re: Has the dating scene gotten worse lately?

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And I said before, the ratio is way off on those apps. You gotta find a way to go meet others in person.

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Finding a reason to hang out with single women in real life is key. I found that women’s interest in me grew as I spend time with them. That didn’t lend itself well to online dating where that first ‘date’ is everything.

I joined a group that does 1 service event and 1 social event every month. I made a bunch of friends, both male and female and scooped up one of the girls within a year.

All this BBC bs that some of you guys are fascinated with is disturbing and played out. Some of ya’ll Need to just drop that crap, it’s like some folks fail. Black chicks have hit on this white dude for years.

I’ve known white girls that messed around with some brothers before & now won’t ever date a black dude again. Everyone has their reasoning.

Same thing with automatically accusing someone of being a gold Digger just because the guy is a little older. Maybe the older guy has some game, maybe he knows how to lay the pipe, maybe he’s super funny like a stand up
Comedian.

One thing that hasn’t been said on here is that with Latinas in South & Central America, they LOVE AMERICAN GRINGOS in specific, and it’s not just because they want to move to the USA.

It’s because the Latinos (the men) are overwhelmingly: (but not all of course)

1. Sexist - think women are below their status.
2. Possessive (treat women as possessions)
3. Disrespectful to their woman (almost look to them as a personal maid &
Servant)
4. They are KNOWN to be serial cheaters and often don’t even try to hide it, they could have 2-3-4 different women and think it’s acceptable.
5. Often physical and super heavy drinkers.

6. Large portion of foreign LATINO’s (some of yall don’t realize the difference in “O”
And “A”) Latina is female, but the males are straight up DOGS to their women.

*** all of which makes it So Easy for a gringo American to over achieve quality wise down there.

I had a Honduran that originally moved to L.A. Cali when she was 17 and ended up in Atl and now she owns her own business (makes her own money) etc.. self-made, gorgeous, show-stopper looks, we got engaged and then split up (long story and was mostly my fault). She is Mega-feisty, OCD, and a temper that would scare me at times, and mega-jealous, BUT on the flip side, the most caring, loving. Serving, old fashioned soul that you’ll ever meet. Treated me like a king & this woman could have any guy she wants, real Talk.

After I gave it some time after the break-up, I decided I’ll find one from down there & now talking with a Venezualen that lives in Colombia. Fine as frog hairs & exact same benefits as my old one, but she’s substantially younger.

They are out there, you just have to meet them online and then make a couple trips and see if you have some Chemistry & you can find a solid woman that just wants to be treated with dignity, respect, honor and looking for a change of scenery and to get away from Latino men down there, they will jump into Your arms like your a life raft.

But some of you people just generically categorize or place these auto-responses “oh bbc”, “oh, gold-digger”, “oh, they just want a green card”, your ignorant at best.

You are the clowns that haven’t a clue on different cultures, woman’s needs, and how to Win a woman over. All I have ever dated is 7 to 10’s in my life. real talk,

Resume:
did it when I had no money or I had money.
Swing a BWC
below 6’ tall
I can make em’ laugh (this is key, have a sense of humor, I’ve known some ugly dudes with no money land hot chicks because they can make them Laugh).

[b]Summary:
OP, I don’t know if you’re adventurous or not? But if you are and have a sack, get online and find you a Latina. Like anything else, watch out for the hustles. Vet them, put on your profile that you need someone that speaks at least a some English and willing to learn & tell them you want to learn Spanish. You can teach each other. And flat out, put in your profile that if the chemistry is right and we have a connection, must be willing to move
To the USA.

You’ve got a better shot at this than finding a standard American chick these days. I’ll never go back to That again. It’s a shame, I blame a lot of it on social media and keeping up with the Jones etc…

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What am I missing?

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Stage 4 metastatic breast cancer.

Yes but I wanted results and $500 guaranteed that. It wasn't that much to me anyways and he earned it. A lot of stuff was going on and that $500 was a pittance compared to the trouble I would have had.

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I think a lot of guys sip a bit too much of the "we get better as we get older" juice

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I had more vag thrown my way in my 40's than I did in my 20's. As long as you're not obese or ugly AF, your opportunities increase with your perceived net worth.

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? It seems like once the gals cross 40, their standards drop a lot.

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They really don’t have a choice at that point unless they are top 5%

Women stay home and scroll through tik tok all night now and sip on wine till they pass out with their ozempic watching the bachelor. The times are changing ole boy.

Because they can get dates whenever they want them they have this mindset that they just have to keep looking. The perfect one is out there. Any time they have to put in effort or work through a conflict they use that as an excuse to move on. What they think they are going to find doesn't exist.

So they go through this cycle of finding a good man, getting close to pulling the trigger on marriage, serious issue that are normal on operating in tandem arise, and instead of changing anything about themselves they leave and restart the cycle. They are so used to being independent, the Independence is keeping them from finding a happy marriage.

This is the best prospects these days
Baw got him a threesome


The best are the single mother stories who expect the world be given to them and they deserve nothing but the best. Only some desperate bum wants to financially support and babysit your bastard child.

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I had a Honduran that originally moved to L.A. Cali when she was 17 and ended up in Atl and now she owns her own business (makes her own money) etc.. self-made, gorgeous, show-stopper looks, we got engaged and then split up (long story and was mostly my fault). She is Mega-feisty, OCD, and a temper that would scare me at times, and mega-jealous, BUT on the flip side, the most caring, loving. Serving, old fashioned soul that you’ll ever meet. Treated me like a king & this woman could have any guy she wants, real Talk.

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That is my situation now. She is legal and is a home inspector so she doesn't come with that baggage. The biggest blow up I have seen from her was her sister taking a pic with me and she thought she was getting too handsy with me