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re: Is marriage as an institution dead?

Posted on 4/9/17 at 5:43 pm to
Posted by llfshoals
Member since Nov 2010
15495 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 5:43 pm to
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The future of relationships is spiritual partnerships devoid of the selfishness and childishness that you see in most marriages today.
That is no future at all.

Why? Because what you are describing is nothing BUT childish selfish behavior.

Good marriages are partnerships. Having been married almost 4 decades to my wife is know how true this is. That partnership is defined before the vows are taken as well for almost all of them.

Most of you haven't figured this out. When there are consequences to just walking away you might just think about it first.
Posted by TJGator1215
FL/TN
Member since Sep 2011
14174 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 5:50 pm to
No.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
66982 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 5:52 pm to
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Marriage isn't dead. It might be in a down cycle but like all things cyclical, it will trend up. No different than liberalism, conservatism, secularism or spiritualism. It all trends.
I think people have a tendency to look at things in relation to their own existence and not from a historical perspective. marriage may evolve, but it won't go extinct.



This. Take a generation raised by selfish single parent bumble and tinder daters and the generation after that will probably want stability and self responsibility.
Posted by joeytiger
Muh Mom's House
Member since Jul 2012
6037 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 5:53 pm to
It also doesn't pay to get married when the couple are both on the lower end of the financial spectrum. One of the people usually lose their benefits if they get married. I know lots of plant baws who's girlfriends and kids get all kinds of benefits while they bring home 40-60k. Divorce laws and welfare need to be reformed badly.
Posted by redstick13
Lower Saxony
Member since Feb 2007
38561 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 5:56 pm to
The U.S. has more lawyers than the rest of the world combined. The men in other countries probably aren't getting gouged like Americans.
Posted by p0845330
Member since Aug 2013
5704 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 5:58 pm to
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If you think your going to get robbed

(A) your a shitty parent,


You're.

You're.

It means "you are".
Posted by shotcaller1
Member since Oct 2014
7501 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 5:58 pm to
I dont think so. The fiancee is more adamant that we are staying together through anything (cept cheating or violence) than i am.
Posted by mofungoo
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2012
4583 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 5:59 pm to
Marriage is a fine institution.

It's just that I don't want to spend the rest of my life in an institution.
Posted by TigernMS12
Member since Jan 2013
5533 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 6:00 pm to
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You're.

You're.

It means "you are".


frick your* grammar
Posted by TotesMcGotes
New York, New York
Member since Mar 2009
27881 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 6:06 pm to
You can sign a prenup if you're that worried about divorce laws.
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
58222 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 6:12 pm to
Why do you fck with these people so much?
Posted by RunningBlake
Member since Aug 2011
4106 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 6:13 pm to
How well do prenups work?
Posted by LSUtoOmaha
Nashville
Member since Apr 2004
26581 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 6:20 pm to
Marriage is still alive and well for younger people in the United States. Remember, the ones bucking trends are always the loudest.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
114004 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 6:27 pm to
I think people are having a more logical view on marriage.

Divorce only skyrocketed when it became more socially accepted. People will look at the numbers and say "there was a time when people didn't just up and get divorces, they worked things out".

Around the early part of the century 50% of divorces ended up in divorce, now I think its only just over 30% of marriages end up in divorce, which is likely due to more people not feeling pressured to marriage. Less people get married just because a pregnancy occurs.

So is marriage as an institution dead? I say no. People are just being more careful.
Posted by TSLG
Member since Mar 2014
6724 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 6:27 pm to
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Marriage is a one sided contract completely in favor of the woman

A woman is rewarded by divorcing and has incentive to do so

A man is not rewarded and has no incentive to do so


Do you guys really believe this shite.

Also, I have to disagree with the poster that said no adult needs to be supported after divorce. A spouse that has been at home raising the children does deserve something. Most of the time a court is using pretty decent logic.
Posted by Antonio Moss
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2006
48328 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 6:28 pm to
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The U.S. has more lawyers than the rest of the world combined.


Yeah, that's an incredibly inaccurate statement
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
261164 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 6:29 pm to
No. It's being delayed but is alive and well.
Posted by safetyman
Member since Jun 2011
11210 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 6:29 pm to
Yes I am about to leave my wife and chase a few young girls.
Posted by redstick13
Lower Saxony
Member since Feb 2007
38561 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 6:34 pm to
Yes you're correct the U.S. only has two thirds of the world's lawyers.
Posted by DaBike
Member since Jan 2008
9214 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 6:34 pm to
I've never thought of marriage as an institution.
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