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If you're separated but not yet divorced, should you wait to date?

Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:29 am
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
17004 posts
Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:29 am
I've been separated for about a year now, but I thought I should wait until my divorce is final before dating anyone. Well, I've met a really cool girl that is also gorgeous. She keeps asking me to take her out. Opinions?
Posted by trillhog
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Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:29 am to
so you are on a year dry spell ?
Posted by Byron Bojangles III
Member since Nov 2012
51659 posts
Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:29 am to
frick no. get that dick wet
Posted by Swoopin
Member since Jun 2011
22030 posts
Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:30 am to
How long till divorce is final?

Think it'd technically still be adultery which could make your divorce suck potentially in an at fault state
Posted by Papercutninja
Member since Feb 2010
1543 posts
Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:30 am to
Do it, happiness is fleeting. Embrace it while you can.
Posted by Fusaichi Pegasus
Meh He Co
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Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:30 am to
pics?
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
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Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:30 am to
What an embarrassment
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67079 posts
Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:30 am to
You can talk to her and even flirt, but be upfront about your situation. I certainly wouldn't want to do any real "dating" until the ink is dry and there is absolutely zero chance of reconciling.
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
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Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:30 am to
quote:

I've been separated for about a year now, but I thought I should wait until my divorce is final
What's taking so long?
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
17004 posts
Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:30 am to
quote:

so you are on a year dry spell ?



Yeah, I count like dog years though. So 7 years
Posted by Bunk Moreland
Member since Dec 2010
53288 posts
Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:32 am to
It's fine for you, but I got punked on the other end by this and she got back together with the guy, but at least I sort of saw it coming.
Posted by LSURussian
Member since Feb 2005
126962 posts
Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:32 am to
If you take her on a date be sure to wave to the P.I. taking your picture for your wife's lawyer.
Posted by BeerMoney
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Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:32 am to
got to keep her on the hook till the divorce is final so you can put her on your actual hook. So yeah you better take her somewhere. Just beware the PI with a camera your ex has hour there.
Posted by Mr.Perfect
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2013
17438 posts
Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:32 am to
quote:

Well, I've met a really cool girl that is also gorgeous


90% chance she is bat shite crazy like most women who are still single outside their 20's
Posted by teke184
Zachary, LA
Member since Jan 2007
95333 posts
Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:33 am to
quote:

How long till divorce is final?

Think it'd technically still be adultery which could make your divorce suck potentially in an at fault state


This would be my big concern.

You could set up possibilities for when the ink is dry but playing around while still married, even separated, could see you get bent over on alimony, child support, etc.
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
17004 posts
Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:34 am to
quote:

Just beware the PI with a camera your ex has hour there.



Not really worried about that, since she was cheating on me to pay for her drug habit.
Posted by TexasTiger39
Member since Mar 2009
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Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:34 am to
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This post was edited on 8/8/20 at 11:07 am
Posted by 10/12Split
Bston Rouge
Member since Aug 2012
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Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:35 am to
quote:

frick no. get that dick wet


Posted by LSURussian
Member since Feb 2005
126962 posts
Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:35 am to
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Not really worried about that, since she was cheating on me to pay for her drug habit.

Which means she is desperate to cancel that out in court. Pictures of you with a pretty lady on a date might just do that.
Posted by whit
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
10998 posts
Posted on 7/3/14 at 9:38 am to
I don't know shite about divorce but don't you have to be separated for a specific amount of time before you can go through the divorce?
This post was edited on 7/3/14 at 9:39 am
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