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re: Interesting topic for OT parents... Sleepovers

Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:21 am to
Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
101293 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:21 am to
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he people who my oldest would likely sleepover at, granted hes 19 months so I have time to digest this, I have literally known all of my life. Not just them, their spouse, their parents, their spouses parents, their siblings, their spouses siblings. Its one thing to know a family down the street, its a totally different thing that I am referring to.


Your think your kids are only going to go to school with and be friends with other kids whose parents you've known all your life? Where the hell do you live?
Posted by lsuhunt555
Teakwood Village Breh
Member since Nov 2008
38405 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:22 am to
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you instead get to know their friends and their friends' parents.


According to everyone in this thread its impossible to actually know someone. So you sir, are wrong.
Posted by tdog
Madison
Member since Oct 2011
343 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:22 am to
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They are faking, so they can sneak out and roll the neighbors house.


You are probably right, and that doesn't really bother me, I did the same thing.
Posted by bigpetedatiga
Alexandria, LA
Member since Aug 2009
8623 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:22 am to
I hate that people act like there is no middle ground.

I can be protective of my child while still letting them live.
Posted by TIGRLEE
Northeast Louisiana
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:23 am to
Absolutely
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
62729 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:23 am to
That article had some sort of strange religious overtones.
I can imagine the author would also frown upon their little ones from associating with friends of different denominations, as well.
Posted by Ole Geauxt
KnowLa.
Member since Dec 2007
50880 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:23 am to
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I can be protective of my child while still letting them live.



Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
101293 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:24 am to
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According to everyone in this thread its impossible to actually know someone. So you sir, are wrong.


Yep, the world today is littered with nothing but people putting on fronts so they can do sick depraved things with your kids.

Unlike 30 years ago when we all lived in Mayberry.

Posted by lsuhunt555
Teakwood Village Breh
Member since Nov 2008
38405 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:24 am to
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Your think your kids are only going to go to school with and be friends with other kids whose parents you've known all your life?

Considering that the school here is very small and the classes consist of about 20 kids per grade, id say its a pretty good chance.
Posted by tdog
Madison
Member since Oct 2011
343 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:26 am to
I graduated with 375, not one pregnant. My wife graduated with 18, they had two knocked up before graduation.
Posted by TigerPanzer
Orlando
Member since Sep 2006
9476 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:28 am to
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Curious to know how other people feel about this topic.

Couldn't disagree more with the article. Sleepovers were a big part of my daughter's childhood; they helped build her social skills plus they were lots of fun.

Naturally you're concerned about your kid's well being outside you're own home, but we got to know the parents of our daughter's friends, we socialized with them and we established trust that way. We always got a clear picture of other parents ideas on responsible behavior and we were glad to share ours as well.

Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
101293 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:28 am to
Sounds rather insular.
Posted by DeathValley85
Member since May 2011
17118 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:30 am to
I have a brother, but he was so much older that I was basically an only child. Man I would have been bored as shite all the time if I wasn't allowed to sleep over at a friend's house.

Though my parents had met all their parents multiple times through school stuff and sports.
This post was edited on 3/4/15 at 10:31 am
Posted by cwill
Member since Jan 2005
54752 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:36 am to
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Sadly, the world has changed in the last few decades, and it is no longer a safe place for children. Pedophiles and child molesters are more pervasive than ever.


James Dobson must be an old person who watches CNN/Fox all day and just feels like the above is true. Because it's not true...people are just fricking idiots and are fricking up their kids lives because of it.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
34988 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:37 am to
When I was young (almost 30 years ago) I had a neighbor that committed suicide by running her car with the garage door closed. The exhaust ended up going through the whole house killing her husband, son, and a kid that was sleeping over. I always thought about how unlucky that kid was.

People have always been crazy, I definitely don't think it's any worse now.
Posted by TIGRLEE
Northeast Louisiana
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:37 am to
Perhaps your daughter found a new friend and you didn't have much knowledge or trust in her parents... Do you change your tune?
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
TeamBunt General Manager
Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:37 am to
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You should make it a little more obv next time you dont have children.




I have 2 and I don't raise them based on 1 and a million possibilities.
Posted by cwill
Member since Jan 2005
54752 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:38 am to
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According to the nation's top experts, children are actually safer from physical and sexual abuse than they have been for decades. A National Incidence Study of Child Abuse and Neglect issued by the Department of Health and Human Services found that both physical and sexual abuse of children have dropped significantly over the past 20 years: From 2005 to 2006, an estimated 553,000 children suffered physical, sexual or emotional abuse, down 26 percent from the estimated 743,200 abuse victims in 1993. And between 1993 and 2005, the number of sexually abused children dropped 38 percent, while number of children who experienced physical abuse fell by 15 percent and those who were emotionally abused declined by 27 percent.


LINK
Posted by TIGRLEE
Northeast Louisiana
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:40 am to
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fricking up their kids lives because of it.


I can think of one way their lives could get fricked up worse.


But hey... Cnn/fox/old people rabble rabble Derp rabble I'm too cool blah blah blah
Posted by TIGRLEE
Northeast Louisiana
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 3/4/15 at 10:42 am to
1 in a million possibilities Is getting popped by lightening.

Letting your 6 or 7 yr old go home with someone that you casually know is asking for it.

But hey bro....you be you!
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