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What defines a homewrecker?

Posted on 6/2/14 at 10:11 am
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17481 posts
Posted on 6/2/14 at 10:11 am
The thread the other day got me to thinking about homewreckers and just what is the exact definition...

For example, I have a friend who had a relationship (almost nightly) with a married chick (at the beginning she claimed they were separated) for almost over a year. But, he was never home and lived in another state after taking a new job and having their new house built and ony came back once or twice a month on the weekends. She lived on the next street with her two young girls and surrounded by mutual friends. We found out that they got divorced less than a year after moving up with him and then she remarried less than a year after that... She was quite the nympho, too...

So, OT, who is the homewrecker? I told my friend he wasn't because it really seemed like she didn't give a sh*t...
Posted by SouthOfSouth
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2008
43456 posts
Posted on 6/2/14 at 10:13 am to
He was a homewrecker.
Posted by FenrirTheBeard
NOLA
Member since Jun 2012
6428 posts
Posted on 6/2/14 at 10:14 am to
She's a ho... for sho'
Posted by cjared036
Houston, tx
Member since Dec 2009
9569 posts
Posted on 6/2/14 at 10:19 am to
if he can claim ignorance on what was going on with the marriage, then she's the homewrecker.

She sounds crazy, and crazy is gonna crazy.
Posted by cleeveclever
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2008
2046 posts
Posted on 6/2/14 at 10:30 am to
I used to think a "homewrecker" is someone who willingly continues an affair while fully-aware of the potential consequences to the other participant's family (wife/children).

However, is there a distinction made for someone who actively advances on a married person and tries to lure them into an extra-marital affair and potential divorce?
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
62985 posts
Posted on 6/2/14 at 10:42 am to
quote:

almost over a year


So right at a year? Under a year?
Posted by h0bnail
Member since Sep 2009
7405 posts
Posted on 6/2/14 at 10:47 am to
Sounds like it was already wrecking, but credit him with the assist.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17481 posts
Posted on 6/2/14 at 10:52 am to
quote:

So right at a year? Under a year?


Meant to say almost a year...
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17481 posts
Posted on 6/2/14 at 10:55 am to
quote:

Sounds like it was already wrecking, but credit him with the assist.


From what he says, I think it was in already full-meltdown mode. I mean, he went over there almost nightly and was only freaked out once when one of the kids walked into the room while he was tapping it. He said she told him to be quiet and took the kid back to bed. To me, that screams "ho" big time and he wasn't a contributor...
Posted by SaintLSUnAtl
THE REAL MJ
Member since Jan 2007
22128 posts
Posted on 6/2/14 at 10:57 am to
quote:

But, he was never home and lived in another state after taking a new job and having their new house built and ony came back once or twice a month on the weekends


He certainly had his priorities in order

Sounds like neither of them cared much about the marriage. Why should your buddy?
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Member since Jun 2009
84083 posts
Posted on 6/2/14 at 10:57 am to
quote:

However, is there a distinction made for someone who actively advances on a married person and tries to lure them into an extra-marital affair and potential divorce?



Yea, that person is called a low life degenerate tPOS.

Way too many fish in the sea to knowingly pursue a married person. That goes for memeber of both sexes.
Posted by DawgCountry
Great State of GA
Member since Sep 2012
30549 posts
Posted on 6/2/14 at 11:03 am to
Adding sour cream at Moe's
Posted by ZereauxSum
Lot 23E
Member since Nov 2008
10176 posts
Posted on 6/2/14 at 11:08 am to
She says she is separated, you take her at her word. No foul on your buddy.

Also, no homewrecker can bust up a marriage that isn't already unhealthy.

ETA: personally, I wouldn't mess with a chick if she's "separated". That can mean a lot if things.
This post was edited on 6/2/14 at 11:10 am
Posted by Beau Tie
Member since Oct 2012
951 posts
Posted on 6/2/14 at 11:46 am to
A homewrecker is a person who actively tries to break up a marriage to have the person for themselves for whatever selfish reason. It's not the person who the married person cheats with. There's always real trouble in those marriages already unless one is just a whore.
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