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re: I have a question about a 16 year old getting a car

Posted on 4/30/17 at 8:06 am to
Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
9784 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 8:06 am to
Just curious.....what are their expectations? Are they expecting to share a car? Or do they think they are each getting one? how do they feel about the situation?

Not asking because I think that has a factor on your decision. You are the parent so it is your decision 100%. I'm just curious as to what they are wanting or expecting
Posted by LSUGUMBO
Shreveport, LA
Member since Sep 2005
8493 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 8:06 am to
Tell them you have x amount to spend on a car- let them do the research and see if they want 2 cars for half that budget or 1 nicer car for the full amount
Posted by GaryMyMan
Shreveport
Member since May 2007
13498 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 8:16 am to
My twins are 11 months today and I'm already thinking about this. I think sharing one is fine as long as the other can borrow a parent's car if needed. 90% of the time they're going to the same place. College is a different story.
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30545 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 8:18 am to
Can you afford it? If not, then it doesn't matter if you are penalizing them
Posted by Crow Pie
Neuro ICU - Tulane Med Center
Member since Feb 2010
25296 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 8:19 am to
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Make them get a job to pay for gas and insurance. The one that doesnt, doesnt get to drive.
Posted by auisssa
Member since Feb 2010
4161 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 8:23 am to
I'm in the exact same situation. They turn 16 this summer. Both 4.0s and really good kids.

I'm thinking about getting them a car to share at 16 but surprising them at 17 each with a new (more likely a slightly used) car.



Posted by unbeWEAVEable
The Golf Board Godfather
Member since Apr 2010
13637 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 8:25 am to
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Get them each a car. I always liked the idea of giving them a price range and let them do the car shopping. Teaches them to research, work with aggressive sales people, and use common sense. Especially if you let them know they are paying for maintenance and mechanic work.



I think this is your answer.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36791 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 8:40 am to
Have you asked them their thoughts on the matter? Maybe they'll be cool about it and say 1 car is fine. Plus I'd want some feedback on what they want before I purchased something like a car.
Posted by MBclass83
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
9347 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 8:43 am to
One old car, reliable but not close to new. They will wreck it.
Prayers sent.
Posted by marcnbc
Bossier City, LA
Member since May 2004
4173 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 8:51 am to
Me & my brother are only a year apart my my sister is 3 years older than me(I'm the youngest)...we all got "new" cars. Weren't great, but they got us from point A to point B. we all had different things going on after school and would have made sharing difficult.

Some kids have a lot going on with school to where having a part time job during school is difficult. If paying their own insurance is really tough, make them pay for their own gas at a minimum and definitely get a summer job. JMO
Posted by lsufan1971
Zachary
Member since Nov 2003
18124 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 9:20 am to
That insurance is going to be the killer. If you live in LA it could be 10k a year depending on your limits. Bought my 17 yr old daughter a Jetta last year and my insurance went up 5 grand a year.
This post was edited on 4/30/17 at 9:40 am
Posted by nogoodjr
Member since Feb 2006
796 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 9:31 am to
I agree you should give them the budget (say 10k). Let them shop around and see what they can have if they share one nice car or buy 2 lesser vehicles. If they decide to share, they must organize the rotation. If they come to you with arguments, just take the keys away. Make them take the responsibility.
Posted by JakeTheTiger
Biloxi, MS
Member since Jul 2005
3152 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 9:45 am to
I'm a twin. Get them each their own car. I know when I was that age, I was sick of getting half of what my older brother got because I was a twin. I had the same group of friends as my twin, for the most part, but that didn't mean we went everywhere together or did everything together. We worked different jobs which would have been impossible while sharing a car. If they want to share a car, as opposed to getting two lesser cars, that's up to them. That's a discussion you need to have with them, though.
Posted by tigerbacon
Arkansas
Member since Aug 2010
3694 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 9:49 am to
Upgrade your car give the kid your current car. Upgrade the wife's car give the other that one. Problem sllved
Posted by dcrews
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2011
30166 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 9:53 am to
They are going to fight over who gets to use the car. It's not like they will only want to drive when going to school.

Just get them each an older car if you can afford it.
Posted by Esquire
Chiraq
Member since Apr 2014
11573 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 9:55 am to
Just buy a car for your favorite one.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
66982 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 10:51 am to
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What would the OT do?




Make them get a job and pay for their own shite.

Teach them the value of hard work and the a dollar. frick handouts.
Posted by TigrrrDad
Member since Oct 2016
7100 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 10:59 am to
How many cars do you have and how many drivers? Having one fewer car than drivers, thus making my teen a part-time driver, made his insurance $1,500/yr. instead of $6,500/yr.
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
15298 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 11:03 am to
do they hang out with the same kids?
Posted by Beessnax
Member since Nov 2015
9130 posts
Posted on 4/30/17 at 11:32 am to
Have you talked about what they want?
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