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re: Morning y'all...need some advice regarding my new belle...

Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:10 am to
Posted by Homesick Tiger
Greenbrier, AR
Member since Nov 2006
54210 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:10 am to
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You lost you wife to cancer and dating at most 14 months later.


She died in 2012.
Posted by 9Fiddy
19th Hole
Member since Jan 2007
64064 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:11 am to
Stop overthinking it, enjoy the ride, and don't commit until you're damn sure. The super crazy will either come out or not be there.

She may be like my wife. We met when she was 33. Single no kids never married. Was just focused on her career. Crazy never came out so I married her. Best decision I ever made.
Posted by CapperVin
Member since Apr 2013
10546 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:12 am to
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10 months


you sound like the crazy one
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136811 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:12 am to
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She died in 2012.
you are correct

I have the dyslexia. Read it as wife if 12 years lost 2 years ago

Continue on

Still suspicious
This post was edited on 9/22/17 at 6:13 am
Posted by Four Leaf Tayback
Member since Aug 2017
1621 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:13 am to
In the OP I commented on how sweet she is. She's really down to earth. Seems like an all around good woman
Posted by dallastiger55
Jennings, LA
Member since Jan 2010
27723 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:15 am to
She seems cool. Just enjoy it and don't overthink

The only red flag is that y'all work together. A wise man once said, "don't shite where you eat."
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58762 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:15 am to
She's older than you, divorced, in her mid-30s and is not currently married. Stay away.
Posted by Homesick Tiger
Greenbrier, AR
Member since Nov 2006
54210 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:17 am to
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Still suspicious


Why? Even if was just ten months he still has got a life to lead. After what my dad went through I question no man on his reasoning for getting married. I tend to grieve more for the living that has lost someone than for the someone who is no longer with us.
Posted by Das_Wanda_kid
Member since Apr 2017
438 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:17 am to
It's like shopping on the clearance rack. You are picking through everyone else's left overs. Find a 25 year old girl that doesn't have baggage with An ex or kids. I would take a 25 yr old OT 6 over a 35yr old OT 8.
Posted by 4LSU2
Member since Dec 2009
37333 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:18 am to
Enjoy the ride and don't over think it. It sounds like you are ready to move on from your first wife's passing, which I'm sure she would've wanted you to do.

Maybe this is the start of the next chapter in your life. It is a great sign to me that neither of you have kids at this time in your lives. I'm sure her biological clock is ticking, so you better start to dicking.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58762 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:19 am to
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It's like shopping on the clearance rack. You are picking through everyone else's left overs. Find a 25 year old girl that doesn't have baggage with An ex or kids. I would take a 25 yr old OT 6 over a 35yr old OT 8.


Wisdom.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11229 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:26 am to
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It's like shopping on the clearance rack. You are picking through everyone else's left overs. Find a 25 year old girl that doesn't have baggage with An ex or kids. I would take a 25 yr old OT 6 over a 35yr old OT 8.


He's got plenty of baggage, too.

I think you're overthinking here. After 10 months, you've probably seen most sides of her personality. You may be downplaying negative parts, since you're still in the gushy hormonal stage, but there probably won't be many surprises. Does she have a good social circle? Is she on good terms with her family?
This post was edited on 9/22/17 at 6:30 am
Posted by Rossberg02
Member since Jun 2016
2591 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:29 am to
If you haven’t figured out in 10 months either she’s one hell of a psycho, she’s not crazy, or you both are crazy.

Another suspicion is her talents in the bed. Usually leans toward crazy with that.
Posted by LSU6262
Member since Jun 2008
7492 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:29 am to
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She said they rushed into after not dating long at all and found they weren't compatible


You should move in together and date a little longer.

Everyone should move in together before getting engaged. The little (and big) things that will bother you about her will really come out.
Posted by Rossberg02
Member since Jun 2016
2591 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:31 am to
I agree with the moving in thing. If that’s not feasible, go on an extended vacation but drive to the location. Should pick up on some things during that time.
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
67488 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:33 am to
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My concern is could she possibly be crazy?

quote:

I know all women are crazy

You answered your own question
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
119180 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:35 am to
Sorry about your loss, but it doesn't appear you jumped into another relationship before allowing time to heal, which is great.

All women have a little crazy in them, but if you have dated a while, you know the level of the one you are with.
Posted by Homesick Tiger
Greenbrier, AR
Member since Nov 2006
54210 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:35 am to
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I think you're overthinking here. After 10 months, you've probably seen most sides of her personality.


I proposed to my wife three weeks after meeting her. Hell, it was even a long distance romance at that. We probably had only five dates during the four months before being married.

Somehow you just know if it is right or not. On a first marriage, you use your heart to make that big decision. On the second one, you let your head have a little sayso about the situation. The latter option usually lasts longer.
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
27414 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:36 am to
My wife and I did a 7000 mile road trip over only 6 days about 6 months into dating. About four hours in, the amp fried for the radio.

When we didn't kill each other, I decided I was going to marry her. Proposed one year later.
Posted by wallowinit
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2006
14981 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 6:39 am to
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 A wise man once said, "don't shite where you eat."

I think it went more like:

"Don't dip your pen in the company ink"
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