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re: My g/f is being an a-hole (or maybe I am)

Posted on 12/16/15 at 7:49 am to
Posted by RockAndRollDetective
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2014
4506 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 7:49 am to
I'm thinking you need to ditch her and find another chick. Let's be real here; if she was really all that and she offered up sex (I think it's obvious that's what she was doing) you would jump through your arse to do it. If you didn't take her up on it, there must not be much heat between you two.

Last thing I would want would be to look at my significant other and think to myself "Yeah... I could take it or leave it..."
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110778 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 7:55 am to
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I'm confused as to why the frick you were driving after being out?

Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110778 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 7:56 am to
quote:

Obviously this is a test and the OP failed miserably. The girlfriend wanted something and you went out of your way not to provide. Women want a strong independent man who will give them whatever they want. Chalk it up to a learning experience.

Yea, it was a test, a test to see if she could get him wrapped around her little finger. Congrats on passing that test in your relationships!!!



This is a small thing, but definitely a red flag to keep an eye on. If you guys are young wish, late teens/early 20s, it's probably not the end of the world for a newer relationship. If you are both a bit older, say over 25, it's a HUGE red flag IMO.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136798 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 7:56 am to
Jody sent a 2am text

We all know this
Posted by Prominentwon
LSU, McNeese St. Fan
Member since Jan 2005
93702 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 7:56 am to
Someone has their job and relationship as priority over staying out and partying.


Your relationship is fricked.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11221 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 8:00 am to
As a woman, I'll say she found someone else to bang her last night.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
65814 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 8:01 am to
it's just you and your hand tonight
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19419 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 8:03 am to
my g/f was being an a-hole last night as well. Sucks for her cause she's not the only hand i have
This post was edited on 12/16/15 at 8:04 am
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136798 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 8:06 am to
ELT nailed it

let her sleep over

Knock bottom out

Let her make coffee in morning

If that does not happen, then you have upper hand and decision to make
Posted by ManBearTiger
BRLA
Member since Jun 2007
21835 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 8:44 am to
I've dealt with this and can only promise that whatever route you go in this scenario you end up with the short end of the stick.


It boils down to who's being more more "selfish"- you for wanting a decent sleep, or her for insisting on coming over despite knowing it is an imposition on you. The difference is, you actually have tangible, physical reasons for what you want while hers are purely emotional- so reason and logic will enever be an effective deterent in trying to win this argument.
Posted by Pectus
Internet
Member since Apr 2010
67302 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 8:48 am to
If that's a test, then women that do this are bullshite.
Posted by JayDeerTay84
Texas
Member since May 2013
9847 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 8:55 am to
Women aren't rational. They think with their emotions.

Best understand this unless you want to marry a dude.



Posted by jose canseco
Houston via Houma via BR via NOLA
Member since Jul 2007
5667 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 8:58 am to
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If my gf were to seriously get angry over something like that, I'd toss my phone to the side and just ignore her. She's gonna get over it by tomorrow and if she doesn't, move on.


But she is dating someone that goes to the OT for relationship advice on the most trivial shite. Not really well adjusted people we are talking about. They may be perfect for each other.
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19054 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 8:58 am to
She sounds like a lose not an a-hole
Posted by TheDeathValley
New Orleans, LA
Member since Sep 2010
17152 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 9:14 am to
My fiance' used to leave at 5am and I didn't leave till 7am. She left, I slept, nbd. She is mad you didn't dick her down.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
65814 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 9:14 am to
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She is mad you didn't dick her down.



don't worry....somebody did.
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
16081 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 9:16 am to
You don't call girls Aholes, that is a term reserved for men. They be bitches or ho's.
Posted by Captain Crown
Member since Jun 2011
50714 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 9:16 am to
You obviously didn't want to stay with her.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
52944 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 9:25 am to
You're lucky she didn't pull the rape card on you after you hurt her feelings like that
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79160 posts
Posted on 12/16/15 at 9:29 am to
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If you fight over trivial crap like that, it won't last long.



Me and my GF of several years fight over how to put the glasses away. I thought this was normal with women.
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