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re: Need some advice--relationship related
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:36 am to Mullet Flap
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:36 am to Mullet Flap
I can't give you good advice without pics of both
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Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:36 am to Mullet Flap
You're having these dreams for a reason, you need to reach out to your old flame. Make a fake Facebook account with an old mutual friend's name. Message her and tell her you died from a heart attack and you thought she should know. Proceed based on her reaction.
It's a romantic comedy in real life!
It's a romantic comedy in real life!
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:37 am to Mullet Flap
quote:Great, so right when she gets secure with you and let more of her walls down and starts trusting you....you have been thinking about an ex and are thinking about reaching out to her because of some dreams. You are going to end up devastating your current gf if you go about it that way.
It hasn't just been since ive been out of town that she has stopped nagging. It had been around 3 months that it had stopped now ive been away for 2 months but its definitely a noticeable change from the insecure attitude she's had
If you are unhappy with your current gf that is one thing, but if you are hinging on the 'what-ifs' because of the feelings you had for the ex-girl and using current gf's past emotional state with you as an excuse to do something about it....that's not right.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:38 am to Mullet Flap
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She would never trust me
Time to move on brah
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:38 am to Mullet Flap
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However, I am worried that the old attitude will slowly creep back in and I wont be able to take it anymore when I get back.
And you are probably 99.99% correct on that. Don't fall for it!
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:39 am to Mullet Flap
If the old flame hasn't tried to contact you, you may be setting yourself up for disappointment.
And your present girlfriend sounds bipolar. GTFO!
And your present girlfriend sounds bipolar. GTFO!
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:39 am to Mullet Flap
Which girl's family has the most money. Choose that one.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:41 am to Mullet Flap
Being apart is what makes things seem better. It will be good for awhile but will go back to the same once you are back together for a while. Lived it when in the service, and speaking from experience.
You will keep thinking about the other girl, probably for MANY years, thinking what if, and regretting. If you get a chance, I would talk to her. Possible for things to work out now that you've matured. I did this over 20 yrs ago, and she still pops up in dreams occasionally. Been married for 20 yrs btw.
JMO from personal experience. Good luck, and ENJOY your youth.
You will keep thinking about the other girl, probably for MANY years, thinking what if, and regretting. If you get a chance, I would talk to her. Possible for things to work out now that you've matured. I did this over 20 yrs ago, and she still pops up in dreams occasionally. Been married for 20 yrs btw.
JMO from personal experience. Good luck, and ENJOY your youth.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:41 am to TigerPox
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you have been thinking about an ex and are thinking about reaching out to her because of some dreams. You are going to end up devastating your current gf if you go about it that way.
I know it would devastate her..I guess I have the grass is greener mentality right now and idk wtf is wrong with me. Hell, the old gf may not want a damn thing to do with me
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:41 am to KG6
Check and see if your old flame is even single. She might be married with a kid right now.
Drop your current gal no matter what. Things will only get worst after you get married. One word............Run!!
Drop your current gal no matter what. Things will only get worst after you get married. One word............Run!!
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:42 am to TigerPox
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Great, so right when she gets secure with you and let more of her walls down and starts trusting you....you have been thinking about an ex and are thinking about reaching out to her because of some dreams. You are going to end up devastating your current gf if you go about it that way.
If you are unhappy with your current gf that is one thing, but if you are hinging on the 'what-ifs' because of the feelings you had for the ex-girl and using current gf's past emotional state with you as an excuse to do something about it....that's not right.
Pox is on point.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:42 am to Mullet Flap
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:42 am to Mullet Flap
If I were the OP, I'd dump the women, all of them, get a guitar and start writing songs.
In fact, that's what I did. And I've found that, unlike a woman, a guitar will never let you down. You love it, it loves you back.
You'll both love happily ever after.
In fact, that's what I did. And I've found that, unlike a woman, a guitar will never let you down. You love it, it loves you back.
You'll both love happily ever after.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:44 am to Mullet Flap
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I was in a dark place when we dated with some alcohol problems
and cocaine...dont lie....you were snorting coke weren't you?
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:45 am to SCwTiger
thanks for the advice 
the scary part is that I don't know when or where her old attitude will return..but then again if I give the relationship everything I have maybe it will minimize it. It's not that I can't handle it but she has a crazy bad temper every now and then. I guess when I think about someone I know is truly happy and makes me happy I think automatically of this other girl, even when my current gf is trying her arse off to do everything for me to be that girl.
I've come to the conclusion im an arse
the scary part is that I don't know when or where her old attitude will return..but then again if I give the relationship everything I have maybe it will minimize it. It's not that I can't handle it but she has a crazy bad temper every now and then. I guess when I think about someone I know is truly happy and makes me happy I think automatically of this other girl, even when my current gf is trying her arse off to do everything for me to be that girl.
I've come to the conclusion im an arse
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:45 am to Mullet Flap
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idk wtf is wrong with me.
This would be a good place start. Figure out what you actually want and go from there. Handle things with the new gf before you start contacting old flames. And you certainly don't want to go barging into an old gf's life and mess up what she may be perfectly happy with.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:46 am to tgrbaitn08
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and cocaine...dont lie....you were snorting coke weren't you?
ok ok yeah I snorted a little coke
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:47 am to Mullet Flap
Did you ever think that maybe her attitude changes because she loves you so much? I think you're downplaying your feelings for this girl. Maybe you should propose to her and see where it goes.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:48 am to Tear It Up
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If she does this while you are dating it will get worse if you end up marrying her
Most often repeated (and apparently true) line I hear from anyone that's been married. Yet younger people always think their marriage will be different.
This post was edited on 6/30/15 at 11:49 am
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:48 am to Mullet Flap
After 25 years of marriage all I can add is jump on it the water great
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