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Longest adult relationship you have had without sex?

Posted on 12/10/15 at 12:57 pm
Posted by saint amant steve
Baton Rouge
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Posted on 12/10/15 at 12:57 pm
My roommate was telling me the other day about a friend who has been in a relationship with the same guy for about six years. The couple started dating in high school and have dated through college. Both of them are graduating next spring and plan to get married shortly after.

Despite their six-year-long relationship, the two have not had intercourse at any point thus far.

Neither individual is particularly religious and therefore they are not retaining their respective virginity as part of any religious matter related to pre-marital sex. They simply want to wait until they are married just so the moment will be that much more special.

What's most inconceivable to me is that the two regularly sleep together in the same bed. How you could share the same bed with your significant other for such an extended period of time, married couples excluded, without giving into temptation just once is beyond belief.

Supposedly, the gal has a pretty tamed libido.
This post was edited on 12/10/15 at 1:08 pm
Posted by DollaChoppa
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Member since May 2008
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Posted on 12/10/15 at 12:58 pm to
Spoiler alert: Hes gay

Its really gonna suck for her when they get married and she finds out he "struggles with his sexuality"




eta: As for me, ive never been in a relationship with a girl before having sex with her. So 0 seconds
This post was edited on 12/10/15 at 1:01 pm
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 12/10/15 at 12:58 pm to
6 years with my wife
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
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Posted on 12/10/15 at 12:58 pm to
1 or 2 weeks
Posted by Phil A Sheo
equinsu ocha
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Posted on 12/10/15 at 12:59 pm to
They must be ugly AF...and are content not seeing each other naked
This post was edited on 12/10/15 at 12:59 pm
Posted by TheIrishFro
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Posted on 12/10/15 at 12:59 pm to
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Posted by dnm3305
Member since Feb 2009
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Posted on 12/10/15 at 12:59 pm to
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Supposedly, the gal has a pretty tamed libido.


Well that's a shocker.
Posted by elposter
Member since Dec 2010
24861 posts
Posted on 12/10/15 at 1:00 pm to
That's difficult to believe. If true, they aren't going to have sex much even when they get married. If they haven't had sex yet, there is very little sex drive between them and/or they aren't very attracted to each other.
Posted by Mootsman
Charlotte, NC
Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 12/10/15 at 1:00 pm to
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Spoiler alert: Hes gay
Posted by 805tiger
Member since Oct 2011
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Posted on 12/10/15 at 1:00 pm to
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1 or 2 weeks


Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
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Posted on 12/10/15 at 1:01 pm to
Does she give him BJ's?
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58551 posts
Posted on 12/10/15 at 1:02 pm to
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Spoiler alert: Hes gay

Its really gonna suck for her when they get married and she finds out he "struggles with his sexuality"


Seems to be the case.

Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 12/10/15 at 1:02 pm to
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Supposedly, the gal has a pretty tamed libido.


Every gal has a tamed libido. Women just don't like sex, that's why they have to be coerced or tricked into it.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
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Posted on 12/10/15 at 1:03 pm to
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Longest adult relationship you have had without sex?


I'm still friends with a buddy I met in college. We haven't had sex since that one drunken night after Tigerland 22 years ago.

I blame the drinking age!!!
Posted by threeputt
God's Country
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Posted on 12/10/15 at 1:04 pm to
I've been married for 14 years
Posted by MBclass83
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 12/10/15 at 1:04 pm to
I wouldn't buy a shoe without trying it on.
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
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Posted on 12/10/15 at 1:05 pm to
I did lie...I doubt I have ever waited 2 weeks
Posted by colorchangintiger
Dan Carlin
Member since Nov 2005
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Posted on 12/10/15 at 1:06 pm to
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Poor guy doesn't know what he's missing.


Yeah, I got around in college, but sometimes i do regret not having gotten around even more. IE, finding out years later that a few acquaintances were DTF
This post was edited on 12/10/15 at 1:07 pm
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47463 posts
Posted on 12/10/15 at 1:06 pm to
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Despite their six-year-long relationship, the two have not had intercourse at any point in time thus far.



Okay I actually read this OP for this post. WHAT THE frick.

This boggles the brain. I know women who are married to closeted dudes. They don't have sex with the man but the man sneaks around on manhunt and grindr and craigslist. It's kinda like don't ask don't tell.

That is what's going on here.
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 12/10/15 at 1:08 pm to
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Longest adult relationship you have had without sex?



Ugh. Another marriage thread.
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