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re: People Without Kids?

Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:44 pm to
Posted by lsunurse
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Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:44 pm to
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what I really don't get is people that get married and don't have kids.



They want to spend the rest of their lives with that other person. They want to build a life with that other person.




Pretty easy to get.
Posted by theBeard
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Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:44 pm to
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This post was edited on 5/7/14 at 8:06 am
Posted by Jet12
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Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:45 pm to
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Sterilization..

But, but, eugenics slippery slope!!
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129052 posts
Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:45 pm to
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No way I'd get married if I never planned on having kids.




So the only reason you married and said vows to your wife was to have kids with her?



Posted by barry
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Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:45 pm to
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Pretty easy to get.



I just find the institution of marriage a lot more beneficial for people with kids.

JMO
Posted by barry
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Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:46 pm to
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So the only reason you married and said vows to your wife was to have kids with her?



Yes, but i've always wanted kids. So I was always going to marry.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129052 posts
Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:47 pm to
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I just find the institution of marriage a lot more beneficial for people with kids.



I get what you are saying. And yes, it is more geared up to provide a stable environment to raise children.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
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Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:48 pm to
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I just find the institution of marriage a lot more beneficial for people with kids.


So if you find out you and your wife can't have kids then you would get a divorce?
Posted by Pilot Tiger
North Carolina
Member since Nov 2005
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Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:48 pm to
yea, and i like the tax benefits i've seen so far too
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129052 posts
Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:49 pm to
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Yes, but i've always wanted kids. So I was always going to marry.



So you would have divorced your wife if after you married she got sick and recovered....but now couldn't have children?


Or would you have adopted?
Posted by Jet12
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Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:49 pm to
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So the only reason you married and said vows to your wife was to have kids with her?

Technically, some people say that pretty much IS the only reason...to provide a stable and loving environment in which to raise children. It's typically a religious view, like I know that's what the Catholic view is on it.

Not saying that's the be-all-end-all reason, but it does exist.
Posted by RBWilliams8
Member since Oct 2009
53419 posts
Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:49 pm to
Definitely


Does private school tuition get tax breaks?
This post was edited on 4/23/14 at 12:50 pm
Posted by uway
Member since Sep 2004
33109 posts
Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:50 pm to
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I drive around with a "Thank You For Not Breeding" bumper sticker on my car. The last thing this planet needs right now is more kids. Earth's carrying capacity is beyond its maximum as it is.
Join the Movement!


Why are you so worried about the earth? You think it will fail us in the 100 or so years the currently existing people will be on it?

Sounds like you adopted a stupid cause instead of having children.
Posted by barry
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Member since Aug 2006
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Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:50 pm to
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So if you find out you and your wife can't have kids then you would get a divorce?



Well I already have kids.

I've often thought about that. If I were unable to have kids and my wife wanted to divorce. I would understand. I'm not sure what I would have done in the opposite scenario.
This post was edited on 4/23/14 at 12:52 pm
Posted by uway
Member since Sep 2004
33109 posts
Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:52 pm to
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Sterilization of those on welfare would be a great start.


I'm not pro welfare, but I would honestly fight against you in the shooting war to prevent forced sterilization of people whose worst crime is dependency.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129052 posts
Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:53 pm to
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If I were unable to have kids and my wife wanted to divorce. I would understand



That would seem pretty shitty of someone if they wanted a divorce over something you had no control over. It's one thing if you both agreed to have kids and then one changes their mind. But if something happens to make you "defective" in terms of having kids? I would imagine that is where that whole "for better or worse and in sickness and in health" part of your vows comes into play.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73713 posts
Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:55 pm to
I would question my wife's commitment to me in general if she would leave because we couldn't have children.

What happens when those kids move out the house? She gone?
Posted by Pilot Tiger
North Carolina
Member since Nov 2005
73175 posts
Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:55 pm to
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If I were unable to have kids and my wife wanted to divorce. I would understand
psh
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129052 posts
Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:56 pm to
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I'm not pro welfare, but I would honestly fight against you in the shooting war to prevent forced sterilization of people whose worst crime is dependency.



Yeah they already tried such tactics in Germany pre WWII
Posted by yellowfin
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Posted on 4/23/14 at 12:57 pm to
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No way I'd get married if I never planned on having kids.


Exactly
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