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Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:00 pm
Posted by Old Money
Member since Sep 2012
36359 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:00 pm
I've been getting this bad recently. It's either I'm not into this girl I've banged once or I'm maybe im too stressed and can't get in the zone. The whole "don't think about it" thing doesn't work at all. Any tips?

My test levels aren't low so it's not that.

Edit: my mind won't turn off during sex. I literally think about everything, like when you try and fall asleep and you cant. That's how I feel but with staying aroused.
This post was edited on 10/20/14 at 10:01 pm
Posted by USMCTiger03
Member since Sep 2007
71176 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:01 pm to
BE the cock.

ETA: Are you taking any meds?
This post was edited on 10/20/14 at 10:02 pm
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
85032 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:01 pm to
Just go to sleep then
Posted by Carson123987
Middle Court at the Rec
Member since Jul 2011
66414 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:01 pm to
Viagra
Posted by WhitewaterDawg
Tennessee
Member since Aug 2011
7233 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:02 pm to
Viagra
Posted by jmcs68
Member since Sep 2012
40401 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:03 pm to
Does this happen when you're alone?
Posted by Kankles
Member since Dec 2012
5914 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:03 pm to
ive got bad news and good news... Sounds like you're gay, but you've caught it early enough that it can be healed with prayers.
Posted by PaBon
UPT 17th W/D
Member since Sep 2014
1891 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:03 pm to
Dating her? Time to move on or take a break.
Posted by K9
wayx....BOBO IN '19
Member since Sep 2012
24022 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:04 pm to
stop masturbating
Posted by Old Money
Member since Sep 2012
36359 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:04 pm to
quote:

ETA: Are you taking any meds?



Nothing. And I'm an active person. I don't need viagra.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:04 pm to
I feel ya man
Posted by Old Money
Member since Sep 2012
36359 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:06 pm to
Not dating. She's really into me and I just can't keep it up. I'm too busy thinking about everything but the task at hand.

quote:

Does this happen when you're alone?


No, it's happened with 2 girls now.
Posted by BobMayonnaise
Memphis
Member since Feb 2009
1371 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:07 pm to
quote:

stop masturbating 
Posted by Voorhies7
Rounding 3rd
Member since Oct 2012
5591 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:08 pm to
Classic limp dick disease
Posted by Old Money
Member since Sep 2012
36359 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:09 pm to
quote:

I feel ya man


It sucks. Chick just left and I feel
Posted by jmcs68
Member since Sep 2012
40401 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:09 pm to
quote:


No, it's happened with 2 girls now.


So if you can maintain an erection alone and not with a girl it may be a mental thing.


Were you drinking?
Posted by USMCTiger03
Member since Sep 2007
71176 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:10 pm to
And you're not gay? Even a little?


What about this?:



How do you feel?
Posted by Old Money
Member since Sep 2012
36359 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:11 pm to
quote:

So if you can maintain an erection alone and not with a girl it may be a mental thing. Were you drinking?


I can tell its a mental thing. Not drinking, in general I cut back on drinking to see if it would help. Same with the nofap thing.
Posted by Putty
Member since Oct 2003
25486 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:12 pm to
Posted by USMCTiger03
Member since Sep 2007
71176 posts
Posted on 10/20/14 at 10:13 pm to
Considering its happened before, you're probably all clenched up and not letting it just happen.

You can google some good info. /r/Sex may have some good info or links.
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