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The last check your parents write should bounce

Posted on 4/27/14 at 2:21 am
Posted by DoUrden
UnderDark
Member since Oct 2011
25965 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 2:21 am
I always tell my parents this and they are doing better with buying/doing things they want and not leaving it all in the bank.
Posted by Caplewood
Atlanta
Member since Jun 2010
39156 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 2:22 am to
ok
Posted by Spock's Eyebrow
Member since May 2012
12300 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 2:30 am to
I hope they're really good at predicting when they're going to die.
Posted by Beerinthepocket
Dallas
Member since May 2011
856 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 2:39 am to
That is one of the dumbest statements I've heard. I'm guessing your family is not into creating wealth that lasts generations?
Posted by 82fumanchu
Saskatchewan
Member since Jan 2014
1970 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 2:41 am to
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92877 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 2:55 am to
Ya.......I can tell you with 100% certainty that my mother will NEVER write a check that bounces!
Posted by DawgCountry
Great State of GA
Member since Sep 2012
30600 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 7:07 am to
quote:

I hope they're really good at predicting when they're going to die.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97771 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 7:07 am to
Not sure of your point here
Posted by Winkface
Member since Jul 2010
34377 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 7:56 am to
You must be a really shitty gift giver.
Posted by LT
The City of St. George
Member since May 2008
5151 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 8:23 am to
quote:

 always tell my parents this and they are doing better with buying/doing things they want and not leaving it all in the bank. 


Perfectly planned finance. This should be everyone's goal.
Posted by SmackoverHawg
Member since Oct 2011
27385 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 8:27 am to
quote:

I always tell my parents this and they are doing better with buying/doing things they want and not leaving it all in the bank.


I'm gonna give mine to my heirs before I die. This "disown them all" and rack up some hella debt on credit I got when I was rich. Then die. May even commit some crimes. Will definitely frequent prostitutes and go in bareback. I mean, what's to lose? I'm planning on being bad grandpa.
Posted by Lakeboy7
New Orleans
Member since Jul 2011
23965 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 8:47 am to
Was at Happy Hour with my now deceased Dad (we had a drink at least once a week) and we were talking about this and he said, "Son, when I die if there is a nickel left over it was a fricking oversight".
This post was edited on 4/27/14 at 11:22 am
Posted by Cajun Revolution
Member since Apr 2009
44671 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 9:03 am to
My dad's parents left him nothing. He didn't have a mother. The little his dad had was cut up over five fighting siblings.

He said it's important to him that he leave me land and inheritance. He wants to start building family wealth...not letting the check bounce.
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
69284 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 9:10 am to
stupid statement.



My grandparents lived frugally, but still had money in the bank when they died.

You don't know if you'll make 80 or 90 or live to 100, so how do you plan to run out before or right as you die?
Posted by Uncle JackD
Member since Nov 2007
58676 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 9:47 am to
quote:

always tell my parents this and they are doing better with buying/doing things they want and not leaving it all in the bank.

frick that.. I was relying on that $ to get my 32' contender.
Posted by Ash Williams
South of i-10
Member since May 2009
18169 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 9:49 am to
Have you considered that some people get more joy out of knowing they're leaving a nice inheritance to their family than spending it all before they die?
Posted by brewhan davey
Audubon Place
Member since Sep 2010
32816 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 9:51 am to
Outstanding financial advice
Posted by TigerTreyjpg
Monroe, LA
Member since Jun 2008
5815 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 11:00 am to
I've the op's quote phrased in a wittier way (pretty sure it was said by Slinging Sammie Baugh). "I hope I run out of money and breath at the same time". I always thought the quote pretty cute. That said, as an older poster, I find myself somewhere between concerned and aware of leaving my daughter well fixed, even though at age 19, it doesn't look like she'll need it. She'll be graduating undergrad on time, and headed to law school in two years.

Her mom and I are divorced, but she's an only child of an only child, and every parent/step parent/grandparent/step grandparent has done well.

While I do not think my financial responsibility extends past educating her, and helping her out as a little as a young professional maybe, I'd feel inadequate as her father if, when I die, my estates check to the funeral home bounced.

I disagree with the op's original post. While under no obligation to do so, I will gain comfort as an old man when I sit down with my daughter, tell her (hopefully as a daughter, mother, wife AND attorney) "this is what I've got, this is where it is, and baby, i'd encourage you to try and create stability for your family by passing on to them even more than was passed to you." Her inheritance will be relatively substantial, again, not necessarily from my wealth, but because she'll have it coming from so many legacies.
This post was edited on 4/27/14 at 11:03 am
Posted by Triggerr
Member since Jul 2013
1898 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 11:39 am to
Everyone has their plan, but yours sucks Mine is to pass along the generational wealth that has already and will be passed down to me and make sure my kids will have a great jump on life.
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19054 posts
Posted on 4/28/14 at 10:30 am to
disagree and downvoted
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