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Tangipahoa Parish rape victim ordered to pay her abuser child support
Posted on 6/13/22 at 6:35 pm
Posted on 6/13/22 at 6:35 pm
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PONCHATOULA- It's one of the most egregious cases victims' advocates tell the WBRZ Investigative Unit they have ever seen, after a judge awarded full custody to a woman's abuser and forced her to pay child support.
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This story dates back decades and involves a woman who was raped at the age of 16 by a man almost twice her age.
Crysta Abelseth knows all too well about overcoming adversity. The now 32-year old is a mother of a teenager that WBRZ has made an editorial decision not to identify because she's a minor. Abelseth's daughter is the child of a rape.
Abelseth met John Barnes in the City of Hammond back in 2005. She says he offered to take her home after a night out at a local restaurant with friends.
"Instead of bringing me home, he brought me to his house," Abelseth recalled. "Once inside, he raped me on his living room couch."
Abelseth did not know Barnes before that night, but came away from it pregnant.
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Everyone assumed it [the pregnancy] was from a boyfriend, and I let them believe that," Abelseth recalled.
Abelseth had a healthy baby girl, and everything was fine until John Barnes learned sometime in 2011 that he might have a daughter.
"When my daughter was five years old, he found out about her, and once he found out about her, he pursued custody and wanted to take her away from me," Abelseth said. "They granted him 50/50 custody despite the fact that [the child] was caused by rape."
A DNA test is part of court documents that proves with 99.97% accuracy, John Barnes is the child's father.
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Barnes was 30 years old and Abelseth 16 at the time of conception. The act was illegal at the time, even if it were consensual; Abelseth maintains it never was.
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Seven years ago, in July 2015, Abelseth pressed criminal charges against Barnes. A report she filed with the Tangipahoa Parish Sheriff's Office for simple rape details everything that was done to her.
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Abelseth said she waited to file the police report because she did not know the law.
"I thought if I didn't do it the next day, there was nothing I could do about it," Abelseth said. "I went to a trauma counselor, and he said, 'No, you have 30 years after you turn 18.'"
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From 2015 until now, nothing has happened with the report. The Tangipahoa Parish Sheriff's Office says an investigation is still open.
"It was never assigned to a detective, and nothing was ever investigated," according to Abelseth.
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A search of John Barnes shows he owns Gumbeaux Digital Branding, a web company in Ponchatoula. Barnes' website shows Ponchatoula Police as a client.
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Court records in the Tangipahoa Parish courthouse show Barnes admitted he's the biological father of the child. This year, he was granted custody of that child even though a criminal complaint was filed in 2015. Mysteriously those records are under seal, hidden from public view.
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Stacie Triche works for the non-profit organization Save Lives. She's helping Abelseth through this tangled web that allowed her perpetrator to get custody of the child.
"When I found out she was a rape victim, and this rapist could potentially get full custody, that's when I stepped in and said something has to be done about this," Triche said.
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Things took a dramatic turn this year when a judge granted Barnes full custody. It happened after Barnes alleged Abelseth gave her daughter a cell phone. Abelseth said she was also ordered to pay Barnes child support.
"She's been forced to pay her perpetrator," Triche said. "Forced to pay her rapist child support and legal fees and give up custody of the child that's a product of the rape. It makes no sense."
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The WBRZ Investigative Unit discussed this case with the Louisiana Foundation Against Sexual Assault (LFASA). Their lawyers said not only is this egregious, but they've never seen a case like it.
"It seems pretty straight forward that not only did a crime take place, but as a result of the crime, this person should not have custody of the child," Attorney Sean Cassidy with LFASA said.
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He's well connected," Abelseth said. "He's threatened me multiple times, saying he has connections in the justice system, so I better be careful and he can take her away anytime he wants to. I didn't believe him until it happened."
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Barnes admitted over the phone Abelseth's daughter is his, but referred all questions to his lawyer, who never got back to the WBRZ Investigative Unit.
The Tangipahoa Parish Sheriff's Office continues to say the case is still open.
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Posted on 6/13/22 at 6:39 pm to SPEEDY
Sounds like it's time to call on Bobby Bacala Jr. He is no terminator like his dad, but I think he could work this one out.
Posted on 6/13/22 at 6:44 pm to SPEEDY
What the actual frick is going on in Tangipahoa?
Posted on 6/13/22 at 6:46 pm to SPEEDY
That’s definitely some backwoods NorthShore justice, it makes no sense at all.
Posted on 6/13/22 at 6:48 pm to SPEEDY
If she was 16 at the time of conception, that’s statutory rape at the very least correct?
Posted on 6/13/22 at 6:48 pm to SPEEDY
goodness, I thought these type of situations were liberal pro-abortion bull shite
This post was edited on 6/13/22 at 6:49 pm
Posted on 6/13/22 at 6:48 pm to SPEEDY
What the frick kind of justice is this for the victim? Whatever Judge ordered this deserves to be disbarred.
Posted on 6/13/22 at 6:49 pm to SPEEDY
Between this and the Geico lawsuit, I feel like I'm taking crazy pills
Posted on 6/13/22 at 6:51 pm to gizmothepug
Problem is her timeline:
-baby conceived in '05
-father finds out in '11
-father seeks and is awarded custody in '11
-mother files rape complaint in '15, 4 years after the judge awarded him custody
-mother is complaining about child support, her daughter was conceived 17+ years ago, she will turn 18 before this case is back in court
now it shouldn't be hard for the police to prove statutory rape, unless the statue of limitations has expired
-baby conceived in '05
-father finds out in '11
-father seeks and is awarded custody in '11
-mother files rape complaint in '15, 4 years after the judge awarded him custody
-mother is complaining about child support, her daughter was conceived 17+ years ago, she will turn 18 before this case is back in court
now it shouldn't be hard for the police to prove statutory rape, unless the statue of limitations has expired
This post was edited on 6/13/22 at 6:56 pm
Posted on 6/13/22 at 6:51 pm to SPEEDY
How the freak does this happen?
Posted on 6/13/22 at 6:53 pm to Byrdybyrd05
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How the freak does this happen?
The word "Tangipahoa" or the story?
Posted on 6/13/22 at 7:01 pm to SPEEDY
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he owns Gumbeaux Digital Branding, a web company in Ponchatoula.
If this is a profitable business I hope it sinks after this shite. What a worthless arse hole.
Posted on 6/13/22 at 7:04 pm to Breauxsif
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What the frick kind of justice is this for the victim? Whatever Judge ordered this deserves to be disbarred.
this is only her one sided version of the story
a story where she never claimed a rape until many years later during the custody battle which could be a convenient ploy
she lost custody because of good reasons and now must pay for the costs to raise the child. she isnt paying him anything.
none of us know the real story but you damn well know a judge never does this without rock solid grounds to do it and an absolute certainty about the situation.
the only question i have is how trashy could she have been to lose custody, because that almost never happens
Posted on 6/13/22 at 7:07 pm to keakar
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she lost custody because of good reasons
What were those reasons?
Posted on 6/13/22 at 7:09 pm to keakar
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this is only her one sided version of the story
Please elaborate and be very specific.
Posted on 6/13/22 at 7:12 pm to SPEEDY
Typical family court bullshite.
Posted on 6/13/22 at 7:28 pm to SPEEDY
I saw that story on 6:00 news. It doesn’t add up.
Posted on 6/13/22 at 7:31 pm to keakar
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this is only her one sided version of the story
Understood, but how is this guy not in jail?
Posted on 6/13/22 at 7:31 pm to SPEEDY
This POS needs to visit a sodomy clinic over and over.
Posted on 6/13/22 at 7:32 pm to doubleb
Maybe she was hoping it would blow over without her daughter having to know she was a product of rape
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