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How Would You Handle This OT Trashy Story?

Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:49 pm
Posted by dabigfella
Member since Mar 2016
6687 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:49 pm
I hate that Im even mentioning this bc it reeks of trashiness but long story short my fiancee had a cousin whose 33 whose wife died unexpectedly on sunday. The cousin and his immediate family have no money so he called my fiancee who he talks to once every 4 or 5 months tops. He asked her to help pay for the funeral so I took the funeral home info and called and it was $3000 for cremation + 2 services. I paid for it no biggie I wanted to help out and it wasn't a ton of money.

Anyways fast forward to tonight, and the deceased girls family throws up a go fund me page to raise money for her final expenses and Im like WTF I paid for everything. I dont know her family or anything but one of my fiancees relatives sent us the link

No Im not leaving fiancee the family members are like 5 states away lol.

What would you do these bastards are raising money for something they didnt even pay for. Im having a Michael Browns dad "burn this bish down" moment right now
This post was edited on 6/30/16 at 9:51 pm
Posted by lsusteve1
Member since Dec 2004
41931 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:50 pm to
You seem smart
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
120321 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:51 pm to
Just accept that they are trash. You will never see that $3000 again

Move on

Never speak to them again

How did she die?
This post was edited on 6/30/16 at 9:52 pm
Posted by PatDyesPants
Loachapoka, AL
Member since Jan 2016
3403 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:51 pm to
Pics of fiancee.
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
21933 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:51 pm to
Maybe they'll collect and pay you?
Posted by Bossier2323
Bossier CIty
Member since Sep 2014
1910 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:51 pm to
1. Quit acting like a pussy

2. Donate to his gofundme
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124467 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:51 pm to
Wouldn't worry about it

You did a good thing paying for it. Your wife should definitely let you put it in her butt a few seconds though
Posted by dabigfella
Member since Mar 2016
6687 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:52 pm to
sadly cosmo she got a tick bite and was misdiagnosed for a while at just having the flu. She ended up in the ICU for 2 weeks, they amputated toes,fingers, etc but eventually her organs shut down and she died.

Dont know the name of the disease exactly.
This post was edited on 6/30/16 at 9:53 pm
Posted by GEAUXT
Member since Nov 2007
29254 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:52 pm to
I'd call them out on it
Posted by birdieman
New Orleans
Member since Dec 2012
1647 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:52 pm to
Sucker...
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
120321 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:52 pm to
Damn. Lyme disease?
Posted by baybeefeetz
Member since Sep 2009
31638 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:52 pm to
Whose whose whose. 3k no biggie, eh. We got a rich man over here.

Just frickin with you.
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
142025 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:53 pm to
start a gofundme to pay your lawyer when you sue them
Posted by GEAUXT
Member since Nov 2007
29254 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:53 pm to
Either lyme disease or rocky Mountain spotted fever.

Is it possible the funds are for her medical expenses?
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25418 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:53 pm to
Keep your mouth shut and be skeptical of giving them money in the future.

Also, there are other expenses associated with death besides paying for cremation. You don't know all their financials.
This post was edited on 6/30/16 at 9:55 pm
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124467 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:53 pm to
Damn what a way to go

Wouldn't be surprised if they try to sue the people who misdiagnosed her.
Posted by fillmoregandt
OTM
Member since Nov 2009
14368 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:54 pm to
Don't do anything about it. Just one of those things that karma will pay you back on later
Posted by dabigfella
Member since Mar 2016
6687 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:54 pm to
Honestly I have no idea exactly what it was, it was from a tick bite though. Im not sure if caught earlier if it could have been stopped but the poor girl kept being sent home they kept telling her it was the flu or whatnot. Just fever and aches were symptoms then all of a sudden she had a heart attack and stroke and was in the ICU ever since till sunday night.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65722 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:54 pm to
Let it go, subtle brag noted herein, and lose some weight or your trashy wife will be paying soon for another funeral.

There's actually nothing to "handle".

Just move on with your life.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 6/30/16 at 9:56 pm to
What kind of humble brag shite post is this?
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