake, stop over thinking this.

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Said no one ever who's had casual sex.

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I've had casual sex and made the claim. Don't play up to stereotypes.
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Someone should send th is to lex and terry, get this guy on who's more pathetic, and get him a paid trip to the bunny ranch.

Once my number hit 20 I pretty much lost interest in chasing poon. I'm not even cute so I feel there's really no challenge, just need common sense.

You be a nice guy by not being disrespectful, not asking for nudes, having actual convo. Do everything else as a man.

Pro tip. When you're with someone, other women will flock to you. Be clear you're just dating and not in a relationship and watch the p fly in.