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re: I consider myself a man of character sadly this is a lost quality

Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:15 am to
Posted by mdomingue
Lafayette, LA
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Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:15 am to
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I consider myself a man of character sadly this is a lost quality



Most of the people I know that I consider men of character tend to think of themselves as incredibly flawed individuals who fail in these areas continuously. In other words, they would never publicly state they were a man of character, at best they would say the strive to be a man character and usually add the caveat that they often fail miserably.
Posted by lsu2006
BR
Member since Feb 2004
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Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:17 am to
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sadly this is a lost quality

I THINK WE ALL KNOW WHO 2 BLAME FOR THIS
Posted by Hog on the Hill
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Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:20 am to
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Our character is much more than just our reputation, what we try to display for others to see. It is who we are even when no one is watching. Having a Good Character means doing the right thing just because it is right to do what is right.
Agreed, and if this is the only thing I ever teach my children, I'll be happy. Okay, maybe not the only thing, but it's really important.
Posted by xLxSxUxFxAxNx
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2003
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Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:21 am to
is this a long, drawn out way to say that you're a good guy and never seem to get the girl. but some bad boy does?

do you wear fedoras?
Posted by Hog on the Hill
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Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:21 am to
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Most of the people I know that I consider men of character tend to think of themselves as incredibly flawed individuals who fail in these areas continuously. In other words, they would never publicly state they were a man of character, at best they would say the strive to be a man character and usually add the caveat that they often fail miserably.
This might be true, but I think there's nothing wrong with being self-aware and honest. I also think it's possible to consider yourself a person of character and integrity, but still acknowledge you have flaws.

In fact, I'd say that acknowledging your flaws is essential to having character.
Posted by To the Dome
Member since Aug 2015
680 posts
Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:23 am to
I know I'm not perfect. Pride humility and forgiveness are not my strong traits. I won't ever be close to perfect but that won't stop me from trying
Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
22486 posts
Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:26 am to
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Abraham Lincoln said, “Reputation is the shadow. Character is the tree.“ Our character is much more than just our reputation, what we try to display for others to see. It is who we are even when no one is watching. Having a Good Character means doing the right thing just because it is right to do what is right.


He also said
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Our republican system was meant for a homogeneous people. As long as blacks continue to live with the whites they constitute a threat to the national life. Family life may also collapse and the increase of mixed breed bastards may some day challenge the supremacy of the white man.


sooooo....
Posted by Womski
Squire Creek
Member since Aug 2011
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Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:28 am to
I agree, Trump and his supporters are clowns
Posted by monkeybutt
Member since Oct 2015
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Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:30 am to
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I know I'm not perfect. Pride humility and forgiveness are not my strong traits. I won't ever be close to perfect but that won't stop me from trying





Posted by mdomingue
Lafayette, LA
Member since Nov 2010
30672 posts
Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:32 am to
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I know I'm not perfect. Pride humility and forgiveness are not my strong traits. I won't ever be close to perfect but that won't stop me from trying


That would be a better way to present the scenario. The key, for me at least, is to aim for perfection and not let the fact that I will not likely achieve it to keep me from trying.

Good luck on the quest, it is a worthwhile one. Your character is who you are. Your reputation can be destroyed by other people, regardless of the truth. Your character can only be destroyed by you, regardless of any lies other people put forward.

Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:32 am to
fricking boom! Historical slam down!! Old Abe was a racist piece of shite. I'm about to go slap a penny with my dick, frick that dude.
Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
22486 posts
Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:32 am to
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I consider myself a man of character sadly this is a lost quality


How is it a lost quality if you have it? Are you saying no one has it? Are you saying more people back in the day had it? When was back in the day? Does that trend continue on a linear scale (i.e. the further back you go, the more character you find)? Is truthfulness, and the presence of values/convictions the only measure of character? Which values and convictions? And do you have any non-anecdotal evidence that those qualities as you define them exist in lower quantities (or is it percentages?) than at other times?

Basically, before you come out in public and preach, you should do actual research. Put in the work. Because while you may consider yourself a "man of character", if I were to judge you based on this post, you both lack humility and the ability to the work that would support your belief. That would make you lazy.
This post was edited on 8/3/16 at 10:34 am
Posted by mdomingue
Lafayette, LA
Member since Nov 2010
30672 posts
Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:34 am to
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This might be true, but I think there's nothing wrong with being self-aware and honest.


Agreed

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In fact, I'd say that acknowledging your flaws is essential to having character.




Also agreed.

I think what I was trying to express to the OP is that he could have presented the subject line a little differently.

Posted by To the Dome
Member since Aug 2015
680 posts
Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:45 am to
A handshake was ironclad. Not anymore. Your word was your bond. Yes I do believe it is a linear scales that as our society declines so does the substance on which sure footed men stand. It's quite easy to jump ship and get on the life rafts. It's completely different to stand and watch the rafts float away while you go down
Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
22486 posts
Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:46 am to
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A handshake was ironclad. Not anymore. Your word was your bond. Yes I do believe it is a linear scales that as our society declines so does the substance on which sure footed men stand.



Well then you are either willfully ignorant of the facts of history or completely stupid.

Also, regardless of the first fact, these are empty platitudes that are in no way more or less true than they are today.
This post was edited on 8/3/16 at 10:49 am
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
67497 posts
Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:48 am to
Character was assassinated along with common sense.....in the mid 80s.
Posted by mailman
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
6143 posts
Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:49 am to
Yup, whats worse us seeing poor character in the workplace, always turns out bad for that person
Posted by To the Dome
Member since Aug 2015
680 posts
Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:52 am to
You do know before lawyers saw such a rise in career choices your word and handshake did mean everything. Or is history just in the way for you?
Posted by mooseofterror
USA
Member since Dec 2012
1339 posts
Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:53 am to
Abe Lincoln = Thanks for BIG Government!
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 8/3/16 at 10:57 am to
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these are empty platitudes that are in no way more or less true than they are today.


Clichés are fun and thinking is hard. Let the dude masturbate his moral ego in peace.
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