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Stage 5 clinger or not?

Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:16 am
Posted by Govt Tide
Member since Nov 2009
9120 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:16 am
Hooked up with a nice divorcee about 2 weeks ago and have made regular visits since. She sends me a text after our conversation last night complaining that I have mentioned an ex a couple of times in our conversations and asked me if I was still hung up on her. Warning sign of a jealous clinger or is she right to call me out for even casually mentioning an ex in conversation with her?
Posted by LSUengineer12
The Best Side
Member since Dec 2011
1850 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:17 am to
When in doubt...PIIHB

ETA: PIIHB
This post was edited on 5/6/15 at 8:08 am
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124662 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:17 am to
She sounds perfect to me

If I were you I'd rush into starting a family with her
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
120389 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:18 am to
Make sure she doesnt know where you live.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98318 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:18 am to
Ex GF? Ex wife with whom you have children? If the former, she has a point. If the latter, not so much. Ex spouses are part of your life to some extent, especially if you share children. Does she talk about her ex?
Posted by Jwodie
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2009
7212 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:18 am to
Need pics of divorcee to fully determine stage of clingyness.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
66982 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:21 am to
quote:

about 2 weeks ago and have made regular visits since. 


If you've seen here more than twice, then you're the clinger, not her.

And if yall only been hooking up two weeks and you won't quit talking about your ex, then you're an idiot.
Posted by AppyTiger
God's Country
Member since May 2015
227 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:21 am to

I laid a divorcee in New York City. I had to put up some kind of a fight. The lady then she covered me in roses. She blew my nose and then she blew my mind.
Posted by terd ferguson
Darren Wilson Fan Club President
Member since Aug 2007
108778 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:22 am to
Walt, I think Chicken should give you your own blog space... you're the Dr. Ruth of TD.

Dear Walt,

I mention my ex-gf a lot around this new girl I'm sexing. Should I get the new girl pregnant to let her know I'm serious about this relationship?
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
16241 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:23 am to
Go ahead and move her in, she sounds amazing
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
80949 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:24 am to
2 weeks in and you've mentioned an ex several times... What the frick dude

Posted by Govt Tide
Member since Nov 2009
9120 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:25 am to
Ex GF (sort of). Someone I dated regularly for a few months but it never got real serious. Granted, I have mentioned her a few times in passing so she probably has a point. I do kinda like the new one. Just was curious if her confronting me on it raises any red flags that I have a clinger on my hands.
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
68364 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:26 am to
Here is some real advice.

Had a roommate in college. He broke up with a girl and started dating new chick. New chick complained to me once he talked about his ex too much. They broke up


Morale of the story: shut you mouth if you want to keep the pussy
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:26 am to
Casually mentioning an ex in conversation? Big fricking deal. She's probably insecure
Posted by LSU8654722
Member since Apr 2014
1495 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:28 am to
Don't know how many times you mentioned the ex, but some women take that shite personally. Makes them feel like your running a mental "compare and contrast", even though you're not and just carrying the conversation. That's way you use "This chick I used to know" or "This chick my roommate dated" instead of the ex's name.
Posted by terd ferguson
Darren Wilson Fan Club President
Member since Aug 2007
108778 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:28 am to
quote:

Just was curious if her confronting me on it raises any red flags that I have a clinger on my hands.



I don't think you grasp the concept of clinger. She just doesn't want to hear your bullshite about some other chick. Would you want her chatting you up about the last guy she was fricking?
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:29 am to
I usually say a friend. It isn't cool to some people to hear about exes. But everyone has them
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:30 am to
I thought the same thing
Posted by terd ferguson
Darren Wilson Fan Club President
Member since Aug 2007
108778 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:30 am to
quote:

Makes them feel like your running a mental "compare and contrast"


Or she's thinking that she's wasting her time b/c the first time his ex comes back he's going to go back to her... b/c he's obviously still hung up on her.

Get over it, man.
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
67497 posts
Posted on 5/6/15 at 7:30 am to
Not enough info to determine if she's a clinger or not but stop talking about your ex and see what happens
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