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Posted on 8/14/15 at 10:54 am to TheOcean
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Dating is a sexual marketplace. I'm not near my potential value as a man. Why should I lock myself into a relationship now?
Your view of life is pretty funny.
Posted on 8/14/15 at 10:55 am to Bunk Moreland
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I know several dudes who are alpha in the sense they did really well for themselves in the work world/with money and landed some women out of their class looks-wise. But, they get walked all over and are complete pussies. It's all so confusing.
It's not confusing. Alpha isn't defined in tangibles. It's a primal genetic instinct. Some have it. Some don't. No amount of peacocking will cover up the other short commings.
Posted on 8/14/15 at 10:56 am to TheOcean
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Dating is a sexual marketplace. I'm not near my potential value as a man. Why should I lock myself into a relationship now? Apps like tinder just make it easier to stay single
That is my point above. If you had zero access to sex outside of a serious relationship you would be much more likely to be in one.
Posted on 8/14/15 at 10:56 am to Bunk Moreland
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I know several dudes who are alpha in the sense they did really well for themselves in the work world/with money and landed some women out of their class looks-wise. But, they get walked all over and are complete pussies. It's all so confusing.
reminds me of all teh "dating coaches" and "dating services" that are in silicon valley to help the socially akward beta males who have 8-9 figure wealth
Posted on 8/14/15 at 10:57 am to rocket31
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happy ltr is statistically very uncommon actually.
Divorce/infidelity rates aren't exactly low...
If you take repeat divorces out of that it gets lower.
Then drop out the dipshits.
If you find the right one and you have mutual goals and interests and you actively both desire a family and a strong bond then you're going to be fine.
Long term relationships, like everything else in life, are hard work and require self sacrifice but the rewards are much greater than the short routes and selfishness.
Posted on 8/14/15 at 10:57 am to chryso
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If you had zero access to sex outside of a serious relationship you would be much more likely to be in one.
but this would require women to outright reject feminism and deny their own sexual fulfillment. that's not optimal, rational, or reasonable
Posted on 8/14/15 at 10:59 am to TheOcean
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Dating is a sexual marketplace. I'm not near my potential value as a man. Why should I lock myself into a relationship now? Apps like tinder just make it easier to stay single
As I just said, to each his own.
You don't want a family or a commitment. I don't care. But don't give an excuse like it's hard to be in a relationship. Man up and admit that you can't handle it or have no interest in it.
Posted on 8/14/15 at 11:07 am to SlowFlowPro
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but this would require women to outright reject feminism and deny their own sexual fulfillment. that's not optimal, rational, or reasonable
We are talking about women, right?
Posted on 8/14/15 at 11:07 am to TheOcean
So can y'all help me out a bit?
Am I supposed to sleep with the guys I date or not? If I sleep with him too early I'm a slut and he'll dump me, if I wait too long, I'm a prude and he'll dump me.
Education? I realize I can't be smarter than any guy I date, but is it ok to discuss my education? How much of my education is ok?
What about cooking? I know that guys from the south are always going to be better cooks than me, but is it ok to have a couple of specialty dishes that I can trot out on occasion? Do I need to only be able to make post-bj sandwiches?
Can I have friends that he doesn't approve of? My friends are all better looking than me, so I definitely understand that men are going to talk to me to get to them. But is it ok to have those friends? And what about trips? Can I take a trip with my friends?
What about a job or having my own money? Should I turn over all my money to him so he can give me an appropriate allowance? I certainly understand that I can't be trusted with a credit card. I mean my feeble feminine brain certainly can't be expected to pass up a really cute pair of shoes or a nice handbag. But is it ok to make some money to put into savings for myself? I'm sure he's going to dump me when I'm no longer of any value, seeing as how my value only decreases and his value only increases as we get older.
frick it. I'll just stay single. Maybe I'll get a couple of cats. That'll definitely seal the single deal.
Am I supposed to sleep with the guys I date or not? If I sleep with him too early I'm a slut and he'll dump me, if I wait too long, I'm a prude and he'll dump me.
Education? I realize I can't be smarter than any guy I date, but is it ok to discuss my education? How much of my education is ok?
What about cooking? I know that guys from the south are always going to be better cooks than me, but is it ok to have a couple of specialty dishes that I can trot out on occasion? Do I need to only be able to make post-bj sandwiches?
Can I have friends that he doesn't approve of? My friends are all better looking than me, so I definitely understand that men are going to talk to me to get to them. But is it ok to have those friends? And what about trips? Can I take a trip with my friends?
What about a job or having my own money? Should I turn over all my money to him so he can give me an appropriate allowance? I certainly understand that I can't be trusted with a credit card. I mean my feeble feminine brain certainly can't be expected to pass up a really cute pair of shoes or a nice handbag. But is it ok to make some money to put into savings for myself? I'm sure he's going to dump me when I'm no longer of any value, seeing as how my value only decreases and his value only increases as we get older.
frick it. I'll just stay single. Maybe I'll get a couple of cats. That'll definitely seal the single deal.
Posted on 8/14/15 at 11:12 am to NoHoTiger
Just marry an OT hardleg. Will make life much easier
Posted on 8/14/15 at 11:13 am to rocket31
Avoid the girls with too much makeup on, you know unless all you wanna do is penetrate her. Then it doesn't matter what she looks like without the makeup
A good rule of thumb for not getting stuck dating an ugly or a tranny is picking the girl that looks great when she's not prettied up. It's not how great she does her makeup, bc eventually she's gonna be comfortable with you and stop doing all that makeup every time you see her
A good rule of thumb for not getting stuck dating an ugly or a tranny is picking the girl that looks great when she's not prettied up. It's not how great she does her makeup, bc eventually she's gonna be comfortable with you and stop doing all that makeup every time you see her
Posted on 8/14/15 at 11:13 am to rocket31
quote:Not really, but I always laugh when I hear a career woman say "I don't need a man. I have my own money." I don't think they even realize what a revealing statement that is.
plus, women have their own money these days
quote:Yep, and you might just get to raise some other guy's kid, thinking that it's your kid.
money might get you dates/attention from women, but she will never truly desire you unless youre physically attractive.
Posted on 8/14/15 at 11:13 am to TheOcean
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Just marry an OT hardleg.
No way I qualify for that. Not an OT 10 with make-up much less without.
Posted on 8/14/15 at 11:16 am to NoHoTiger
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Am I supposed to sleep with the guys I date or not? If I sleep with him too early I'm a slut and he'll dump me, if I wait too long, I'm a prude and he'll dump me.
Maybe just make sure he's worth it before you frick him. For instance, sucking his dick before you know his name is probably not good. But it's all about what feels right to you. And what kind of guy you want.
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Education? I realize I can't be smarter than any guy I date, but is it ok to discuss my education? How much of my education is ok?
Why cant you be smarter? Who said that? I love smart women.
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know that guys from the south are always going to be better cooks than me, but is it ok to have a couple of specialty dishes that I can trot out on occasion? Do I need to only be able to make post-bj sandwiches?
I don't even know why this is a question. And the ability to make a sandwich isn't that hard.
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Can I have friends that he doesn't approve of?
Can he have ones you don't approve of?
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My friends are all better looking than me, so I definitely understand that men are going to talk to me to get to them.
Maybe work on that paranoid lack of self worth and confidence.
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And what about trips? Can I take a trip with my friends?
Can he?
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What about a job or having my own money? Should I turn over all my money to him so he can give me an appropriate allowance?
Do you want to date an abusive douchebag from a 1920s stereotype?
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certainly understand that I can't be trusted with a credit card. I mean my feeble feminine brain certainly can't be expected to pass up a really cute pair of shoes or a nice handbag. But is it ok to make some money to put into savings for myself? I'm sure he's going to dump me when I'm no longer of any value, seeing as how my value only decreases and his value only increases as we get older.
There's that irrational psychotic lack of self respect that you some how twist and blame men for when you have no one to blame but yourself.
Posted on 8/14/15 at 11:18 am to blueboy
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Not really, but I always laugh when I hear a career woman say "I don't need a man. I have my own money." I don't think they even realize what a revealing statement that is.
Your views on women, nonwhite races, and the state of today's world is very concerning dude.
Posted on 8/14/15 at 11:21 am to NoHoTiger
Jeez that's a lot of feminist jargon in one spot
Rules of thumb:
None of that matters if you look good in lingerie and fake glasses
Oh and you have to be able to cook. Any guy who doesn't want their wife to cook well is an idiot. No guy is gonna cook every single meal
Rules of thumb:
None of that matters if you look good in lingerie and fake glasses
Oh and you have to be able to cook. Any guy who doesn't want their wife to cook well is an idiot. No guy is gonna cook every single meal
Posted on 8/14/15 at 11:22 am to Upperdecker
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Jeez that's a lot of feminist jargon in one spot
As opposed to the all the sexist bullshite the's already been posted.
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No guy is gonna cook every single meal
Know how I know you can't cook shite?
Posted on 8/14/15 at 11:22 am to NoHoTiger
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No way I qualify for that. Not an OT 10 with make-up much less without.
Don't you live in SanFran? There's like a 5 to 1 ratio of men to women there. You should be rolling in the tech nerds
Posted on 8/14/15 at 11:24 am to Breesus
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For instance, sucking his dick before you know his name is probably not good.
AKA the Paige.
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