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I need some honest relationship advice

Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:19 pm
Posted by BugaPainTrain7
Oxford, MS
Member since Nov 2014
11567 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:19 pm
I was with this girl for 3 years talking and dating together, it was long distance but we always made it work. We broke up around July for the reason of the distance was getting to hard for her to handle which I understand. Every time she would leave me she would be crying her eyes out. So it has nothing to do with her not loving me anymore.

So now we are here and we talk off and on..she dumped her ex for me bc she still loved me they only dated for about 3 weeks...she keeps saying she doesn't want a relationship right now which I understand but she tells me she loves me and we talk about a future together all the time...

Every time me and her start to get along great and are happy with each other something happens and she freaks out and changes her mind about everything.

For example I was going to goto the Egg Bowl win her this weekend she begged me to come up so we could be together the overnight she changed her mind and now we aren't even talking again...

I know all women are insane but can someone help me out here this biotch has got me confused as hell

Posted by geauxtigers87
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2011
25241 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:20 pm to
when this place turn into a bunch of bitches looking for relationship advice?
Posted by Superior Pariah
Member since Jun 2009
8457 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:20 pm to
She's banging someone else...wait what are we talking about?
Posted by KosmoCramer
Member since Dec 2007
76556 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:20 pm to
Posted by Come2Conquer
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2004
4794 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:20 pm to
How often during these times when y'all have been together have you been expected to pay for everything?

If > a lot, say goodbye.

If < a lot, she's probably screwing with other guys.

Sorry.

:(
Posted by PBnJ
in your lunchbox
Member since Aug 2009
2643 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:21 pm to
Give her an ultimatum to get her to stop stringing you along. Either commit and be together or GTFO so you can move on with your life
Posted by lsufan_26
Member since Feb 2004
12559 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:21 pm to
Are you an English major?
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
142507 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:21 pm to
no pic no help
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129045 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:21 pm to
How old are yall?
Posted by craigbiggio
Member since Dec 2009
31805 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:21 pm to
She is crazy
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30633 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:22 pm to
Get her pregnant that will force her to stay with you
Posted by OldHickory
New Orleans
Member since Apr 2012
10602 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:22 pm to
Sounds like she's just afraid of getting hurt again.

And she's crazy.
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
43244 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:22 pm to
Run away, dont walk. That will NEVER change as much as you hope it will. Get out.
Posted by CHiPs25
ATL
Member since Apr 2014
2906 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:22 pm to
quote:

I need some honest relationship advice


quote:

O-T Lounge


This should be good....
Posted by Sisyphus
Member since Feb 2014
1824 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:24 pm to
You don't want to hear it because you've invested 3 years in it but it will only end bad.

After this long she would know if she wanted to be with you.
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
66507 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:24 pm to
Posted by J Murdah
Member since Jun 2008
39792 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:25 pm to
stay the course.

if you love her yall need to figure out a way to live nearby
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
47476 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:27 pm to
You don't need help. You need to move on and make her your permanent past. Period.
Posted by Cdawg
TigerFred's Living Room
Member since Sep 2003
59615 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:27 pm to
quote:

For example I was going to goto the Egg Bowl win her this weekend she begged me to come up so we could be together the overnight she changed her mind and now we aren't even talking again...

Ole miss chicks may be hot, but fricking crazy. So here's what's going on. She was waiting to see what her other grouop of girl friends were doing. Nothing yet. She had nothing planned but she needed a guy to be seen with. So she asked you to come up. Well now, her friends have plans and they include this guy she wants to hook up with. Could be money, coke, or both. Sorry bud, you are the back-up plan.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
83958 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 9:27 pm to
She sounds emotionally unstable. Her father probably left her at a young age and she now has abandonment issues. She also might be bipolar.


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