Do you visit peoples gravesites?

visit family grave in old Algiers periodically, i have an infant daughter buried there (as well as grandparents, greats, and great-greats)

My brother. Monthly. Just to bullshite with him. Bring him stuff that reminds me of him. Other ones not as often. Maybe once a year.

Some I haven't been back since I buried them

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why

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Aren't we all, as Queen said, just waiting for the 'Hammer to Fall?' Why go early?

no...my beautiful mother always sad she thought it was kind of a silly thing to do. she said that you were just visiting a soulless carcass. i went to my sister's grave once when i was down thinking it might help, but it really didn't so i've adhered to my mother's belief since then and not visited any family or friend gravesites.

I grew up visiting my grandparents. My dad still goes 6 or 7 times a year. I like it. Makes me feel closer to them.

Once every couple of years. My parents are still alive so once they die I will go more often than that. I usually go when I go to my old hometown for Christmas.

I do not. My mom died back in 2011 and I have been to her grave maybe twice.. and that was with my grandparents because they wanted me to go. I just don't get anything from it.. It's awkward to me, going visit someone that's dead. They can't hear anything you say, they're dead and there's no afterlife so there's just no point to me. If I want to thinkg about my mom I can do that anytime, I don't need to visit her grave.

I've gone maybe twice to my brother's. I guess I've always felt like if I needed to "talk" to him I could just as well do it without visiting his grave. I much rather remember him by doing things and going places we used to do and go when he was alive.