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re: I Made a Mistake, Feel Like Crap, Don't Know What To Do With Myself
Posted on 10/2/16 at 4:17 pm to pelicansfan123
Posted on 10/2/16 at 4:17 pm to pelicansfan123
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Basically what happened is I was all set to live next year with a group of my friends, but a couple people I thought were not fully committed, so I thought the housing situation was going to fall apart and I needed somewhere to live next year. Another one of my friends then contacted me and asked if I could live with him, another one of my friends, and then two random people (one of which I sort of know, but not really). The friend who called me basically told me that the other situation was falling apart, and that, basically, it would be in my best interest to take the current offer. I agreed without really thinking it through, thinking the situation was going to fall apart and did not want to renew the lease for the place I am living this year, so I just wanted somewhere to live. I was trying to find a big place that both groups could live in, though, and that combined with my fear of telling the other group about where I was living made it so I didn't tell the other group until like 12-24 hours later, and when I told them, saw how upset with me they were. I came off much shadier than I intended, and basically screwed some of my friends over, without meaning to.
I immediately regretted my decision (which I made on Thursday), was upset all weekend, and didn't even know how to proceed. I decided yesterday to build up my confidence (I have little confidence) and that today I was going to text the other friend who pulled me away from the other group that I felt too bad and that I was going to live with the friends I had initially committed to, but he said he was already turning people away from the place we were planning on renting, and basically that I was going to be screwing them over now if I left. I told him that I would stay, but that if someone else asks, to let me know, and basically they can have my spot.
On top of it all, in hindsight, the original group of friends I was going to live with were planning on staying in a house for two years, while the group I had now committed to, planned on staying in the house for one year, so stability was also a factor, and I just can't stop thinking about what a horrible mistake I made. I was unloyal, I was shady, and it just eats me alive. I should not have made such an impulsive decision, I should have thought things through more.
I have made up with all of my friends and things are good, but now I have put them and me into a nightmare scenario. I can't concentrate on my studies now, it just occupies my mind.
Grow a sack.
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Posted on 10/2/16 at 4:23 pm to pelicansfan123
This thread is pathetic. You probably did your friends a favor. Sucks for the guys you are living with though
Posted on 10/2/16 at 4:33 pm to The Torch
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This post was edited on 5/9/20 at 6:13 pm
Posted on 10/2/16 at 4:35 pm to pelicansfan123
whatever the allotment for the word "basically" being used in a post is, this person just reached it.
Posted on 10/2/16 at 4:35 pm to Hammertime
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This post was edited on 5/6/20 at 11:24 am
Posted on 10/2/16 at 4:37 pm to pelicansfan123
I would never try to walk a mile in your high heels but I'll take your word for it.
Posted on 10/2/16 at 4:37 pm to pelicansfan123
Girls are emotional. They will get over it. Buy them some froyo
Posted on 10/2/16 at 4:37 pm to pelicansfan123
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Never judge someone until you have walked a mile in his or her shoes
I'm not judging you, sweet pea. You just make me feel damned good about my life and put my missteps in perspective.
Eta: nevermind. I read your entire fricking sob story and you're a stupid fricking retard who should buy some titties and start suckin dicks at Mexican Border towns.
This post was edited on 10/2/16 at 4:41 pm
Posted on 10/2/16 at 4:41 pm to pelicansfan123
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Never judge someone until you have walked a mile in his or her shoes.
you arent talking about having cancer or your kid dying. you are seriously on here crying about a minor roommate situation in college. thats why you have been blasted all to hell on here
Posted on 10/2/16 at 4:43 pm to Deactived
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you arent talking about having cancer or your kid dying. you are seriously on here crying about a minor roommate situation in college. thats why you have been blasted all to hell on here
Exactly. frick this frickin twat right between his stolen crab legs
Posted on 10/2/16 at 4:43 pm to pelicansfan123
quote:good God
Basically what happened is I was all set to live next year with a group of my friends, but a couple people I thought were not fully committed, so I thought the housing situation was going to fall apart and I needed somewhere to live next year. Another one of my friends then contacted me and asked if I could live with him, another one of my friends, and then two random people (one of which I sort of know, but not really). The friend who called me basically told me that the other situation was falling apart, and that, basically, it would be in my best interest to take the current offer. I agreed without really thinking it through, thinking the situation was going to fall apart and did not want to renew the lease for the place I am living this year, so I just wanted somewhere to live. I was trying to find a big place that both groups could live in, though, and that combined with my fear of telling the other group about where I was living made it so I didn't tell the other group until like 12-24 hours later, and when I told them, saw how upset with me they were. I came off much shadier than I intended, and basically screwed some of my friends over, without meaning to.
I immediately regretted my decision (which I made on Thursday), was upset all weekend, and didn't even know how to proceed. I decided yesterday to build up my confidence (I have little confidence) and that today I was going to text the other friend who pulled me away from the other group that I felt too bad and that I was going to live with the friends I had initially committed to, but he said he was already turning people away from the place we were planning on renting, and basically that I was going to be screwing them over now if I left. I told him that I would stay, but that if someone else asks, to let me know, and basically they can have my spot.
On top of it all, in hindsight, the original group of friends I was going to live with were planning on staying in a house for two years, while the group I had now committed to, planned on staying in the house for one year, so stability was also a factor, and I just can't stop thinking about what a horrible mistake I made. I was unloyal, I was shady, and it just eats me alive. I should not have made such an impulsive decision, I should have thought things through more.
I have made up with all of my friends and things are good, but now I have put them and me into a nightmare scenario. I can't concentrate on my studies now, it just occupies my mind.
Posted on 10/2/16 at 4:57 pm to pelicansfan123
Group A -first group of people you committed to
Group B - second group you committed to
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Keep it simple.
You committed to Group A. Guy from Group B told you that Group A would not happen AND that Group B is turning away other people.
Remind Group B their assessment of Group A not happening is not accurate. Group A is happening. This allows you re-evalute honoring your first commitment. Since Group B claims they are turning other people away all they need to do is make a couple of phone calls and they will have your slot filled.
If they make a big deal out of it, then they lied Hillary Clinton style. He told you Group A was not going to happen, and you found out that is not true. Telling you that they are practically turning down other people means that they can easily fill you slot if they are telling the truth. They will only give you a hard time If they are telling another fib.
Do you really want to stay with that group if the ring leader gets you to join them by deceiving you?
Group B - second group you committed to
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he said he was already turning people away from the place we were planning on renting
Keep it simple.
You committed to Group A. Guy from Group B told you that Group A would not happen AND that Group B is turning away other people.
Remind Group B their assessment of Group A not happening is not accurate. Group A is happening. This allows you re-evalute honoring your first commitment. Since Group B claims they are turning other people away all they need to do is make a couple of phone calls and they will have your slot filled.
If they make a big deal out of it, then they lied Hillary Clinton style. He told you Group A was not going to happen, and you found out that is not true. Telling you that they are practically turning down other people means that they can easily fill you slot if they are telling the truth. They will only give you a hard time If they are telling another fib.
Do you really want to stay with that group if the ring leader gets you to join them by deceiving you?
Posted on 10/2/16 at 5:02 pm to pelicansfan123
You did whomever you don't live with a favor. They will realize it soon and you can ask them to thank you.
This post was edited on 10/2/16 at 5:03 pm
Posted on 10/2/16 at 5:07 pm to pelicansfan123
WTF --
No offense man, but never get a woman, as you are clearly a cuck.
No offense man, but never get a woman, as you are clearly a cuck.
Posted on 10/2/16 at 5:14 pm to pelicansfan123
I am not dumb enough or pussy enough to get myself into that situation. My friends wouldn't be whining and bitching either
Posted on 10/2/16 at 5:14 pm to djmicrobe
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This post was edited on 5/6/20 at 11:25 am
Posted on 10/2/16 at 5:18 pm to pelicansfan123
High likelihood that this decision was about you choosing to live with gam gam instead of pop pop
Posted on 10/2/16 at 5:24 pm to pelicansfan123
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pelicansfan123
What sorority are you in?
Posted on 10/2/16 at 5:24 pm to pelicansfan123
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I Made a Mistake, Feel Like Crap, Don't Know What To Do With Myself
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I screwed up, put myself in a bad position, put others in a bad position, and I can't think straight right now.
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any advice?
Posted on 10/2/16 at 5:29 pm to pelicansfan123
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Thank you for actually posting a legitimate reply. I really appreciate it.
No, a legitimate reply is calling you a pussy. Honestly, you're going to run into so much shite more severe than this, it is ridiculous. At least make it where you ruined a relationship with a girlfriend. Instead you inconvenienced future roommates. You didn't really frick up.
Man up, or you will be eaten alive by the real world. You're proof that this new generation of college kids are a bunch of pussies.
This post was edited on 10/2/16 at 5:31 pm
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