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re: Follow up re: my imminent divorce UPDATE PG 20
Posted on 8/26/23 at 7:15 pm to TexasTiger08
Posted on 8/26/23 at 7:15 pm to TexasTiger08
quote:I'd be beaming for three months if I broke 80.
Oddly enough I dropped a 78 out on the golf course the other day.
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Posted on 8/26/23 at 7:27 pm to TexasTiger08
Before you get to far gone watch this series.
YouTube link:
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Watch some of this too. Just pick a subject. I would start with "she's not yours, it's just your turn". It's positive thinking so don't shy on it.
YouTube link:
LINK
I'm praying for you man. Hope everything improves soon.
YouTube link:
LINK
Watch some of this too. Just pick a subject. I would start with "she's not yours, it's just your turn". It's positive thinking so don't shy on it.
YouTube link:
LINK
I'm praying for you man. Hope everything improves soon.
This post was edited on 8/26/23 at 7:32 pm
Posted on 8/26/23 at 7:39 pm to TexasTiger08
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I’m a fan of the thicc Latina
First wise thing you’ve said in this whole thread.
Posted on 8/26/23 at 7:49 pm to Quatrepot
Yeah
Posted on 8/26/23 at 8:51 pm to TexasTiger33
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TexasTiger08
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Posted on 8/26/23 at 8:55 pm to questionable
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This post was edited on 8/27/23 at 6:14 pm
Posted on 8/26/23 at 10:39 pm to wartiger2004
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You can make it through this. I went through a divorce after 18 years of marriage and she left on Christmas Day 2019 with my 10 year old son. It’s been tough but you can do it.
That hurts just to read. I'm sorry, amigo. Glad that you seem to at least be in other side.
Posted on 8/27/23 at 6:04 pm to TexasTiger08
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I’m a fan of the thicc Latina
Set yourself a goal to learn spanish. I take lessons with a colombian woman that travels around the world. She is cool as shite to talk with. It costs like $12 for an hour. Not only will this give you a goal but it will also take you out of your comfort zone and get you talking with women you dont know and women that are hot. Get on the italki app and search for women instructors in colombia. There are many of them. I meet with this chick 3 times a week and its like meeting with a friend for an hour talking spanish. She also holds me accountable to learn.
Just set yourself a goal and follow thru with it. Im married and would like to move or spend extended periods of time in latin america in the future when closer to retirement. Something I always wanted to do.
This post was edited on 8/27/23 at 6:06 pm
Posted on 8/27/23 at 6:33 pm to TexasTiger08
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know I’m a buzzkill. Nobody wants to be around me.
This is 100% a choice you actively make.
My suggestion, and this is from my own personal experience: remake yourself. Start pursuing hobbies that you never imagine doing before. Travel somewhere that never interested you before.
You need to kickstart yourself into making better choices in your outlook on life. You simply can not be successful in that endeavor by continuing the mundane path you are on. You are allowing your ex to control your personal worth and happiness. Quite honestly, that is probably why you are in your current state.
Start loving yourself, get some adrenaline flowing, and happiness will follow.
Posted on 8/27/23 at 6:38 pm to questionable
Posted on 8/27/23 at 8:02 pm to Floating Change Up
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Start loving yourself, get some adrenaline flowing
For sure. Best way to grow as a person is to put yourself in situations that dont feel comfortable to your current self. Going to a bar alone is a great example. You might feel awkward and like a loser but as you gain confidence and find yourself talking with others you may notice that you can often times have more fun and experience more alone.
Posted on 8/27/23 at 8:24 pm to TexasTiger08
Just checking back if pics have been posted
Posted on 8/27/23 at 9:38 pm to TexasTiger08
I was in your exact situation. Late 30's, separated, didn't see my kids enough, lived in my one room camp because I couldn't afford anything else due to child support, and severe depression due to the direction my life had taken. I signed up for Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, got serious in the gym, and prayed a lot. Now I'm 9 years down the road, my kids are in college so no more child support (I help them, but not their mom), I have a better job making a lot more money, and I just got my black belt in BJJ. To top it off, I remarried a gorgeous woman in her mid 20's and really pissed off my ex. Life gets better, man. Get fit, get a hobby, and focus on becoming a better person.
Posted on 8/27/23 at 10:36 pm to diat150
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Set yourself a goal to learn spanish. I take lessons with a colombian woman that travels around the world. She is cool as shite to talk with. It costs like $12 for an hour. Not only will this give you a goal but it will also take you out of your comfort zone and get you talking with women you dont know and women that are hot. Get on the italki app and search for women instructors in colombia. There are many of them. I meet with this chick 3 times a week and its like meeting with a friend for an hour talking spanish. She also holds me accountable to learn.
I've been thinking of doing this but haven't set my mind to it. I've also considered taking Mexican dance too. I'm a terrible dancer but this may get me on the floor. Hispanic women love to dance and I love Hispanic women.
Posted on 8/27/23 at 10:49 pm to boosiebadazz
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Real talk clinch your teeth and punch yourself in the face moderately hard just to feel something. You’re numb and you’re cratering and that only gets worse unless you snap yourself out of it. Take a personal week and go to a jungle. Go to a beach. Take some time to get yourself out of your normal environment and go engage your senses in something bigger than you and take inventory of your life and what it looks like going forward. Quit your job. Move somewhere else. You can teach
Well, frick me, non PT Board Boosie is a based quality poster and empathetic human. I’m impressed.
Tig08, hang in there brother, keep marching forward, pray, exercise, read, lean on family and friends.
Posted on 8/28/23 at 8:58 am to TexasTiger08
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Right now? I don’t think so. I feel like I’m in the way. I’m struggling to believe in God. On my best days, I’m still a loner just taking up space. I’m just being honest.
Stop worrying about how you think you are impacting others.
Take a moment to sit and take a journey in your brain to find something you might like to do. Kayak? Art? Build something? Play an instrument? Learn a language? Nothing will seem all that fun because you are still in that (temporary) haze. But find something and go chase it. Do it for you. And as you get better at it, start to think about how you are going to share that someday with someone who will look at you in a way that you’ll see the respect and desire in thier eyes because of what you’ve shared.
Start down that path. You’ll wake up some day months or years from now, and find yourself in these threads uplifting someone going through what you are now. Then, you’ll realize you’ve really made it out.
This post was edited on 8/28/23 at 8:59 am
Posted on 8/28/23 at 9:44 am to TexasTiger08
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I’m a fan of the thicc Latina
what city do you live in hermano?
Posted on 8/28/23 at 12:40 pm to MiloDanglers
I enjoy reading the success stories on here. It gives me a sliver of hope. Prior to this, I battled depression and anxiety. That’s one thing she claimed started to weigh on her, which I now think is bullshite. I’m was the same person day 1 as I was on our most recent times together.
Posted on 8/28/23 at 12:43 pm to TexasTiger08
quote:Then get a fricking therapist.
Publicly, I don’t think I give off the depressed vibe. On here, I definitely do. I find it therapeutic.
This post was edited on 8/28/23 at 12:44 pm
Posted on 8/28/23 at 12:44 pm to Gravitiger
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Then get a fricking therapist.
I have one
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