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This is what happens when kids are given participation trophies

Posted on 11/10/16 at 10:36 am
Posted by ZacAttack
The Land Mass
Member since Oct 2012
6416 posts
Posted on 11/10/16 at 10:36 am
People can no longer handle losing or failure. This is the generation that got a trophy just for showing up. They don't know how to pick themselves up after a defeat and have no resolve to make themselves better. All they can do is bitch a moan and cry to try and get their way. It's worked for the last 8 years, and now I hope that crap is over. Let's get back to winning for our hard work and merits. /rant
Posted by biggsc
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Member since Mar 2009
34209 posts
Posted on 11/10/16 at 10:37 am to
I totally agree. America wasn't built on participation
Posted by BARNEYSTINSON
Member since Oct 2011
773 posts
Posted on 11/10/16 at 10:40 am to
100 % accurate. I see it all the time with youth sports. All kids are required to play a certain amount of time, we have playoffs for the losing teams and everyone gets a trophy. It's a fairy tale that is being sold to these kids. It's not the real world. They never learn that winning takes effort and hard work and that daddy can't help you all the time. It's time to MAGA and it needs to start at all levels.
Posted by mofungoo
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2012
4583 posts
Posted on 11/10/16 at 10:40 am to
I got a participation trophy for voting Tuesday.

It's a Rodrigue blue dog.

Worth $5 on Ebay right now.
Posted by biggsc
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Member since Mar 2009
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Posted on 11/10/16 at 10:41 am to
quote:

I got a participation trophy for voting Tuesday.


Me too. I got a "I voted" sticker
Posted by PeteRose
Hall of Fame
Member since Aug 2014
16875 posts
Posted on 11/10/16 at 10:42 am to
"I voted" = "My candidate should win"

"I didn't get what i want" = Riot, bitching, throwing tantrums
Posted by CaptainZappin
Acadiana
Member since Oct 2016
266 posts
Posted on 11/10/16 at 10:44 am to
I tell family members quite regularly that though I am very successful, I've still lost more than I have won. Kids need to learn to lose.

Kids also need to realize they're special to their parents, but need to assume the outside world doesn't give a shite about them or their opinion in most cases.

Come and interview with me and bring the attitude of "always right" or "I'm special cause Mommy says so" and you'll hit the door. Nut up and take responsibility for yourself and your actions and work for something.
Posted by Tigerlaff
FIGHTING out of the Carencro Sonic
Member since Jan 2010
20876 posts
Posted on 11/10/16 at 10:45 am to
When I see their little socialist flags flying and hear their chants about taking the "fight" to the streets of America, all I can do is chuckle.

These are babies. These are people who do not know the cost of a real struggle. These are people who are afraid of guns and wilt at an unfriendly word.

The media are now asking "how will Trump build bridges with these angry young protesters?" Build a bridge?? Satisfy their demands?? HOW ABOUT HE IGNORES ALL 5000 OF YOU AND MOVES FORWARD WITH HIS AGENDA USING A REPUBLICAN CONGRESS AND SUPREME COURT?

Elections have consequences. Cry on, babies.
Posted by FooManChoo
Member since Dec 2012
41686 posts
Posted on 11/10/16 at 10:46 am to
Agreed. Parents aren't preparing their children for failure, so when failure comes, they have no idea how to handle it.
Posted by MastrShake
SoCal
Member since Nov 2008
7281 posts
Posted on 11/10/16 at 10:51 am to
quote:

This is what happens when kids are given participation trophies
we should post this exact same thing a few more hundred times, im not sure the point has been made yet.
Posted by bhtigerfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
29483 posts
Posted on 11/10/16 at 10:51 am to
For all you Hillary supporters.


Posted by HaveMercy
Member since Dec 2014
3000 posts
Posted on 11/10/16 at 10:54 am to
quote:

I didn't get what i want" = Riot, bitching, throwing tantrums


That's exactly what these riots are - temper tantrums. These losers have the mentality of 3 year olds, so they react like three year olds.
Just a bunch of grown up brats.
Posted by Prettyboy Floyd
Pensacola, Florida
Member since Dec 2013
15665 posts
Posted on 11/10/16 at 10:55 am to
I disagree, I coach baseball and kids learn to win or lose on the field. When I give trophies I talk to the kids about all of the things I seen in them that earned them a trophy for their season and their hard work. Kids just want to be recognized and it's great for the soul. In tball and youth baseball you don't have to give trophies or medals but watching their face light up and giving them praise makes it all worth it. Participation trophies are not the downfall of this country and its a silly assertion.
Posted by ZacAttack
The Land Mass
Member since Oct 2012
6416 posts
Posted on 11/10/16 at 11:16 am to
Praise for hard work is fine. However, there's way too many that get an award for just being there or awards are just made up so that everyone on the team gets one for something. It undermines hard work and dedication. We tell kids that failure is okay, which it is, but then they get an award for failing, which is not okay.
Posted by Prettyboy Floyd
Pensacola, Florida
Member since Dec 2013
15665 posts
Posted on 11/10/16 at 11:30 am to
I'm just happy my child is out participating and not sitting at home on an iPad. I've been coaching youth sports since my oldest was 4 and now I'm coaching both of my boys. My oldest son plays 8u baseball and he's a black belt in tae Kwon do. My oldest son is also very hard on himself and loves to get praise. Athletics aren't something that comes natural to him so he has to work harder at it than most kids but he's an all star player because of that hard work. In the classroom he's exceptional. He's never made below a 95 and His reading level is near 7th grade and his math near 5th grade and he gets rewarded for that as a second grader because schools reward kids for academics however I do reward my child for his hardwork on the ball field and I know how much it means to him. Children a lot of times come from broken homes and the praise on the field is the only praise they get and they live for that stuff. Be happy kids are out of the house and actually involved.
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