re: The normalization of slapping your wife's/girlfriend's arse every chance you get

Why slap when you can grab?

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Our parents and grandparents were not as trashy as people are today.

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My grandparents had to have a shotgun wedding, they went to Mississippi from Illinois to get married at a courthouse. I asked why Mississippi and my grandfather didn’t know why but just assumed a friend told them. You think about that prior to the internet, and it had to of been a pain to find out what state would marry you right away.

I am waiting for the days when a blow job replaces the "goodbye, I'm heading to work kiss."

I have a friend who has been married forever. His wife still doles out blowjobs all the time. If he says "I'd like a blowjob when I come home from work," 98% chance he'll get one.

She is an OT 5 but you have to add 4 points for the blowjob willingness.

I prefer burying my tongue inside, but I suppose slapping is keen too.

My outlook is the following: at home, my wife's arse is fair game. Showing any affection short of ripping her clothes off or dry humping her is good. The goal is to both show affection and make the kids feel awkward by the affection, because it will actually comfort them when they see their friends dealing with divorced parents.

I want my kids to know Im still attracted to my wife. It helps their psyche no matter how much they protest otherwise.

That’s spanking, not affectionate slapping

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That’s spanking, not affectionate slapping

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Years ago, I knew a girl who loved the rough stuff, including spanking. I was scared to go to bed with her. She was attractive but scary LOL