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re: Most challenging parenting years

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Posted by fallguy_1978
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Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:02 pm to
14-19
Posted by SMU Tiger Fan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2009
390 posts
Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:02 pm to
16-19, haven’t gotten to 20, yet, though.
Posted by NATidefan
Two hours North of Birmingham
Member since Dec 2008
36084 posts
Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:02 pm to
Depends on the kid... some are easy. Some are little shits. Some are different at different ages.
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:03 pm to
quote:

The mental challenge of parenting a teen seems daunting to me.

We just started the 2nd and final round. 13 year old daughter
Posted by Nephropidae
Brentwood
Member since Nov 2018
2386 posts
Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:03 pm to
Are we talking about a stay at home wife or dual work responsibilities? If dual, you better get some help around the house.
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
21933 posts
Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:04 pm to
I have a 16 YO boy and a 14 YO daughter..... teenage girls are frickING MEAN!
Posted by Allthatfades
Mississippi
Member since Aug 2014
6740 posts
Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:05 pm to
For daughters about 12-15. They are basically unrecognizable.
Posted by tigerbandpiccolo
Member since Oct 2005
49284 posts
Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:06 pm to
I’m the mom and I work. We have a cleaning lady but I’m about to hire someone to come fold and put away our laundry each week. That’s a totally different topic but since there are about to be 3 kids under the age of 7, I’m all about out sourcing more work to prevent power struggles and stress. Laundry sucks.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110888 posts
Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:07 pm to
My kids are 9 and it definitely has gotten easier and easier each year.

But I'm prepping for that to swing the other way in 3-4 years.
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:07 pm to
Depends. You put in the effort early on and it will seem like hell, but will pay off with an easier time during later years.

Skim the early years that won't seem too bad and you will actually be in hell later on.
Posted by dragginass
Member since Jan 2013
2745 posts
Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:07 pm to
0-3 are the hardest IMO.

Our kids made big strides at 4. Starting school, sleeping through the night in their beds, getting themselves dressed etc. Teenagers may bring more worries and mental anguish, but physically that 0-3 is brutal.
Posted by Flyingtiger82
BFE
Member since Oct 2019
1004 posts
Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:08 pm to
0-2 every minute of every day someone is watching every need.
3- terrible 3’s are bad
4 - best age. I wish they could stay 4 forever. Just don’t forget snack day.
5- school starts turning into school and they start doubting you
6-8 - just kids doing kid stuff. School homework, teachers start trying your patience with all the damn notes home and special days.
9-12 - they start being like mini adults and still hang out with you. Fun times.
13-15 - you are just a source of food and shelter.
16-17 - THE SINGLE WORST. You literally can’t wait for them to leave.
18 - they leave and then you wish you could do it all over again minus the 0-2 part. That part sucks.
Posted by NATidefan
Two hours North of Birmingham
Member since Dec 2008
36084 posts
Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:08 pm to
quote:

Depends. You put in the effort early on and it will seem like hell, but will pay off with an easier time during later years.

Skim the early years that won't seem too bad and you will actually be in hell later on.


This is also true.
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Member since Feb 2018
48576 posts
Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:09 pm to
quote:

Teenagers may bring more worries and mental anguish, but physically that 0-3 is brutal.

I'd take a 2 year old and a little less sleep over a 15 year old all day everyday
Posted by tigerbandpiccolo
Member since Oct 2005
49284 posts
Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:10 pm to
I’m finding that my girl is ten times easier as a toddler/child than my son. She’s naturally more helpful and more mature, and hates to get in trouble so she really doesn’t have to be told more than once about anything.

My son is hell on wheels Has a heart of gold but pushes every limit, climbs every wall, and literally runs at 100 MPH from 6 am-10 pm if he’s allowed to be up that late. I’m thinking maybe the tides will turn once they get a little older.

I’ve been told you pay for boys early, and girls when they’re teens.
Posted by LCA131
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Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:11 pm to
The needy demands from 0-2 are pretty consuming. If you do it correctly from 3-10, or so, then the teen years are much easier. When they can speak and have some say, (3-7ish), and you fail to let them know what the deal is, the teen years are your punishment.

JMO...
Posted by tigerbandpiccolo
Member since Oct 2005
49284 posts
Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:11 pm to
Plus two year olds are so much cuter than 15 year olds
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83583 posts
Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:12 pm to
I have 7 and 1 year old girls.

I’ll have a teenage girl in my house for 12 straight years.

FML.
Posted by tigerbandpiccolo
Member since Oct 2005
49284 posts
Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:13 pm to
That’s your own fault

Prayers sent!
Posted by LCA131
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Posted on 10/12/20 at 9:14 pm to
quote:

literally runs at 100 MPH from 6am-10pm


No, I don't think so.
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