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re: Anyone else not on speaking terms with a parent?

Posted on 5/8/24 at 10:50 am to
Posted by makersmark1
earth
Member since Oct 2011
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Posted on 5/8/24 at 10:50 am to
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for “doing right things” as opposed to “doing things right.”


I see what you mean. Let me try expanding a little on what I was attempting to describe.

I could become a bank robber and “do things right”, but it would not be “doing right things.”

In other words, one could be incredibly competent at things that are not necessarily “right.” They would be doing “wrong” things “right.”

Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
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Posted on 5/8/24 at 10:51 am to
Money
Is really that important to you????
Posted by madamsquirrel
The Snarlington Estate
Member since Jul 2009
48895 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 11:43 am to
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Not just kids being greedy, but parents leaving things inequitably that causes friction. (Like leave big share to the ne’er-do-well because the other adult kids "don’t need it.") Sometimes it would be better to leave it all to St Jude!

I think a person has a right to do what they want with their own money. However, if you have 5 kids, and all five are decent folks, why not leave it split 5 ways? Trying to fine tune it and say the teacher needs more than the Dr. can, and will, cause hard feelings in many cases. Also, skipping your own kids and making grandkids heirs is another way to stir up shite after you are gone. It takes a strong family to weather lopsided distribution, no matter how well intentioned it is.
caused huge issues in our family but also enabled everyone to see true character (good and bad) of family members
Posted by back9Tiger
Mandeville, LA.
Member since Nov 2005
14167 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 11:57 am to
Natalbany..... answers your question.
Posted by bbarras85
Member since Jul 2021
2002 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 12:03 pm to
This thread is beyond depressing. I guess I am lucky to have two parents that are amazing people. So amazing that I purchased the house next door to there home. They raised four kids who turned out to be successful adults.

Recently my father told me that each of us will receive a large inheritance when he is gone (he is only 65) to my reply was spend every last penny you have enjoying life. There is no reason to leave a penny for me at all and that's the way money should be handled. enjoy your life, i don't need your money, I will make my own way.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
119440 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 12:11 pm to
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I caught her trying to rob me of my father's inheritance.


It was her money
Posted by BeachDude022
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Member since Dec 2006
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Posted on 5/8/24 at 12:14 pm to
I'm not on speaking terms with my god daughter, mainly because i missed her out of state wedding due to a surgery I had scheduled before she scheduled her wedding. She refuses to talk to me now. Oh well
Posted by uscpuke
Member since Jan 2004
5036 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 12:40 pm to
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I'm not on speaking terms with my god daughter, mainly because i missed her out of state wedding due to a surgery I had scheduled before she scheduled her wedding. She refuses to talk to me now. Oh well
there has to be way more to this story.
Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
6571 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 1:26 pm to
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It was her money


Did you miss the part where they had been divorced thirty years and the father had remarried?

Posted by LSUtwolves
Member since Jun 2016
884 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 4:21 pm to
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I’m a doctor, but I don’t really think of my career as defining my success. I know many good people who happen to be physicians.


Thanks but no need for the diatribe. I was replying to the guy saying everyone in that thread lived in the trailer park and were white trash.

Posted by makersmark1
earth
Member since Oct 2011
15965 posts
Posted on 5/8/24 at 4:28 pm to
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Thanks but no need for the diatribe.


I did not mean it to be hurtful.

You’ve done great.
I’m glad you worked hard and improved your lot.

I think you would have been good at whatever you chose to work at is what I think.
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