Married Couples & Engaging in Relations With Others

Swingers couples get the AIDS.

My next door neighbor got divorced over this very thing a few years back.

Why get married if you are having sex with other people. Marriage is about being with someone you love. I dont want my wife sleeping with anyone else, she is mine. I love her. Marriage is about two people becomming one, growing old together, experiencing life together. My wife is my other half, i wouldnt want to share that with anyone else, what good can come of that.

Your post just gave me diabetes.

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My wife is my other half, i wouldnt want to share that with anyone else, what good can come of that.

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more pussy is about it

Says a lot about a man if he's willing to let his wife get nailed by another man

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would you say married couples who agree to have multiple sex partners are more likely to gain from it than not?

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It depends on the couple. I think people should think very carefully about whether they can be monogamous, and talk about that before they get married. Actually it should be something that's discussed early in the relationship, at the same time you talk about any kinks/fetishes you have. You don't want to get into a long-term, committed relationship with someone if both of you don't completely understand each other's sexual interests and needs.

But unfortunately, a lot of people feel too ashamed or embarrassed about talking about this stuff because they think they'll be judged by their partner.

Some people aren't going to be happy fricking the same person forever. If that's true, they should talk about that early in the relationship. Once you get married, you're kinda fricked if the other person isn't okay with that.

Long story short: if you try to open a relationship that's been understood to be monogamous AFTER you get married, you have a pretty high chance of fricking it up. But if you're honest from the beginning, and you get to the point of wanting to marry, then you're probably fine.

I was surprised at the level in a small town, always thought it was a big city thing

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If your wife wants to frick Steve three doors down

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That band sucks anyway

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My next door neighbor got divorced over this very thing a few years back.

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When I was a teenager, it happened to a family who lived in my neighborhood. It actually became a complete clusterfrick that ended up with the oldest kid completely disowning his parents. The parents & the couple they were swinging with got divorced and ended up marrying the person from the other couple.. The wife, ended up divorcing less than a year of being married again. In that case it completely fricked up two families..But again, what about the relationships that benefit from it?