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Question for those who have lost a close relative
Posted on 12/30/14 at 7:14 pm
Posted on 12/30/14 at 7:14 pm
In the sake of full disclosure, I've thankfully never lost a really close relative, but I'm watching this coverage of people wanting other people (e.g. Indonesian Coast Guard) to hang our of helicopters in what can only be described as "dicey" weather to recover the bodies of their dead relatives who sadly perished in the AirAsia jet crash in Indonesia.
Now, I understand they're immeasurably upset, but what is the purpose of recovering the bodies? I have to assume they're only doing it for the sake of the families. When you lost your close family member, did you feel an overwhelming need to see (or be able to confirm the whereabouts of) the body of that relative?
Serious question.
Now, I understand they're immeasurably upset, but what is the purpose of recovering the bodies? I have to assume they're only doing it for the sake of the families. When you lost your close family member, did you feel an overwhelming need to see (or be able to confirm the whereabouts of) the body of that relative?
Serious question.
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Posted on 12/30/14 at 7:16 pm to PenguinNinja
Chance there were survivors?
Everyone would like to bury their dead, but I wouldn't want anyone to risk their lives for it
Everyone would like to bury their dead, but I wouldn't want anyone to risk their lives for it
This post was edited on 12/30/14 at 7:18 pm
Posted on 12/30/14 at 7:17 pm to Thib-a-doe Tiger
You shitting me? The plane crashed 3 days ago...
Posted on 12/30/14 at 7:18 pm to PenguinNinja
Um, it's happened before
Posted on 12/30/14 at 7:25 pm to PenguinNinja
quote:Lost my dad this year. No.
When you lost your close family member, did you feel an overwhelming need to see (or be able to confirm the whereabouts of) the body of that relative?
Posted on 12/30/14 at 7:25 pm to PenguinNinja
I've lost Grandparents,my Dad when he was 56 and I was 28.
I guess people feel a need for closure and maybe they can't get that when they don't know where their loved one is.
I certainly wouldn't want anyone to risk their life to recover a dead relative.
Some cultures may feel the need to have a body to mourn more than ours'.
I guess people feel a need for closure and maybe they can't get that when they don't know where their loved one is.
I certainly wouldn't want anyone to risk their life to recover a dead relative.
Some cultures may feel the need to have a body to mourn more than ours'.
This post was edited on 12/30/14 at 7:32 pm
Posted on 12/30/14 at 7:29 pm to PenguinNinja
As we covered in the recent wake thread, some cultures are more visual/tactile/touchy feely than repressed WASP Americans, and would want the body if only for the reassurance that they have it
Posted on 12/30/14 at 8:15 pm to PenguinNinja
If someone close to me died in a plane crash or accident, I would want to give their body a proper burial. Seems like common sense to me.
Posted on 12/30/14 at 8:17 pm to PenguinNinja
quote:Just to know they weren't eaten by sharks and shyt.
but what is the purpose of recovering the bodies?
Posted on 12/30/14 at 8:19 pm to Geauxtiga
quote:
but what is the purpose of recovering the bodies?
verifying their death for insurance purposes and claims against the airline...
Posted on 12/30/14 at 8:21 pm to PenguinNinja
How close is close? Is a second cousin close? Is a first cousin close? How about a brother-in-law?
Posted on 12/30/14 at 8:22 pm to Traffic Circle
Closure.
Posted on 12/30/14 at 8:43 pm to PenguinNinja
Wasn't a "must do" thing for me but I can see how I would want this if they'd been lost in an airplane with the "unknown" still hanging out there.
Posted on 12/30/14 at 8:46 pm to PenguinNinja
quote:
When you lost your close family member, did you feel an overwhelming need to see (or be able to confirm the whereabouts of) the body of that relative?
No overwhelming need to see the body. Just want to know close relative is actually gone
Posted on 12/30/14 at 9:07 pm to PenguinNinja
The day and a half we had to wait to see our son, after he was killed in an accident, seemed like forever. I had to see his body and I had to see his car in the wrecker yard.
Posted on 12/30/14 at 9:10 pm to theronswanson
As bodies decompose they create gas. This makes them float. Washing up on shore would be pretty bad.
Posted on 12/30/14 at 9:20 pm to PenguinNinja
yes, there is a strong urge to see the loved one that one last time...as unpleasant as it is, seeing them is helpful from a psychological standpoint...
ETA: I can't imagine how difficult it would be to just get a message that a loved one in the military was missing in action
ETA: I can't imagine how difficult it would be to just get a message that a loved one in the military was missing in action
This post was edited on 12/30/14 at 9:21 pm
Posted on 12/30/14 at 9:29 pm to PenguinNinja
How many days until you are comfortable rubbing one out without feeling like they are looking down on you with disgust?
Posted on 12/30/14 at 9:46 pm to tidalmouse
quote:
I've lost Grandparents,my Dad when he was 56 and I was 28.
I guess people feel a need for closure and maybe they can't get that when they don't know where their loved one is.
I certainly wouldn't want anyone to risk their life to recover a dead relative.
Some cultures may feel the need to have a body to mourn more than ours'.
this ...
i don't think i would demand that type of risk, but i'm not asian/etc ... wanting to see a loved one for one last time is not incomprehensible ...
there are no rules for handling death ...
Posted on 12/30/14 at 9:48 pm to OysterPoBoy
quote:
How many days until you are comfortable rubbing one out without feeling like they are looking down on you with disgust?
that is why it is important to establish that you are a perv with your relatives while they are still alive...
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