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re: Id Rather Just Live W My GF, Call Her My "Wife," & Buy Her A Ring To Wear

Posted on 7/10/14 at 10:21 pm to
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
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Posted on 7/10/14 at 10:21 pm to
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There'sthis wwhole part about in good times and bad, for richer and for poor, in sickness and in healt as llong as you both shall live... . It's deep shite, think about it.


the religious origins of marriage are antithetical to human nature.

human beings are naturally polyamorous, meaning that they are predisposed to engage in multiple intimate relationships. as such, this is why marriages often fail.
Posted by Breesus
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Member since Jan 2010
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Posted on 7/10/14 at 10:25 pm to
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human beings are naturally polyamorous, meaning that they are predisposed to engage in multiple intimate relationships. as such, this is why marriages often fail.




Marriages fail because of laziness and stupidity not because of a preternatural instinct to bang everything.

Have you cheated on your GF yet? Or are you just planning too?
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41819 posts
Posted on 7/10/14 at 10:27 pm to
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Taxes
Insurance


Marriage Penalty

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Children


*NoChildrenCrew*

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Retirement

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Commitment
Maturity
Posted by Feral
Member since Mar 2012
12457 posts
Posted on 7/10/14 at 10:29 pm to
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Its men like you that make men like me look better each and ever day. So keep being you.


Cosigned.

The wife's best friend is in a situation exactly like this right now and is miserable as frick, mostly because the guy is a huge a-hole (to clarify, it's her fault for staying if she's unhappy, too). Makes me look like a fricking saint by comparison, and makes the wife thankful for who I am.
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41819 posts
Posted on 7/10/14 at 10:35 pm to
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makes the wife thankful for who I am.


why are you a better "man" than me because you decide to marry and i dont? (srs)

and pls respect the srs tag
Posted by Feral
Member since Mar 2012
12457 posts
Posted on 7/10/14 at 10:38 pm to
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Youre a non committal pussy
Posted by hendersonshands
Univ. of Louisiana Ragin Cajuns
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 7/10/14 at 10:39 pm to
does your girlfriend have rich parents?
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
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Posted on 7/10/14 at 10:41 pm to
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Children


It's not that big of a deal if you dont have kids, but having kids outside of marriage in this country can lead you down a road of nightmares. A huge problem you may run into without being married is you cannot put her on your insurance or the other way around. So if one of you loses it youre fricked. You also have no rights to see her or be around her if she is interdicted or critically injured.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
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Posted on 7/10/14 at 10:43 pm to
Im dealing with a situation right now like that. One of my uncles good friends lived with the same woman for 30 years, but they never got married. IN La we dont have common law marriage so thats not in play. She started to get old and lose her mind a little. Well her kid from before they got together had her committed to a home and he has no rights to see her because that kid doesnt like him. So he's been battling like hell in the courts to get some kind of visitation privilege but its tearing him apart and its tough as hell to watch. He's miserable and cant see the woman he loves more than anything. He constantly says he shouldve just gotten married.

It's something to keep in mind man.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129044 posts
Posted on 7/10/14 at 10:48 pm to
Why lie and say you are married when legally you are not?



Just say you are together. Never got people who wear rings but aren't actually married.



And doesn't common law vary state to state? Meaning some states don't even necessarily recognize them for legal issues?
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
57435 posts
Posted on 7/10/14 at 10:48 pm to
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Marriages fail because of laziness and stupidity

TBF that is relationships too.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
66982 posts
Posted on 7/10/14 at 10:50 pm to
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And doesn't common law vary state to state? Meaning some states don't even necessarily recognize them for legal issues?



Correct. Louisiana expressly declines to recognize common law marriage.
Posted by Jet12
Tweet, tweet, tweet, two steps.
Member since Nov 2010
20554 posts
Posted on 7/10/14 at 11:17 pm to
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Don't want your children to have the same last name as their mommy and daddy...

Seem like most women these days are remarried with a new last name by the time the kid's in 2nd grade, anyway. Last names are fixable.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
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Member since Feb 2007
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Posted on 7/10/14 at 11:18 pm to
People wonder why the world is shite.
Posted by BabyrayS2k
Member since Nov 2012
778 posts
Posted on 7/10/14 at 11:50 pm to
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Marriages fail because of laziness and stupidity 


Actually marriages are failing because women are divorcing men 70% of the time. Hypergamy and a system that rewards women for divorcing their husbands and you have marriages failing.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
66982 posts
Posted on 7/10/14 at 11:51 pm to
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Actually marriages are failing because women are divorcing men 70% of the time. Hypergamy and a system that rewards women for divorcing their husbands and you have marriages failing.




Not sure how anything you said undoes this truth:
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Marriages fail because of laziness and stupidity
Posted by BabyrayS2k
Member since Nov 2012
778 posts
Posted on 7/11/14 at 12:01 am to
I just don't see it as laziness. A man can bust his arse for a woman, and she will leave his hard working arse on a whim. Have seen it too many times. Women always look for the "better deal".

So I'm with the OP. Wife her up, just don't do it legally.
Posted by TxTiger82
Member since Sep 2004
33950 posts
Posted on 7/11/14 at 12:03 am to
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whats the difference?

pls explain


She won't stay with you for long if she has any self respect. And if she doesn't, you won't want to stay with her. Either way, you lose.

There, its been explained to you.
This post was edited on 7/11/14 at 12:03 am
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
103173 posts
Posted on 7/11/14 at 12:06 am to
Boom
Posted by TxTiger82
Member since Sep 2004
33950 posts
Posted on 7/11/14 at 12:06 am to
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Actually marriages are failing because women are divorcing men 70% of the time.


Yep. Women want marriage, women end marriage. I mean, on average and all.
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