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Question about Covenant Marriage in Louisiana

Posted on 10/16/16 at 9:37 pm
Posted by PRarroT
Yonder
Member since Feb 2016
17 posts
Posted on 10/16/16 at 9:37 pm
Short of actually contacting a lawyer (don't even know one), figured maybe I'd get lucky and the OT social lawyers would know the answer to this odd question.

When I got married 8 years ago, it was my understanding I entered into a Covenant Marriage. (Don't even ask why, etc). Well, as I look now into divorce of a covenant marriage, I see all the prerequisites to enter into it. I don't remember specifically documenting fulfilling these. I went and dug up our marriage certificate (the only marriage documentation I could find) and the words "Covenant Marriage" are nowhere on the certificate.

My question: If you have a covenant marriage in Louisiana is it specifically stated on your marriage license? If not, and there are supplimenting documents (which I don't seem to possess at this point), how do I go about discerning if I truly do have this Covenant Marriage?
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
142021 posts
Posted on 10/16/16 at 9:39 pm to
so who's banging your old lady? BBC?
Posted by Anonymous95
Member since Sep 2014
2076 posts
Posted on 10/16/16 at 9:39 pm to
Just give her half and move on.
Posted by MonroeTigerstripes
Member since Jul 2016
536 posts
Posted on 10/16/16 at 9:40 pm to
Contact the clerk of court office where your marriage license was purchased and filed. They will be able to tell you because the additional documents for a covenant marriage would have had to be filed with the original marriage license
Posted by PRarroT
Yonder
Member since Feb 2016
17 posts
Posted on 10/16/16 at 9:41 pm to
So you're saying its not necessarily stated on your marriage license that you entered into that type of marriage?
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
48769 posts
Posted on 10/16/16 at 9:41 pm to
quote:

My question: If you have a covenant marriage in Louisiana is it specifically stated on your marriage license? If not, and there are supplimenting documents (which I don't seem to possess at this point), how do I go about discerning if I truly do have this Covenant Marriage?


Sounds like you're fricked unless you can prove that you're not. In which it seems you can't do.
This post was edited on 10/16/16 at 9:44 pm
Posted by spiderman
Member since Jan 2004
1176 posts
Posted on 10/16/16 at 9:43 pm to
I think there is a box on your certificate to check yes or no for a covenant marriage. Look closer. Box 24

If your certificate is different, call the clerk of court and they will tell you.
This post was edited on 12/14/16 at 5:56 pm
Posted by Tactical Insertion
Member since Feb 2011
3205 posts
Posted on 10/16/16 at 9:44 pm to
Pics of the ex?
Posted by MonroeTigerstripes
Member since Jul 2016
536 posts
Posted on 10/16/16 at 9:44 pm to
Each parish marriage license is different. I worked at the ascension COC and there was a box on our form that asked if you were purchasing a traditional or covenant marriage license. The covenant license required extra steps (like premarital counseling) and extra paperwork that had to be notorized.
Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
23445 posts
Posted on 10/16/16 at 10:03 pm to
The only three covenant marriages I've had to deal with all involved guys who overmarried and wanted to have a better hold on the woman.

Posted by beebefootballfan
Member since Mar 2011
19033 posts
Posted on 10/16/16 at 10:14 pm to
Enjoy going through heck if you did and didn't want it. There are usually strict requirements set to dissolve a covenant marriage.

In Arkansas it's required marital counseling and you have to live apart for two year.
Posted by piratedude
baton rouge
Member since Oct 2009
2504 posts
Posted on 10/16/16 at 10:16 pm to
quote:

Contact the clerk of court office where your marriage license was purchased and filed


This is the answer
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98188 posts
Posted on 10/16/16 at 11:12 pm to
IIRC almost no one in Louisiana opts for a covenant marriage, and there are so many hoops to jump through that you'd remember it if you did.
Posted by 3deadtrolls
lafayette
Member since Jan 2014
5703 posts
Posted on 10/16/16 at 11:35 pm to
I don't even know what a covenant marriage is, but RIP half your stuff.
Posted by PrideofTheSEC
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2012
4982 posts
Posted on 10/17/16 at 12:08 am to
quote:

IIRC almost no one in Louisiana opts for a covenant marriage, and there are so many hoops to jump through that you'd remember it if you did


This. It requires pre-marriage counceling and a sworn affidavit from both spouses that they understand they are entering a covenant marriage.
This post was edited on 10/17/16 at 12:13 am
Posted by HogBalls
Member since Nov 2014
8591 posts
Posted on 10/17/16 at 1:15 am to
Covenant marriage = that little extra security guys cling to hoping their new wife won't take a dick.
Posted by King Teal
The Last Banana Republic
Member since Sep 2016
988 posts
Posted on 10/17/16 at 2:28 am to
This is an easy fix. Call the Clerk of Court and have them pull your marriage license and appurtenant documents.

Good question about if it's on the certificate. Never had a client who entered into a Covenant Marriage. Always seemed to me like one of the more ridiculous bible-beater things my beloved State has done.

Wasn't it a lawyer's idea, at that? I remember Andi Carroll was always touting the woman who pre-visioned it, in a dream no less.

Any Paul Hebert brethren remember?
Posted by Waterboy1972
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2007
1132 posts
Posted on 10/17/16 at 7:00 am to
Check the Clerk's office and ask. You would remember the pre-marital counseling, unless everyone lied about it. Only about 1 in 50 "actually" have a covenant marriage.

If you do find out that you have one, keep in mind that you can still get "immediate" divorce upon proof of: adultery, other spouse committed physical violence on you or any minor children, or the issuance of a preliminary injunction AFTER the hearing on a TRO finding that the other spouse committed physical violence upon you or minor children. There may be other grounds, (felony convictions?) consult with a lawyer.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
39018 posts
Posted on 10/17/16 at 7:08 am to
I thought everyone went through pre-marital counseling? We got married on the gulf coast but we're living in San Francisco up until that date. We were made to meet with some weird priest, take personality tests, go through counseling, did some stupid retreat a couple of times...then damn near repeated all of it with the priest down here before the ceremony. I've never heard of covenant marriage.
Posted by 20MuleTeam
West Hartford
Member since Sep 2012
3862 posts
Posted on 10/17/16 at 8:06 am to
Play stupid games win stupid prizes
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