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Why is the Grandfather-grandson relationship so special?

Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:19 pm
Posted by Jeb Busch Lite
Member since Apr 2016
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Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:19 pm
I lost my grandad a little over a year ago and there’s not a day that goes by that I don’t think of him. He was 92 so it didn’t come as a shock necessarily, but a year and a half later I still can’t believe I won’t talk to him again. He was and still is my role model.

I’m a young guy, so any of you older baws with wisdom have an opinion on what makes that relationship so special?
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:21 pm to
I was much, much closer to my grandmother than my grandfather. But my grandfather was a tyrannical drunk, so there's that.

My grandmother died in 1986 and I think about her nearly every day. I cried for 2 or 3 days when she died.
Posted by S
RIP Wayde
Member since Jan 2007
155705 posts
Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:21 pm to
I’ll never forget the day grandfather bequeathed the villa in Kennebunkport to me. We had just returned from our annual partridge shoot(i bagged 7, the others no more than 3, but I digress). I think of him every time i wear his Patek.
Posted by JetsetNuggs
Member since Jun 2014
13932 posts
Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:22 pm to
Because they're often a second father with even more life experience.

For late 20's people like me that had grandfathers in WW2, it resonates because they saw shite we hopefully will never have to and can give great wisdom based off of that.
This post was edited on 10/9/20 at 2:24 pm
Posted by Jeb Busch Lite
Member since Apr 2016
1860 posts
Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:23 pm to
My grandad gave me his wedding ring when he was in the ICU a day before he died. I could win the lottery and it would still be my most prized possession. Plan on using it as my own someday down the road
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98195 posts
Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:24 pm to
Grandparents did the trial and error part on their own children. By the time grandchildren come along, they've finally figured it out. Plus they don't have to be the disciplinarian.
Posted by S
RIP Wayde
Member since Jan 2007
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Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:24 pm to


Posted by Packer
IE, California
Member since May 2017
7811 posts
Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:25 pm to
Growing up my father was always the disciplinarian. With my son, he doesn't have to do that and he can just have fun with him because it's my job to be the bad guy now.
Posted by LoneStar23
USA
Member since Aug 2019
5179 posts
Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:26 pm to
Grandpa Lonestar took me hunting to kill my first deer so there is that
This post was edited on 10/9/20 at 2:27 pm
Posted by scott8811
Ratchet City, LA
Member since Oct 2014
11340 posts
Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:27 pm to
with you.... my grandfather escaped the socialist revolution in Cuba, learned the language and built himself a business...man is my absolute hero and always has been. He was essentially my father when my father kinda quit being around for a minute. He don't talk much these days, but being around him is special.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48587 posts
Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:28 pm to
My paw paw was like a second dad to me. I probably spent more time with him growing up than my own dad because my parents were divorced and he worked a lot.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65723 posts
Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:30 pm to
quote:

We had just returned from our annual partridge shoot
<——Shot off with regularity to Susan Dey

Posted by HeadSlash
TEAM LIVE BADASS - St. GEORGE
Member since Aug 2006
49700 posts
Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:31 pm to
quote:

Grandparents did the trial and error part on their own children. By the time grandchildren come along, they've finally figured it out. Plus they don't have to be the disciplinarian.


THIS
My dad used to say the best thing about grandchildren was that you could send them home.
Posted by FlyinTiger93
Member since May 2010
3586 posts
Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:36 pm to
I did more with my grandpa than with my dad. My dad worked a lot, and was resting when not at work.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65723 posts
Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:40 pm to
quote:

My grandad gave me his wedding ring when he was in the ICU a day before he died. I could win the lottery and it would still be my most prized possession. Plan on using it as my own someday down the road
Some Aggie grad will be proud to wear it.

Posted by Dixie Normus
Earth
Member since Sep 2013
2639 posts
Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:48 pm to
Wear my grandfather’s wedding band/watch everyday and am named after him so I am reminded of him every time I see my left hand. He died almost 5 years ago. He was the greatest man I knew (alongside my own dad). I visit his grave anytime I feel like I am losing my footing in life to reorient myself.

I don’t know why that bond is so strong, but I can only imagine it varies by person. My grandfather was the patriarch of a large family and just always had a calm, collected approach to every facet of life. This approach commanded respect every time he spoke for some reason or another.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67115 posts
Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:50 pm to
I barely got that experience as one of my grandfathers died before I was born and the other when I was very young. I would imagine the reason it is so special is that your father had to be the authority figure and disciplinarian while your grandfather got to give you lots of fatherly advice and experiences without all the bad memories from when your dad had to whip your butt and make you do chores.
Posted by Black n Gold
Member since Feb 2009
15409 posts
Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:53 pm to
My dad is not a particularly good grandfather to my kids. Yeah he gets them Christmas presents and watches them on occasion when my wife and I have something to do, but he's so robotic. Makes me a bit sad they won't have that great grandfather/grandson relationship. Cherish it if you have it.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:54 pm to
My paternal grandfather died before I was born, and my dad always said he and I would have been super close because we were exactly alike. I remember we were at a family wedding when I was 19 or 20, and I walked down to the lobby of the hotel in my suit and my dad just froze and said he thought for a minute I was his dad because I looked and walked just like him.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
260816 posts
Posted on 10/9/20 at 2:54 pm to
Im very close to one of my granddaughters, closer than to the grandsons.

Got a 12 year old living with us this year.
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