re: Need ideas for a Fun 2nd date

Way to nitpick my fricking post. The dinner was the important part...and the drive home.

Ugh bass fishing , duh

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Dinner and a good movie. Only the second date. Solidify it by talking to her...more importantly...listen to her.

Make the third one offbeat or crazy. Not the second.

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I disagree. Movies don't make for good early dates. You're basically sitting in relative silence next to each other for 90 minutes. The first three dates are always about getting to know one-another, and going to see a movie may be fun, but it does not accomplish that purpose.

The first date should be something relaxed, but still a little conservative. You're trying to impress her some, but you can't go too far or else you'll look like you're trying too hard or set unrealistic expectations for the relationship. Dinner at at a reasonably priced, but kinda trendy (think Pinetta's, Degullio Bros, City Pork, The Chimes, ect), restaurant is a good play. Baseball games are perfect as an activity because there is just enough going on that you don't need to talk the whole time, but plenty of space for conversation. That's the kind of activity you should be shooting for. Something where you can talk, but don't necessarily have to to keep it from being awkward.

The second date is all about getting out of your comfort zone and showing her a little quirkiness. Mini-golf and go-karts are perfect. It's fun, relaxed, and competitive without being mean-spirited. Paintball may be a little too much (or may not be depending on the girl), but laser tag would likely be fun. Zoos and aquariums are good. Firing range can be fun. It should make her feel like a kid and be something memorable and fun. Maybe take her to your favorite hole-in-the-wall restaurant afterwards.

The third date is generally a little more romantic. This is where you show that, sure, you're fun and quirky, but you can also clean up nice too. Take her to a little nicer place than your first date restaurant, but nothing too high-priced (Gouter, Table, Parrain's, ect). As an activity, take her to a play or a concert, somewhere where you should dress fairly nice. That way she gets to dress up for you. After that's over, take her to a nice cocktail bar or a real laid back beer bar with a great atmosphere (Lock & Key, Radio Bar, patio at the Bulldog, the Cove, Draft House). A jazz band is a plus (Blues Room) so ya'll can slow dance while feeling classy. Finish the night by taking her to a place that's special to you. Maybe it's a spot that offers a great view. Maybe it's your favorite spot for drunk food. Maybe it's the first place you ever heard the Beatles, I don't know. Either way, it will be memorable.

I like that post, Kingbob, But I'm just one date behind you.

frick, I wanna go out with you!

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frick, I wanna go out with you!

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Thank you...?

Dance

I prefer certain kinds of dances, certain music.

if you can't dance, I have no suggestions.

Dancing has to be mastered if you are in your 20's.

you get contact almost intimate, sensual, rthymic.
smell her, let her feel your cock.
grab some and love her.

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first date,some classy restaurant,all dressed up,spend money like it doesn't mean anything,movies,whatever she wants to plan.

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This is just horrible on so many levels.


I've had the very fancy, expensive first dates. As a woman...I can say that I just felt really uncomfortable on them. Like....why is the guy spending this much money on a first date? What is he overcompensating for? If I let this expensive date continue, is he gonna expect I give him sexual favors on the first date because he spent so much money?


Also movies on the first date?? Nooooooooooooooooooo, so lame. Worst first date ever. You have no opportunity to talk with the person. And don't say "we can talk at dinner". Oh you mean the expensive dinner the chick is feeling uncomfortable with cause she is wondering if ordering a steak means he expects a blowjob at the end of the night? Yeah, no.


Whatever she wants to plan? Now you are just being lazy and making her do all the work.



OP...do NOT take dating advice from auggie

It's mostly worked for me, you might be a weird nurse.

Have I seen you on pornhub.c0m ?

I think that you are right. But I'd carry that same sentiment to the second one. It takes time and communication.

After that it shouldn't be hard whether a third one is even warranted.