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re: Why do women stay with guys who abuse them?

Posted on 8/13/14 at 9:52 am to
Posted by deltaland
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Posted on 8/13/14 at 9:52 am to
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I help people who are disabled get gov benefits




Thanks for encouraging useless people to steal my tax money a-hole
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
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Posted on 8/13/14 at 9:53 am to
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rebeloke
i dont know

why do you keep coming back to this board after all the verbal abuse sent your way?
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
52962 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 9:59 am to
why do girls always pick the a-hole and friendzone the nice guys?
Posted by dnm3305
Member since Feb 2009
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Posted on 8/13/14 at 10:05 am to
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Thanks for encouraging useless people to steal my tax money a-hole
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
16082 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 10:06 am to
Damn. I am floored. You have a point. Me taking verbal abuse from anonymous people in a forum is very similar to a woman who let's her SO beat the ever living dog shite out of her repeatedly, while exposing her children to the emotional trauma of witnessing the aforementioned abuse to their mother. Thanks for the reality check.
Posted by Bistineaubengal
Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 8/13/14 at 11:42 am to
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This post was edited on 1/13/21 at 8:58 am
Posted by Supermoto Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2010
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Posted on 8/13/14 at 12:06 pm to
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I don't understand how a woman could allow a man to abuse them in any way and remain in the relationship.

I wish I knew the answer to this. It amazes me how crappy some dudes treat women and they stick around for more. If a male lays a hand on a female, the dude should go to jail. period. end of discussion.
Posted by hoopsgalore
Chicago, IL
Member since Nov 2013
8638 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 12:30 pm to
Am I the only one that has witnessed women being far more verbally abusive towards their boyfriends than vice versa?

Edit: But, yes, in the scenario that the OP has provided, that girl should probably be leaving that guy before something goes horribly wrong.
This post was edited on 8/13/14 at 12:31 pm
Posted by Redbone
my castle
Member since Sep 2012
18840 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 12:34 pm to
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Thanks for encouraging useless people to steal my tax money a-hole


I am disabled and receive some of those benefits. I paid into the system for over 40 years. Why don't you think I should collect some of my money back a-hole#2 ?
Posted by Redbone
my castle
Member since Sep 2012
18840 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 12:39 pm to
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end of discussion.


you can't end this discussion.

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I wish I knew the answer to this.


It's genetic ... seriously. Men will never understand because studies show that in the complex inner workings of the female brain some are still predisposed to submitting to an alpha male to the point of knowing they may possibly lose their life.

quote:

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You race a KTM?
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92876 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 12:47 pm to
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Why do women stay with guys who abuse them?


They tell themselves the guy only does it because he loves them so much!
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
20026 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 1:00 pm to
I have a friend from childhood that always had a loser throughout her lifetime. Each time a relationship with a loser ended, here came another. Most were, IHO, attractive but had shitty or no jobs, no car, drained her funds, etc. Maybe she had that mothering instinct, I don't know.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47474 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 1:04 pm to
haha
This post was edited on 5/16/22 at 12:27 am
Posted by MottLaneKid
Gonzales
Member since Apr 2012
4543 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 4:25 pm to
I know a woman who is very pretty for being in her late 50's. She has been married almost 30 years to a man who tells her what to do all of the time. Come home at a certain time. Clean the house and have dinner by a certain time. He abuses her emotionally but has a great career with plenty of money.

This woman wants out but can't leave cause despite her good looks and personality, she fears that she won't be able to support herself financially. This couple rarely talks and this lady is not happy at all.

They have an adult child who is on her own living a good life.
This post was edited on 8/13/14 at 4:26 pm
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
Lurking the Tin Foil Hat Board
Member since Jul 2009
47598 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 4:28 pm to
We accept the love we think we deserve
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
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Posted on 8/13/14 at 4:39 pm to
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Why do women stay with guys who abuse them?

So often, abusers are those who are able to pick out vulnerabilities in a woman and that's where it starts. There is a systematic removal of family, friends, and financial independence. Rarely does abuse begin with physical violence. It can start with questioning phone calls or even talking to a male co-worker. Then it's "I'm sorry, you're just so pretty and I get jealous."

Once you lose the support of friends and family and you have no financial independence it can be very hard to leave a situation that you know is not good for you. Incidentally, the most dangerous thing an abused person can do is leave the abuser. He will typically become the most violent at that time as he lost the control that he worked so hard to attain.

Then come the fricktards with the "make him a better sammich next time" comments which just adds to the it's her fault bullshite.
Posted by Fight4LSU
Kenner
Member since Jul 2005
9755 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 4:39 pm to
When I hear stories like this I always wonder what kinda family she comes from that won't defend her. I know one thing, if my brother in law ever felt the need to hit my sister or treat her like he owns her, he will have a problem on his hands.
The same goes for my daughter when she grows up. Let a bitch arse think he owns my daughter and see what happens.
Posted by SpidermanTUba
my house
Member since May 2004
36128 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 4:45 pm to
why do guys abuse the women they claim to love ?

would probably be a more relevant question
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33794 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 4:46 pm to
This is one issue that I still cannot understand, no matter how many times I hear about it.

I hear the reasons but can't fathom how someone thinks they deserve to get beat up, or that someone that beats them up is the best they can find, or that someone that beats them up actually loves them. Just not a world I understand or want to understand.

Maybe it's the idea that bad attention is better than no attention. I dunno.
This post was edited on 8/13/14 at 4:48 pm
Posted by CptBengal
BR Baby
Member since Dec 2007
71661 posts
Posted on 8/13/14 at 4:49 pm to
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Well last night I had a business meeting with a lady who is in hiding from her husband. I help people who are disabled get gov benefits


How is she disabled?
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