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Why are people so "look at me" about being sober for a certain amount of time?

Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:11 pm
Posted by Jtigers99
Holly Beach, USA
Member since Dec 2014
1841 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:11 pm
We should honor the people who never had a problem instead.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
108283 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:12 pm to
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We should honor the people who never had a problem instead.



Well then it's not hard for them or an accomplishment. It is for people who have struggled with sobriety.
Posted by Grassy1
Member since Oct 2009
6256 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:12 pm to
You're not very smart.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
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Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:13 pm to
it's a reinforcing mechanism created by AA

it's not a bad thing, especially considering so many people with addiction issues have guilt over terrible things they've done or how their addiction helped frick up their life. i mean they're living in a completely different world than normal people and simple affirmation and support goes a long way in that world
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:13 pm to
This was not a prudent thread you chose to start.
Posted by CootKilla
In a beer can/All dog's nightmares
Member since Jul 2007
5906 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:14 pm to
How about? Look at me, I've been drunk for the last 22 years!
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
19283 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:14 pm to
Because they've been drunk for years and lost everything
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
175863 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:14 pm to
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Well then it's not hard for them or an accomplishment. It is for people who have struggled with sobriety.

so we should honor people with a genetic flaw or a weakness of character ?
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
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Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:14 pm to
this thread is like making fun of a person who was a welfare king/queen their whole lives celebrating getting a job at McDonalds, b/c we think working at McDonalds is beneath us. or making fun of a fat person in a gym
Posted by Dr RC
The Money Pit
Member since Aug 2011
58062 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:15 pm to
If getting some positive attention for remaining sober helps them keep on the straight and narrow than I'm all for it.

Even if they are being high and mighty about it I see little reason to shite on an addict for staying clean b/c they are probably a way bigger dickhead and extremely self destructive when using.
This post was edited on 2/14/17 at 5:18 pm
Posted by OceanMan
Member since Mar 2010
20018 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:15 pm to
Because it's a huge struggle for them to stay sober, it likely hurt a lot of their relationships and they are proud of themselves
Posted by TheArrogantCorndog
Highland Rd
Member since Sep 2009
14814 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:15 pm to
Because it's a big fricking deal for those people... it's literally the difference between life and death for an addict


a-hole
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34508 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:15 pm to
It could possibly have a negative effect as well


If someone goes public with their sobriety then relapses, they may not reach out for help because their pride might get in their way.. I've seen it happen before
Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:15 pm to
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it's a reinforcing mechanism created by AA


quote:

it's not a bad thing, especially considering so many people with addiction issues have guilt over terrible things they've done or how their addiction helped frick up their life. i mean they're living in a completely different world than normal people and simple affirmation and support goes a long way in that world


SFP, sounds like you been there, done that?
Posted by pioneerbasketball
Team Bunchie
Member since Oct 2005
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Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:15 pm to
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This post was edited on 5/5/17 at 1:58 am
Posted by Jtigers99
Holly Beach, USA
Member since Dec 2014
1841 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:15 pm to
Lot of sensitive drunks on the OT during happy hour
Posted by dandan
Member since Nov 2007
4343 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:16 pm to
Let them feel good about themselves. I recognize they are proud of overcoming some adversity and if it helps keep them going I am all for it.
Posted by OceanMan
Member since Mar 2010
20018 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:16 pm to
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this thread is like making fun of a person who was a welfare king/queen their whole lives celebrating getting a job at McDonalds, b/c we think working at McDonalds is beneath us. or making fun of a fat person in a gym


Actually a decent parallel
Posted by TigerBait2008
Boulder,CO
Member since Jun 2008
32426 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:16 pm to
So you make a look at me thread?
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
422428 posts
Posted on 2/14/17 at 5:17 pm to
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SFP, sounds like you been there, done that?

me? no
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