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TH03
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The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else


is this a valid notion?

I think it helps, but obviously it won't fix anything permanently.

still, it's typically the first, and often times, the only advice people give in a breakup. "go slay some strange" or "just get laid already"

is this just because of the euphoric nature of sex and how it can make you feel better or do people truly believe this is the way to be better?

Spoiler alert for the butthurt


I recently read and then watched Silver Linings Playbook where she fricks anything that moves after she loses her husband in a car wreck and that fricks her up even more, so I'm wondering who actually thinks this is valid advice to give.


also O/U 5 posts before Paige makes a snarky comment to me



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777Tiger
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re: The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else


quote:

is this a valid notion?

yup






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BunkieWrench
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re: The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else


Jesus Flipping Christ...SPOILER ALERT YOU ASSHAT!





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Paige
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re: The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else


You still hung up on her??





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lsuwontonwrap
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re: The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else


Depends on the relationship. If it was the love of your life, banging a new chick probably is only going to make you feel worse.





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TH03
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re: The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else


not really, had a momentary loss of judgement earlier, but I'm fine.

having sex regularly is helping that, but it wasn't the only thing, so that's why I'm asking






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TH03
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re: The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else


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Depends on the relationship. If it was the love of your life, banging a new chick probably is only going to make you feel worse.


well FML then






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crimsonsaint
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re: The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else


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SPOILER ALERT YOU ASSHAT!


Well said. Dumbass OP.






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Skillet
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re: The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else


i think i can speak for paige when i say "Silver Linings Playbook "





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TH03
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re: The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else


it's not really a spoiler, it's part of her character's backstory before the events of the book/movie take place





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337tigergirl
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re: The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else


I think most people feel that way and they end up doing that. Problem is that when the rebound isnt there or after the deed, you still feel empty, alone, and hurt. It's best to work out your issues alone and let time heal. Rebounds sometime works but most times they don't.






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Marty McFrat
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re: The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else


Yes, go out and get all you can.





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Paige
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re: The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else


I'm already over my relationship when I end it





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re: The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else


quote:

TH03
you were just a dumbass when you walked away from the best thing that ever happened to you

now you're just a dick






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MThawg
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re: The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else


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I think most people feel that way and they end up doing that. Problem is that when the rebound isnt there or after the deed, you still feel empty, alone, and hurt. It's best to work out your issues alone and let time heal. Rebounds sometime works but most times they don't.



Well said.
If you loved the ex then doesn't matter you probably weren't together strictly for the sex which is easy to get elsewhere but rather because you clicked in other ways which is hard to find elsewhere.






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TH03
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how am I a dick in this instance?





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Pilot Tiger
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re: The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else


are you emo again?





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TH03
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for the longest time I just had no desires whatsoever when I looked at a girl, so I really didn't want to go pursue anything even though everyone was telling me to





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TH03
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are you emo again?

god dammit, no

I'm just asking questions from the other side of the emoness






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crimsonsaint
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Oh. Okay.





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