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Posted on 2/24/21 at 6:14 pm to
Posted by michael corleone
baton rouge
Member since Jun 2005
5829 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 6:14 pm to
If y’all are screwing other people —-go to counseling and work through it. Talk about everything, all issues , complaints , desires , etc. only way to know.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124665 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 6:15 pm to
When she didn’t want to try and work it out and wouldn’t stop what she was doing.

I drew the line in the sand. She crossed it.

And in doing so probably saved me. It was a kinder cruelty
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176393 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 6:17 pm to
the OT is a great sounding board for important lives decisions like snacks or where to get ringtones
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10326 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 6:17 pm to
quote:

Kids = Never. You work through any and all problems because nothing is worse than having your kids ripped from you 50% of the time at best.
Sorry, but staying in an unhappy and loveless marriage is healthy for no one. Life is too short to be miserable and your kids know it.
Posted by DmitriKaramazov
Member since Nov 2015
4471 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 6:19 pm to
quote:

Sorry, but staying in an unhappy and loveless marriage is healthy for no one. Life is too short to be miserable and your kids know it.


I tend to agree that staying in an unhappy marriage is not always best for the children.
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
32294 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 6:39 pm to
When my daughter asked why daddy and I hated each other.
Posted by Geauxbreauxz
Huntsville
Member since Feb 2021
114 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 6:46 pm to
How’d you know
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
18494 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 6:49 pm to
When you’ve improved your health and fitness, developed a social life away from her, and developed a vision and plan for your future. If she hasn’t responded favorably to any of that and you realize she brings you no value outside of being an income and/or a parent, then you tell her it’s over.
Posted by DevilDagNS
Member since Dec 2017
2691 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 6:50 pm to
quote:

Sorry, but staying in an unhappy and loveless marriage is healthy for no one. Life is too short to be miserable and your kids know it.


Every selfish count I know who fricked up their kids lives says this.
This post was edited on 2/24/21 at 6:51 pm
Posted by dbeck
Member since Nov 2014
29453 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 6:52 pm to
quote:

When did you know it was time for a divorce

When I said "I do".
Posted by dale10
The Red Stick
Member since May 2006
929 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 8:44 pm to
quote:

Sorry, but staying in an unhappy and loveless marriage is healthy for no one. Life is too short to be miserable and your kids know it.


I agree, but never said stay in a loveless marriage. I said work it out. Don’t let a mistake or a series of mistakes ruin som many lives. Push and work through it.

My x-wife cheated, caught an STD, and tried to destroy my life to cover it up. I still did everything I could to salvage our 12 year marriage. To this day, that was nothing to the pain I have every single day I can’t be with my 3 amazing babies.
Posted by Peepdip
Member since Aug 2016
4946 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 8:48 pm to
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Kids = Never. You work through any and all problems because nothing is worse than having your kids ripped from you 50% of the time at best.
Bull fricking shite. kids are much happier and healthier being raised in an environment where the two adults actually love each other, rather than two people who hate each other but are tying to make to make it work for the kids.

On the flip side, my parents were miserable when I was a kid and it made me and my siblings miserable with them.
This post was edited on 2/24/21 at 8:50 pm
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65999 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 8:50 pm to
‘Fore ya ‘cuse me
Take a look at yo’self
Posted by 2BRKnot
Member since Jul 2020
385 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 8:51 pm to
quote:

No kids = before you have kids. Kids = Never. You work through any and all problems because nothing is worse than having your kids ripped from you 50% of the time at best.


This is your answer. I speak from experience. Haunts me every day.
Posted by Garydawg
Nawlins
Member since Sep 2014
56 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 8:58 pm to
If you have kids with her just deal with the bullshite as long as it isn't toxic. Work through the issues as long as you possibly can.
This post was edited on 2/24/21 at 9:01 pm
Posted by Geauxbreauxz
Huntsville
Member since Feb 2021
114 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 9:39 pm to
What’s your story?
Posted by madamsquirrel
The Snarlington Estate
Member since Jul 2009
49117 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 9:43 pm to
quote:

Sorry, but staying in an unhappy and loveless marriage is healthy for no one. Life is too short to be miserable and your kids know it.



Every selfish count I know who fricked up their kids lives says this.
my kids are pissed to this day that I stayed as long as I did
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
262139 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 9:45 pm to
When my wife called me when I was with my girlfriend to tell me than I was kicked out of the house.

I kinda took that as a sign.
Posted by Breauxsif
Member since May 2012
22290 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 9:50 pm to
What happened to you?
Posted by Stexas
SWLA
Member since May 2013
6043 posts
Posted on 2/24/21 at 9:57 pm to
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dale10

You got a broke picker.
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