help an OB'er out

I wish y'all luck sir because I know the angst and pain you folks are going through.. My wife and I were married and tried hard for 5 years to have a baby. We went through all the testing and drug therapies and got to the last invitro/implant option. At that time early 90s it was $10k a pop and not covered by our insurance. I wasn't making much back then and the wife was just finishing up her return trip to grad school so we just had to say it wasn't meant to be. Long story longer 14 months later she gave me a rattle in a box for Christmas and we had our daughter in '97. So even if this doesn't happen now for you guys don't lose hope.