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re: Do I pass my 4Runner on to my kids?

Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:04 am to
Posted by BilbeauTBaggins
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Member since May 2021
4883 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:04 am to
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I have a 2011 4Runner (SR5 4WD), purchased brand new. ~140k miles and will last until 400k miles easily I feel. I love it and really don't want to get a new vehicle, but have a dilemma.

You will not get a whole lot for your trade in. You're better off letting your kids drive it until the wheels possibly fall off.

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Do I give one of them the 4Runner and buy something else for me and a cheaper vehicle for the other, keep the 4Runner and buy two cheaper vehicles- maybe a camry/rav4/cheaper tacoma (leaning towards this).

Does anyone NEED to be anywhere besides school? If they work then your situation is different.

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I'd be pretty upset if I handed down the 4Runner and they wreck it- and I know just about ever teen will have a minor accident at least.


I only ever got a speeding ticket. Never caused an accident with the two vehicles that my parents had let me drive. Not every teen is an accident prone driver.

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Also how fricked am I in terms of insurance, car payments etc (assuming I don't buy outright).

Car payments are awful right now. I have heard of some parents just straight up not putting their kids on the policy and pray they don't wreck. Insurance will still cover things at the end.


Do not overthink cars. They are built so that you can get from A to B to C and back to A. It just needs to help you travel. Anything else is extra. If you want extra, sure, add it on but it will not change what the car will do for you 99% of the time. You can teach your kids how to properly maintain your car. Show them that this is the only car they get and if something happens to it, they'll need to figure it out.
Posted by Highway_Man
Member since May 2014
291 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:04 am to
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I’d find a used vehicle with a manual transmission for your kids first ride. Not a sports car though.


That's always been my original plan. I may end up doing that. Maybe a manual transmission accord or similar.
Posted by Highway_Man
Member since May 2014
291 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:05 am to
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People hating on you here must not know the joy of having an old car still running after a decade with several more years in front of you.



Yeah, I know not everyone will get that but it's a special vehicle to me. Installed a nice TRD Pro suspension on it myself, has some badass offroad tires, mechanically been extremely well maintained, etc. It still looks amazing overall. We've been everywhere in it as a family, from driving on the beach, to camping, to the mountains, and countless road trips in between. It's been through some shite but has never let us down. It's basically a family member. I didn't buy it to sell after 100k miles- the plan was to keep it for a very long time.
This post was edited on 1/25/24 at 10:06 am
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
39183 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:16 am to
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I’d find a used vehicle with a manual transmission for your kids first ride. Not a sports car though.


What’s the fun in that? Not a fast sports car…
Posted by H2O Tiger
Delta Sky Club
Member since May 2021
6644 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:20 am to
My parents bought me a CPO 4Runner my senior year of HS. I'm 30 now and one of the dumbest things I did was sell that car. I wish I still had it.

Posted by greenbean
USAF Retired
Member since Feb 2019
4762 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:20 am to
Don't buy the newest gen Tundra.
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
78224 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:21 am to
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I’d find a used vehicle with a manual transmission for your kids first ride.


Why? Manuals are on the way out.
Posted by Highway_Man
Member since May 2014
291 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:23 am to
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Why? Manuals are on the way out.


For one, it's a lot harder to text and drive when you're driving a manual.
Posted by White Bear
Yonnygo
Member since Jul 2014
14209 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:24 am to
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It's a 13 year old vehicle. Jesus. Get over yourself.
a moron seldom comprehends the value of a quality item
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
30183 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:26 am to
First and foremost I would get my kids a safe car. Teenagers are notoriously bad drivers so the likelihood of a wreck is greater. Do you want them to be alive or do you want to say you made a good financial decision.
If you can easily afford it as you claim, put them in a car they will walk away from if they are in a wreck.
Posted by Tvilletiger
PVB
Member since Oct 2015
5209 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:27 am to
I gave mine to my daughter. She never wanted it u til she realized it was a cool arse car and her friends loved it.
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
30183 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:28 am to
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For one, it's a lot harder to text and drive when you're driving a manual.


Which just means they’ll be more dangerous when they ultimately do it.

Posted by CaptainsWafer
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Member since Feb 2006
58417 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:28 am to
Give your 2011 to your kid and I’ll sell you my wife’s (no pics) 2015 with 91k miles.
Posted by Highway_Man
Member since May 2014
291 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:29 am to
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First and foremost I would get my kids a safe car. Teenagers are notoriously bad drivers so the likelihood of a wreck is greater. Do you want them to be alive or do you want to say you made a good financial decision.
If you can easily afford it as you claim, put them in a car they will walk away from if they are in a wreck.


Yeah definitely agree here. I think the 4Runner would accomplish that and if that's how it's life ended (saving my kids life), I wouldn't be upset.

I do have some hesitation over buying a smaller car because of that.
Posted by Don Quixote
Member since May 2023
1792 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:29 am to
definitely keep it, you'll always regret it if you don't. Buddy of mine handed down his 1st gen Tundra to his daughter and she takes good care of it. My wife drives an 09 T4R, last year of the V8 and we'll keep it forever.

When my daughter starts driving, I'm planning on a late 80s/early 90s Volvo 240:



I had one years ago, not exciting but reliable, built like a tank, and safe in the inevitable teen driver crash that's a matter of time
This post was edited on 1/25/24 at 10:34 am
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
167032 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:31 am to
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a moron seldom comprehends the value of a quality item


I’m fully aware.

OP is the one that proposed selling it, not me. Or maybe he didn’t, he blabbered a lot of shite. You pass it down to a kid, yourself a new quality vehicle. This isn’t difficult stuff.
This post was edited on 1/25/24 at 10:32 am
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
30183 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:33 am to
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ah definitely agree here. I think the 4Runner would accomplish that and if that's how it's life ended (saving my kids life), I wouldn't be upset. I do have some hesitation over buying a smaller car because of that.


Seems like the 4Runner would be a pretty safe car. My understanding is that a lot of it comes down to weight and the person with the heavier car tends to win.
No way I would put my kids in a small go cart type car with all the massive suvs around. Give them a fighting chance!
Posted by Highway_Man
Member since May 2014
291 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:33 am to
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OP is the one that proposed selling it, not me. You pass it down to a kid, yourself a new quality vehicle. This isn’t difficult stuff.


I never proposed selling it. It was either a) pass it down to my kids or b) keep it.

And no offense but I don't put much stock in your opinion after you claimed that dude's $100 gift card he accidently posted in another thread, and gave it back after being called out over it (and edited your post that said "haha thanks for the $100")
This post was edited on 1/25/24 at 10:34 am
Posted by GuidoVestieri
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2021
789 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:34 am to
How fricked are you when it comes to insurance???? Buy stock in a vaseline company baw.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
39183 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 10:35 am to
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Manuals are on the way out.


You can talk to your Dr about low T…


Manuals are the best.
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