how to address a retired Judge?

Call him by his first name, and act like a boss when you do it.

In writing it should be "The Honorable _______". Orally it should be "Judge ________".

Your Honored?

His First name??

.....who gives a shitte if he USED to be a judge, I USED to be skinny and good looking

Right. I work at a restaraunt and I refuse to call my boss chef. Even our head. Same with professors. Them frickers ain't doctors.

So when playing golf with a judge this statement is actually possible. It's an honor your Honor your honors.

Formally, and if I'm trying to be proper, yes, Judge kind of sticks with a person.

If the guy is over at my home for dinner, I'm calling him his first name, or Mr. ____

You should hit up the help board and ask for a name change.