re: My sister passed about a week ago

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Ball in a Box Theory

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The ball in a box theory is the closest thing I've ever read to how I think it was when my husband died 9 years ago.

My condolences. If you're a church goin' man, reach out there fr support.

This the gentlest I've ever seen the OT react to anything, are we in upside down world?

I am sorry for your loss. You never get over it but you do get better

Sorry for your loss man. My brother died of Covid at 40 in 2021. It's tough as hell.

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Lost my oldest sister to a car wreck while I was still in college the 1st go around. Was the Monday after Thanksgiving where she had graduated that May and she had spent the holiday visiting with a bunch of relatives, 8 months pregnant. You never get over it. I still miss her to this day and it has been nearly 40 years.

Prayers to you and your family!

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I'm sorry for your loss, sid. I know it must be a lot to carry even all these years later. Today's the first day I've gone uptown. I'm a goofy, witty happy go lucky kind of guy and the store manager of the convenience store I'm a regular of made me feel so much better talking to em. People really do care and we have amazing people in Louisiana. I'm thankful for that and the OT today. And whoever created Ativan because now I can breathe normal and feel somewhat human again lol.

I’m sorry for your loss. I’ll pray for you to find peace and comfort. God bless you.

I'm sooo sorry you are going through this. I lost my sister, only sibling December 31. I miss her like crazy. She was 41. We are 14 months apart in age. For the first 2.5 weeks I cried almost all day every day. Don't let anyone tell you how to grieve. Heal at your own pace. A month later and I'm still having my moments. I cry hard then take a deep breath in think of a funny moment and breath out and just think happy thoughts of her.
She left behind a 16 year old. He found her. She was the light in the sky to us all. If you knew her you immediately fell in love.
Prayers. If you need someone to listen or share stories , I'm here

Love you back man!!

Thanks man. I appreciate you looking at helping me when struggling.

We have some trips planned and stuff. My family itself is fine, my bro and my mom are just struggling and no matter what I do, I can’t help.

<~~@gmail.com.

You are a good man and I hope the same peace that comes my way comes your way as well.

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My condolences. If you're a church goin' man, reach out there fr support.

This the gentlest I've ever seen the OT react to anything, are we in upside down world?

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I'm typically not, but I think it'd be best for me to be at mass with everyone this Sunday. And that's why I say the OT is amazing. I posted about my mom's health problems, huge thread full of support. When my boss was attacked by his son and later died months later from covid and pneumonia in hospice after having surgery to relieve pressure on his head, same thing. I'm not the type that knows how to articulate pain and grief in person because I enter the conversation thinking I'm just bothering them by bringing up something heavy, so the OT and telemed visits have helped me a lot through the past few years. I've lurked on TD since I was 12, 29 almost 30 now. There are some amazing people that frequent this site and help without ulterior motives, just because it's the right thing to do.