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re: Let's say your wife wants to quit after 1 child

Posted on 10/22/14 at 2:44 pm to
Posted by The Third Leg
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 2:44 pm to
Word to the wise -- only children are almost all weirdos.
Posted by Huey Lewis
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 2:44 pm to
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Posted by Green Chili Tiger
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 2:45 pm to
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Wife didn't bare a son? Why not just start your own church?


All that potential......wasted by poor grammar.
Posted by Bayou Teche Bengal
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 2:47 pm to
Adopt a boy
Posted by crimsonsaint
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 2:52 pm to
First you forced a teenager to have an abortion. Now you're forcing a woman to have a baby. You got issues bruh.
Posted by Displaced
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 2:53 pm to
oh shite!!!

i forgot about that. Karma and shite.
Posted by Boudreaux35
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 2:57 pm to
How old is this first child? Her mind is very likely to change after a couple of years.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 3:00 pm to
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Consider yourself lucky. Babies suck, it's not an enjoyable stage.


Disagree highly, but my wife had a somewhat easy pregnancy, and our son has been amazingly easy on us first-time parents.

Our situation is almost exactly the opposite of OPs. Wife wanted 4 kids, I wanted 2. Since our first, I've warmed to the idea of 4.
Posted by Fun Bunch
New Orleans
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 3:09 pm to
You married your wife because you love her. Not to be a fricking breeding machine. Its her uterus, if she decides she doesn't want any more babies, then that's that.

If you're seriously considering divorcing your wife over this, then you should probably divorce her anyway, because clearly you don't care for her that much.
Posted by LSUZombie
A Cemetery Near You
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 3:11 pm to
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First child is a daughter and your wife didn't really enjoy the whole pregnancy & labor process. Now she says she wants to stop at 1 and be done.


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Grounds for divorce?


Hopefully the kid isn't yours
Posted by colorchangintiger
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 3:15 pm to
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she should want the whole mother son relationship, its completely different for her.




This is a troll, right?
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 3:17 pm to
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She just shite a kid out of her vag... Give her a Frickin break!


they breed horse back immediately
Posted by Artie Rome
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 3:17 pm to
Have another downvote.

Also, I had two boys. In a row. I don't have slow "girl" sperm. Every father I know that has only girls was a bitch before.
Posted by SportsGuyNOLA
New Orleans, LA
Member since May 2014
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 3:19 pm to
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Let's say your wife wants to quit after 1 child


If she wants to quit after 1 kid and I love her, then we stop at 1.

Women actually HAVE the kid, so I think they should ultimately decide this.

If it's that big of a deal to you, let her know, and then give in or move on based on her decision.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 3:22 pm to
Go for he divorce if that is what you want you'll only be paying child support for one kid instead of multiple.
Posted by LoveThatMoney
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 3:23 pm to
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UFownstSECsince1950


She should divorce you.
Posted by djangochained
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 3:27 pm to
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Rape her


Posted by GRTiger
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 3:29 pm to
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You married your wife because you love her. Not to be a fricking breeding machine. Its her uterus, if she decides she doesn't want any more babies, then that's that.

If you're seriously considering divorcing your wife over this, then you should probably divorce her anyway, because clearly you don't care for her that much.



Why is the divorce question bringing out the anger? What if one of the things he loved about his wife is that she wanted several kids and would be a great mom. Not saying I would do it, but it's a valid question. Kids are sort of a big deal to some people, and that feeling of being tricked or an important part of your expectations just being taken away would be tough.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 3:40 pm to
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Why is the divorce question bringing out the anger? What if one of the things he loved about his wife is that she wanted several kids and would be a great mom. Not saying I would do it, but it's a valid question. Kids are sort of a big deal to some people, and that feeling of being tricked or an important part of your expectations just being taken away would be tough.


or how about the reverse, I got married with the agreement that there would be no kids, the ex badgered the shite out of me after a couple of years, I relented, after a couple of more years, "he'll be lonely without a sibling," she gets knocked up, come to find out some of her cronies had told her that 10 years of marriage & 2 kids was the magic # for getting life time support, and she even told my sister that was the plan
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
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Posted on 10/22/14 at 3:49 pm to
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or how about the reverse, I got married with the agreement that there would be no kids, the ex badgered the shite out of me after a couple of years, I relented, after a couple of more years, "he'll be lonely without a sibling," she gets knocked up, come to find out some of her cronies had told her that 10 years of marriage & 2 kids was the magic # for getting life time support, and she even told my sister that was the plan



God damn.

Serious question. How do you misjudge a person so poorly as someone you should marry? Signs you missed?

Was she the best actress of all time for a few years until she had you by the balls?
This post was edited on 10/22/14 at 3:50 pm
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