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re: How to tell a girl, "He's not gonna marry you, honey."

Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:40 pm to
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
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Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:40 pm to
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Ok. She's content with day to day bf/gf stuff.
But she does want more eventually.
Maybe I'm wording it wrong. She's happy but wants more. She's not unhappy with their relationship, she just wants to add on to it

If all of this is true and marriage is what she wants, then she needs to tell him that. If he isn't going to marry her, then she either has to be happy not being married or she needs to move on. Those are the only 2 options.
Posted by Sir Drinksalot
Member since Aug 2005
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Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:41 pm to
I agree but then they continue to defy logic. By about 7 years so far
Posted by H.M. Murdock
B.A.'s Van
Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:42 pm to
Maybe the guy does truly love her. Maybe the guy doesn't want to risk losing a good portion of his assets in a future divorce.
Posted by lsu2006
BR
Member since Feb 2004
39978 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:43 pm to
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How to tell a girl, "He's not gonna marry you, honey."

Preferably in a manner that doesn't make you sound like one of the blubbering vaginas from Sex and the City
Posted by Paige
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Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:43 pm to
you don't. here's an awesome song my cousin wrote about being in a relationship with a guy for seven years

they were high school sweethearts, played in the church band together and moved to nashville after college for him to pursue a career in music. she finally realized that he was never going to marry her and left him. she had no underlying motive such as money

you can't talk to people about their relationships. you're wasting your breath. you can be as rational and objective as you want and totally right, but you don't have the feelings that person has for their SO

Love will make you do crazy things
Posted by Sir Drinksalot
Member since Aug 2005
16741 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:44 pm to
Nope that's not the case
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
45726 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:45 pm to
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you can't talk to people about their relationships. you're wasting your breath. you can be as rational and objective as you want and totally right, but you don't have the feelings that person has for their SO

motherfricking this!!! All the experience that others have had in a relationship means absolutely nothing when it comes to one's own relationships.
Posted by H.M. Murdock
B.A.'s Van
Member since Feb 2013
2113 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:45 pm to
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Nope that's not the case


He po?
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:46 pm to
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Yeah she says it to him. He just says "ok" back to her



Awkward




For you fin:(cause I know you love boats)

Posted by Sir Drinksalot
Member since Aug 2005
16741 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:47 pm to
I think they are both in the same financial state.



Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:48 pm to
Does she do things without him? Ex: go on girls trips,etc.
Posted by H.M. Murdock
B.A.'s Van
Member since Feb 2013
2113 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:48 pm to
quote:

same financial state.


Well, I would just not worry about the situation? I didnt read this thread but are you wanting in on the lady?
Posted by Sir Drinksalot
Member since Aug 2005
16741 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:51 pm to
Yes she does.
Posted by Sir Drinksalot
Member since Aug 2005
16741 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:51 pm to
No I'm trying to contain myself.
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19239 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:52 pm to
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it would be funny if her 90k post was about her ex considering about 10k of the 90k were


A pie chart would be good. Ex bf, Arizona, work, marriage, costa rica, maybe some God in there too
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:52 pm to
YOU FORGOT PUGS!
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97618 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:54 pm to
only if az section included trashing baton rouge
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19239 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:54 pm to
almost said dogs but I guess this means you aren't talking about your pugs enough
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
45726 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:55 pm to
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YOU FORGOT PUGS!

quick hijack...i think my niece is getting a pug for her first birthday...in 10 months
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 5:55 pm to
Fin you should feel special.


My 90 k post was partly to you
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