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Moms want to have fun again
Posted on 5/18/17 at 8:43 pm
Posted on 5/18/17 at 8:43 pm
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About six years ago, Claire Dederer realized she had a problem. The problem had to do with sex. It had to do with desire. It had to do with being a middle-aged wife and mother and needing and wanting to be seen and known by new people in a new way, maybe even by people she didn’t particularly like or love or respect all that much. Her problem had something to do with sex but didn’t stop there. It assaulted her notions of what it meant to be a grown-up woman in the world and wanting to have romantic encounters with men who were not her husband. She loved her husband. Obviously, she loved her children, her family, the life they had built together. And at the same time, a part of her wanted to step outside the boundary of the polite, middle-class domestic life they’d drawn around themselves. Or, to put it more crudely, she wanted to frick around.
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The culmination of these ruminations, Love and Trouble: A Midlife Reckoning, is out this week. In it, Dederer tells the story of what happens when a devoted wife and mother in her 40s, a woman in a basically loving and healthy marriage, stops taking care of everyone, stops subsuming her own needs to those of her children and husband, stops repressing her unruly sexual desires, and starts acting like, well … a man. By modern standards, the author’s misbehavior is mild — there is no marriage-destroying, Eat, Pray, Love–style romance or affair. Instead, she yearns and flirts; she stays out late and takes vacations with her best friend instead of her husband; she has a slew of inappropriate email friendships with various suitors, and at her most reckless, allows an unnamed, famous short story writer from California to stick his tongue in her mouth. And yet, as limited as her indiscretions may be, Dederer struggles to find a name for her new desires. If she were a man, she’d be having a typical midlife crisis. In writing about it, she’d be working in the tradition of Philip Roth, Richard Ford, James Salter, Junot Díaz, and dozens of other 20th-century male authors. She’d be behaving like Bill Clinton, Tony Soprano, Don Draper — and countless other touchstones of middle-aged male sexual freedom. But as a woman, she is setting out into the uncharted territory, suggesting, as a few brave souls have now begun to do, that the MILF might not just be a male fetish and a focus of male desire, but a person in her own right, not just an object, but a subject with things she herself would like to do.
Posted on 5/18/17 at 8:44 pm to RedRifle
After breezing through all that garbage all I saw was "MILF."
Posted on 5/18/17 at 8:45 pm to BRgetthenet
With WWL sports flash......................I'm Mark Menard.
Posted on 5/18/17 at 8:45 pm to RedRifle
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Moms want to have fun again
Pathetic Self Centred Attention Whore tries too had to justifies being a dumb whore.
Posted on 5/18/17 at 8:46 pm to RedRifle
She's watched too many Lifetime Movie Network movies
Posted on 5/18/17 at 8:46 pm to RedRifle
This chick got railed by fifty dudes and then, in pure irony, lies about it while promoting herself as a free wheeling feminist.
Posted on 5/18/17 at 8:48 pm to RedRifle
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woman
Whores. All of them.
Posted on 5/18/17 at 8:48 pm to East Coast Band
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She's watched too many Lifetime Movie Network movies
Those movies are a poison to our society.
Posted on 5/18/17 at 8:51 pm to RedRifle
So she's a slut. Big shocker.
Posted on 5/18/17 at 8:52 pm to SabiDojo
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So she's a slut. Big shocker.
This seems like a woman that doesn't want to admit it though. Probably thinks her status makes her immune to such a label.
Posted on 5/18/17 at 8:54 pm to RedRifle
Make Moms Fun Again! And the winning continues. Trumps presidency is dropping panties left and right.
Posted on 5/18/17 at 8:57 pm to SabiDojo
umm more like she's an empowered female, sorry you little boys can't understand it
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