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re: Divorced baws, tell me it gets easier...
Posted on 6/9/22 at 5:52 am to djangochained
Posted on 6/9/22 at 5:52 am to djangochained
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You spelled losers wrong
Almost certainly your wife is banging her jody as we speak. Making a mistake doesn’t make people losers. Except when you get a divorce. Then you’ll be a loser because you already are.
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Posted on 6/9/22 at 6:18 am to The Scofflaw
It won’t for a while but it will. Just stand strong and talk to others who have gone through it. shite sucks but keep your head up brother.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 6:19 am to The Scofflaw
Best thing that ever happened to me.
It gets a lot better.
Get a good lawyer.
It gets a lot better.
Get a good lawyer.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 6:31 am to The Scofflaw
Wouldn’t know. Been married 4 decades and still going.
Good times, bad times both come and go. Important thing to remember for both of you is the grass isn’t greener on the other side of the fence, and it’s easier to quit than fight through the tough times.
Good times, bad times both come and go. Important thing to remember for both of you is the grass isn’t greener on the other side of the fence, and it’s easier to quit than fight through the tough times.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 6:46 am to The Scofflaw
It depends. Are kids involved? If so, then not really because have to deal with that shite for the rest of your life.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 6:55 am to The Scofflaw
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Divorced baws, tell me it gets easier...
How long has it been?
Posted on 6/9/22 at 7:03 am to The Scofflaw
It does get easier. Probably not as quickly as you hope, but it does come. Be sure to do the work on yourself. Understand your emotions and wounds. See a counselor.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 7:05 am to The Scofflaw
It gets way better. All I can say is be nice and it works much easier. Always put the kids first.
Watch war of the roses and listen to everything Danny Devito says.
Watch war of the roses and listen to everything Danny Devito says.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 7:08 am to The Scofflaw
It gets easier
Up to you how soon
Up to you how soon
Posted on 6/9/22 at 7:18 am to The Scofflaw
My 2 cents, FWIW… when you peel back the onion, marriage is a financial contract and our current laws favor women in court big time. Go enjoy your life and just don’t get married again. Seek counseling if you have mental/emotional issues with it. It’s only a matter of time before you’ll feel much better.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 7:43 am to The Scofflaw
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Divorced baws, tell me it gets easier...
If children involved, that makes it much tougher.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 7:54 am to The Scofflaw
Certainly it gets better. I am a few years into it and am the happiest I have been in my entire life. Truly the adversity makes you much stronger if you let it. I highly recommend you use the time to absorb as much information as you can as it can put a lot of lingering questions to rest. I am not suggesting you swear off women, but the MGTOW community does provide a boatload of concise and uncensored content and you will certainly find answers to questions there. The Blue Pill Professor has a really good intro series of videos. From here your goal needs to be to strengthen yourself and to become happy with yourself. Your kids deserve and need this stability. Broken homes damage children, there is no way to sugar coat it. It happened and you need to do everything in your power to minimize the impact on your kids. Get some good child development counseling for yourself so you can keep an eye around the corner for hazards to their best interests. The book "Mom's House, Dad's House" is very good and was recommended by the counsel I consulted. Do not rush into another relationship as men are notorious for implanting their relationship needs and habits from the previous onto the next. That would not be fair or good for anyone. You certainly don't want to torpedo the new relationship and set another bad example for your kids on how to conduct a relationship. Get hobbies and get in shape and you will be just fine. Put your problems to bed and focus on your children as they didn't ask for any of this. Btw, putting your stuff to bed doesn't mean ignoring or rushing it. Take your time and do it right and do it once. Stay stoic and even keeled in the presence of your children as they need stability and structure.
Edit: I logged in after a long long time of lurking to comment. You can do it baws.
Edit: I logged in after a long long time of lurking to comment. You can do it baws.
This post was edited on 6/9/22 at 7:56 am
Posted on 6/9/22 at 7:59 am to The Scofflaw
Buy you a pair of these...and some good bourbon. They'll get you through.
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Posted on 6/9/22 at 8:15 am to The Scofflaw
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Yeah, and they're my world.
I'm sorry.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 8:15 am to The Scofflaw
Yes it does, focus on family and friends
Posted on 6/9/22 at 8:21 am to The Scofflaw
how many kids? that's the most important factor
Posted on 6/9/22 at 8:25 am to The Scofflaw
Get on some dating sites and use IEATASS as your user name, you’ll forget about that bitch real quick.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 8:25 am to llfshoals
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Important thing to remember for both of you is the grass isn’t greener on the other side of the fence, and it’s easier to quit than fight through the tough times.
sometimes the grass is indeed greener though, and quitting is the right move.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 8:28 am to BARNEYSTINSON
If kids are involved you should work hard to make the divorce work. Even if over time, as it is the kids who end up suffering when things get ugly. If custody can be worked out amicably, it does get better big picture.
Posted on 6/9/22 at 10:05 am to oldcharlie8
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